Awareness = Difficulty?

Hi everyone

Last night I had my first WILD successfully. I woke up in my bed (False Awakening) and did not know that I was dreaming.
I got up because the sun was shining and I went out to meet my friends. When they all stood around me I suddenly thought "Hell I have to do a reality check".
Dunny why.
Anyway I pinched my nose and i could still breath.

I have to mention that this is only my second lucid dream, but there were a lot differences towards the first one (DILD) I had.

1. I was MUCH more aware, everything was clear just like in reality, I did a reality check like all two minutes, because it just felt so real.
2. It was so much longer than any dream I can remember, I thought inside the dream "amazing how long this is"
3. I had sex two times in the dream and against every post about this topic I did NOT wake up
4. And thats what the post was actually about, I found it a lot more difficult to use any overpowering abililties.
I could fly as always in my dreams, but it was definitly more difficult and I did not succeed in it when I wanted to show it to my friends!
I tried telekinese and Kamehameha (xD) but I did not suceed at one of them, I felt like trying it in waking life ;).

Have those difficulties something to do with the bigger awareness and reality of the lucid dream?
Why may I not be able to fly when I want to show it to friends?
Why did Sex not wake me up?
Are there some tricks to improve overpowering abilities in more realistic dreams?

Thanks for answers and comments
Thorim

Well, First off, it doesn' seem like you WILD, you might have just fallen asleep, and the DILD... But anyway.

Probably because you were second guessing yourself, It was so real, so you felt like you couldn't do what you wanted to... On some level atleast.
Same for second question
I don't do sex dreams, so I don't know.
once in a dream, don't second guess yourself, you're dreaming, do what you want!