Thread: Two Sex Dreaming Questions??

1. Depends on how you (or your subconscious) thinks it will feel.
2. Depends on the person. I've had dream orgasms where I thought I'd cum my skeleton, but I wake up with dry knickers. The more common story seems to be sticky boxers, but again, depends how far you're under, among other factors.

1. It will feel like your dick is getting chopped off by a katana. Quite a frightening experience, I might add.
2. I doubt you'll ever get that far (See 1).

Originally Posted by Slapp62

1) If someone is a virgin, then how does having sex in a lucid dream feel?
and
2) When you orgasm in a LD, do you also orgasm and ejaculate in r/l?

From personal experience...

1) Same as real life.
2) Yes, happened to me about four times.

Originally Posted by XeL

1. It will feel like your dick is getting chopped off by a katana. Quite a frightening experience, I might add.
2. I doubt you'll ever get that far (See 1).

Woah... am I glad I keep waking up during foreplay.

You know, I'm on the fence whether I should try Lucid sex. I have close female friends, ones I love to bits but have no sexual interest in. It'd be... fun to try it in a dream, but I'd feel a little guilty for doing it. Then again, I don't have to tell anyone do I?

go for it man, thats what fantasies are about. unless you think it might change your feelings towards her.

Originally Posted by Fonzythedog

You know, I'm on the fence whether I should try Lucid sex. I have close female friends, ones I love to bits but have no sexual interest in. It'd be... fun to try it in a dream, but I'd feel a little guilty for doing it. Then again, I don't have to tell anyone do I?

What is this "guilt" in which you speak? It's only wrong if someone gets hurt. And nobody has to get hurt.

Originally Posted by Slapp62

go for it man, thats what fantasies are about. unless you think it might change your feelings towards her.

Yeah, pretty much this. A casual dream fling shouldn't do much to your attraction, especially if you remind yourself that it was your (highly talented) subconscious doing all the work.

Well now that you guys put it that way, I'll put it on my list of things to do!

EDIT - I tried to summon her last night, but it didn't work. It was my first summon attempt so I'm not too worried about that.

When I had my first sex dream I was a virgin. It feels the way you think it would feel, pretty damn good anyway. I know that this sounds pathetic but I actually prefer dream sex over real sex. No complications or drama involved.
As for your second question, yes it can happen and it's called a wet dream.

to awnser number one im a virgin and i cant really say i felt anything it was mostly just pleasure but i only got lucid at the very end

1) Just feels good. Like Mario92 said, it'll feel however you/your subconscious thinks it'll feel. Which, it's curious to think how everyone thinks it will feel and how that effects it in their dreams...or even how in general sex dreams are like for everyone because it does feel differently...okay, shutting up now.
and
2) I've had...maybe 3 now where I woke up swearing that I had just been dry humping...whatever, squeezing my legs together. But I still don't know if I was actually doing that in RL or in the dream? It's a curious thing. But other times I wake up just remembering the sexual content, not feeling like I had actually been reacting in RL. *scratches head*

Originally Posted by Slapp62

1) If someone is a virgin, then how does having sex in a lucid dream feel?
and
2) When you orgasm in a LD, do you also orgasm and ejaculate in r/l?

1. Good?
2. Sometimes, I guess.

1) Most of the time I've felt nada, nothing.. like your actually not doing it. Though if you do put focus on it I've felt it a little.
2)depends on your body and dream body control. If you don't pay attention, whichever could happen. But I've learnt as of late with a intent on not wanting anything to happen in physical body it usually goes like that and your dry. But you can make your real body do it with a little focus even though you aren't doing anything or aren't aroused or anything inside the dream. Just go put a little thought and focus on the nether parts and see what might happen, I encountered that by accident and was quite surprised.

A good friend of mine told me that when he dreamt of sex (before he had actually had sex in RL) it was more realistic than it felt when he actually got around to having sex. Which is pretty weird...

For me though it was never very realistic, and then after I'd had sex, dream sex became very close to the real thing.

I've had tons of lucid sex, usually I have a difficult time cumming but it does happen and I personally have never made a mess of myself... I woke myself just to check the first couple times and I was so pissed cause I could've still been dreaming... I also have had lucid sex before I lost my virginity... and I'll tell you it beats the hell outta well... Beatin it.

I can't quite remember how it felt before having sex, but I think it was pretty much like the real thing.
Interesting, I haven't really thought about that too much. Hmmm.

I find it can feel weird, exactly the same, or much better than real sex.
They should make Fleshlights designed for dream sex.

What you're wearing (if anything) could effect how it feels.
So do you hump the bed during a sex dream? For males: are you hard?

I can finish the job and can continue on with the dream, but half of the time
I'll wake up humping the bed, trying not to consciously realize it so I can finish..
I usually rise back up into my eyes and give up at that point. Not the greatest wake up.

if I don't have sex or masturbate for a week or two, I'll make a mess in my boxers and it's better than real sex. Well worth it.
A good way to bring on sex dreams, if the will power or reason is there.

this

1. like the most awesome experience ever, ten times better then mr. right hand.
2. in my experience it's like when I was very young I wet my bed while I dreamed that I was peeing. Then after a while I could pee all I wanted and not spill a drop IRL. And cumming in a dream you may think that it's a massive load but IRL it can be just a bit moist. hehe...

Yeah, good point. I often expected to wake up in a puddle when I piss a whole lot in a dream. But there's never any wetness.