Need Help Setting the Scene !

Hi
Definite Newbie posted on a yahoo group the other day looking for some help setting the scene anyone ?
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Yesterday

Now only yesterday I decided it was time to get a grip of my dreams I
have always been able to remember them clearly but whenever I tried
to take control I just woke up
well I red up a little and discovered a few tricks of looking at the
ground and spinning and using a mirror to test if I was asleep well
this is how it went

I went to sleep concentrating on trying to realize that when I was
dreaming I would start to awake as we all do with our natural
internal clock you know the way you just wake up a minute before your
alarm goes of (I have never had to use an alarm clock in all my years)

well it must have been around 2.30 in the morning
I dreamt I was back at my parents home and just as I came down the
stairs I began to realize, that I was dreaming and went to where the
mirror should be in the house and their it was I could see myself in
it and it looked as there was no glass a clear picture of myself I
realize now why you have to prove to yourself it's just a dream I
reached in and my hand sank in the t mirror then my body I pulled
away ( I had read that this was a way to change scenes and I did not
wish to do this) at this point with I remember seeing a big smile on
my face in the reflection on realizing I was dreaming, I walked away
from the mirror and pushed my hand at the wall and felt it pass
through though I couldn't get all the way through as the wall was
below ground level outside I contemplated climbing up and over but
thought it best to open the door
as I went outside I though OK so what do I do now, I was beginning to
get a little worried that maybe I wasn't dreaming so I ran to a
neighbors a house (where a stunning young woman used to live:0) I
pushed with my hand at the wall then my whole body and passed inside
I entered the house and looked around all the rooms but could find no
one in, it sempt by this point I had been roaming around for quite
sometime I did not want to wake up before investigating fully so went
outside just as my friend was walking by with his wife, well knowing
my time may be short and I could wake up at any minute I grabbed her
hand and puled her along behind me she followed willingly once we
where out of view (don't know why we had to get out of view I think
maybe I felt I would wake if my friend was to ask what I was doing)
well I started to remove my cloths and she followed along just then I
began to awake (bugger) all the surrounding images turned black and
disappeared and her detail began to fade so I focused hard down at
the ground well bugger me if it didn't all came back, as we began to
make love it started to fade again so I tried to spin round on the
spot Lol! this was a little hard and only managed to shake my head
but it seamed to work and all came back again, well I can leave the
rest to your imagination but lets just say I had to put some clean
underwear on in a hurry , lol I was worrying all the time which
didn't help that I was shaking the bed and my wife would wake up Lol
luckily she didn't

Just got to wait for tonight now for part 2 :)

the only thing that I couldn't seem to control was the scene I
couldn't will people or places in to it any one got any tips with that

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Today

I have got to say I have never been able to control my dreams like
this before it's absolutely bizarre and so so scary I'm very worried
that I'm messing with something I shouldn't be (don't want to end up
having a mental crash or anything) some reassurance would be much
appreciated.

when I went to bed last night I was sort of scared but still excited
I decided that I would not get involved with my dreams 3 times yes 3
ruddy times during the night I felt myself in a position where I
could take control but I decided not to. I decided that the settings
where just not interesting enough to take over and risk damaging my
mind (if that's possible in any way ?) .I would hate to be in a
position where I could no longer sleep peacefully, as when I awoke
the night before I was still well tired.

just for anyone who's interested these where the 3 times.

First time I was standing in empty car park leaning up against a wall
there was no one around I could not here or see anyone.

Second time I was (get this) looking for some remote control sheep I
had lost :0 (I know bizarre). I then sent a sheep dog to find a
friend to help me which it did. Then we both went looking for the
sheep, I know I could have taken control at any time but just could
not see the point (I'm not a farmer by the way:!).

Third time was a little more rude and it involved to others I did not
get involved here neither let just say the two others where not ones
I would want to get involved with (more like a nightmare) so I woke
up.

What I need to do is control the scene any ideas or tips anyone ?
and is this really safe I'm really worried that I may get in to
something that I just cant stop ?



All the best

Stef

unless you have some kind of mental disorders...it's perfectly safe.

Lol ! hopefully not

I had the problem again last night

I could just not set the scene ,I was in a war zone for the first one very detailed and graphical though, I was in a no mans land between Israel and somewhere with helicopters shooting at me

the bugger of the thing is the best one I had I only caught a glimpse of, I was in bed with lots of naked young woman the problem was I new I had to get up as I was late for work as it was , it's almost as if my subconscious was laughing at me ' there you go but your not going to play with it hahaha'

all the best

stef