1st DILD, help

I was looking at a plane go straight up in the the sky and a DC said "thats not real" , i replied "that has to be real" when they said again, "no its fake"..then i realized..hey im dreaming!!! I immediately did a RC after realizing.

Well I tried to transport to Pandora since it was the first thing i could think of and failed, ended up going into a house trying to get every girl to give me head but the "head mistress" kept on catching us before we could get started..

I was kinda semi-lucid after i tried transporting..any help on how to keep full control of my dreams??? should i have not tried to transport???

Transporting, spinning, etc. tend to have a negative impact on lucidity if you do not remind yourself that you are dreaming during/after you finish spinning or transporting. And don't worry too much about it...the first few lucids generally suck. Control will come with experience, too. :)

Before you start doing anything cool, remind yourself that it's all just a dream, that you can do anything and nothing can hurt you, and it's all in your imagination. If I don't do that, I find myself losing lucidity quickly or waking up.

Yes, focus on stabilization before you rush into trying to create such a complex dream world.

Check out this thread, http://www.dreamviews.com/community/...ad.php?t=70131

It really pisses me off that everytime you LD you have a chance to lose lucidity. its messed up =\