Trouble with Waking.

I have recently been able to awaken myself while dreaming, this is really fun I always float around it is fun, but for some reason, *maybe being a guy* there is always a hot girl that appears, and of course I undress and start u know what followed bye waking up and having to change my boxers.

I don't mind the sex dreams, but I love the lucid even better, and wish that they wouldnt be ruined by a orgasm, i mean I can do that whenever I want, but flying around is only like NEVER.
I wish there was a way to change my brains sexual thoughts but i guess i am a 21 year old filled with hormones and testosterone coming out of the wazoo.
anyways that is my lucid problem maybe someone c an help me out.

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Originally Posted by COLDBLOOD

I have recently been able to awaken myself while dreaming, this is really fun I always float around it is fun, but for some reason, *maybe being a guy* there is always a hot girl that appears, and of course I undress and start u know what followed bye waking up and having to change my boxers.

I don't mind the sex dreams, but I love the lucid even better, and wish that they wouldnt be ruined by a orgasm, i mean I can do that whenever I want, but flying around is only like NEVER.
I wish there was a way to change my brains sexual thoughts but i guess i am a 21 year old filled with hormones and testosterone coming out of the wazoo.
anyways that is my lucid problem maybe someone c an help me out.

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You control your dreams, if you are aware then try and do something different. If you see a hot chick and you say you'd rather start flying why not grab and and try to fly around etc...

It's all up to you in the end so do what you want to do. I'd say focus more on non sexual tasks to explore your dream control more and work on accomplishing goals that you'd like to do while being lucid.

I used to have this problem. I just avoided sexual theams while lucid, If the body gets aroused it usualy wakes up. It can be fun though.
I mean "it is fun though."

Some of us dreamers would actually discourage lucid dream *ahem* sex. There are so many other things you could be doing. Plus people often either lose lucidity or just wake up like in your case.

Focus your attention on something else, maybe create some goals. It's up to you really.

You could always try drilling a specific goal into your head before bed, affirming it to yourself in one way or another. Mustering enough willpower to overcome the physical desire may be tricky, but if you really want that goal, you'll be able to keep the snake in its cage. ;) I really recommend getting in the habit of stabilizing your dreams first thing. Before doing anything else, really cement it in your mind that you are dreaming. Ignore distractions as best as you can, and while dreaming, keep affirming to yourself that you're dreaming. This should also get easier with experience.

It is also possible to climax and not wake up, though it takes practice.

Oh I'm sure a good number of us has been there at some point. It is distressing after a while, that a perfectly lucid (pun intended) dream gets uh, wasted by our minds' shallower desires.

I suppose it is hard for a relatively young male to get the whole sex subject out of his mind. But as our friend Mario said above, you can, or rather, you _have_ to set a goal you wish to achieve on your mind, else that stray 'hot girl' is always bound to show up one time or another to screw up your dream. (pun NOT intended)

Personally, the last time such a scenario happened, I literally Ended The World As We Know It (tm) so that a member of the opposite gender would have no logical or illogical reason to be there.
Cruel? Yes, quite. But I'll be damned if I'll have one of my precious LDs washed away by that again :cheeky:

Your tooo funny, well thank you for the advice.
I will possibly chant before I go to bed, or think un sexy thoughts.

I had a strange dream last night, I knew I was Deaming but it never became lucid, I still had no control over my dream, it just flowe like a bad B rate movie,
fortunately I played a game on a computer *battlefeild 2* It was then projected on a 50 foot projection screen T.V, why I was playing the game,
well after I had the motor boat accident in the lagoon and had to be carried away in a helicopter, my friend wanted me to rest a little. damn broke my legs,
good thing I was dreaming.
I miss that game :( It was really trippy, I coul hear all of the sound effects like the ak going ba ba ba ba, and the tanks rolling up on me and the guys saying go go go, and I was really playing the game. if only it was lucid that would be awsome.
thanks for the advice
-ColdblooD-

Ok I just thought of something. What if you told the girl in your dream "you're a dude". I'm not trying to be immature here, but if you're not like gay/bi or anything, you could just try telling the girl that she's a he.

Maybe she will be like "hmm you're right" and turn into a guy.

I'm being serious.

Note that if you are bi, just DO NOT try that, it may get worse <.<
Err, anyway, since I disliked using lucid time for sex, I would either teleport away, hit the one that is causing the problem, or kill him/her, though not many like killing, so you can try the alternative of just trying to sink in the ground and "swim" away.