Dream Sex Strategies *Possibly graphic*

I've been trying for my past several lucids to have dream sex. The closest I got until now was in an attempt where my... "movements" gave me the feeling that my legs were moving on my bed, and weakened the lucid since I began to feel my body in real life.

I decided to try dream sex again in my last lucid, and a change in strategy led to a happy ending i.e. orgasm/ejaculation

Rather than focus on the physical movements and speed, I decided to carry out the actions. like anything else in a lucid, by more mentally commanding my body to move. The distinction may not be clear, and I wish I could explain it better, but I basically moved by thinking about myself moving rather than actually moving. (Yeah, that's confusing)

So, now that I accomplished one of my largest lucid goals (I'm a teenage guy, what do you expect?), I have a few questions for those experienced in Dream Sex.

There isn't all that much information about dream sex on the forums that I could find in a search, so maybe this thread could be useful to others seeking similar goals.
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1. Is there anyway to keep from waking/ejaculating during orgasm?
2. If orgasm wakes me, is DEILD possible?
3. How do I increase my endurance?
4. Does masturbation before sleep affect dream sex?

If you are one of those people who pees in reality when you use the bathroom in a dream, then you'll probably ejaculate IRL.

I have peed the bed due to dreams before, but not in years (Since I was like 7 or 8). Ejaculating IRL isn't really the issue, it's that I'm being woken up when it happens. I wouldn't care about ejaculation if I could sleep through it. Not to mention ejaculation while asleep can be uncomfortable depending on how I'm sleeping.

One thing you could possibly try in regards to #1 is to try and become capable of having multiple orgasms. I don't know how much this would help you, but I've had numerous sexual encounters and yet to make a mess. :content: Run a google search on "male multiple orgasm."

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Originally Posted by Mario92

One thing you could possibly try in regards to #1 is to try and become capable of having multiple orgasms. I don't know how much this would help you, but I've had numerous sexual encounters and yet to make a mess. :content: Run a google search on "male multiple orgasm."

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That was some pretty interesting reading, but how applicable would it be for a dream? I don't know if I could clench a muscle IRL while dreaming.

Yes....I imagine it would take time to have it become almost a standard response. If it becomes a normal thing to do in real life, though, it may very well carry over to dream land, too. Either way, you're looking at weeks or months. It's about the only thing I know of, other than tantric sex, which I think would possibly be more applicable. Ninja made a cool thread on that some time ago...I lost the bookmark when I did a clean install.

if u want to have better dream sex or lucid sex watever dont masterbate

I've had dream sex before, but only a couple times and I wasn't lucid when it happened.
However, it did feel surprisingly real, which I wasn't expecting :P

this may be off of subject but if someone can orgasm just by thinking it and it happens irl imagine what otd be like if you learned how to do so while awake lol and what else you could control in a dream like exiting out of sleep paralisis dirring dream cycle and sleepwalk talk ect... imagine the possibilities

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Originally Posted by Coolb3rt

this may be off of subject but if someone can orgasm just by thinking it and it happens irl imagine what otd be like if you learned how to do so while awake lol and what else you could control in a dream like exiting out of sleep paralisis dirring dream cycle and sleepwalk talk ect... imagine the possibilities

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It's called tantric sex. Some people actually do that. ;)

ok... thats... just fine :) well im off to who knows where... :shadewink: :hump::dancingcow::poke::awesomed::awesomed::buns: :buns::armflap:

1 If you never had it happen before, don't worry about it, otherwise, fear of it makes it more likely, so does heat in your sleeping area. I've heard someone say Vitamin C helps with nocturnal emissions, so I'm guessing it would help in nocturnal emissions caused by dream sex as well. Laying on your stomach makes it more likely.
2 DEILD should work as long as you are still very tired, if you find that the orgasm waked you up and made your brain super-active, then you probably can't. Just remember to focus, if it doesn't work, try a FILD/WILD?
3 It's a dream, actually a good place to prolong your endurance IRL. If your having trouble with with it, just remember to focus on all your senses, and your surroundings as well. Same if it makes you wake up often, it'll keep you detached enough to feel it, and continue afterwards as well.
4 Not entirely sure, I always decided not to masturbate if I was going to have a sex dream, so that I could better enjoy it, but it shouldn't matter too much. You get horny in your dreamstate pretty easily... I'd do the opposite if I didn't want a sex dream, Masturbate, then sleep, knowing I'm content. If you plan on having a sex dream, it shouldn't matter, although the feeling might be stronger if you expect it to be because you haven't gotten anything for a while IRL.
Just my two cents.

I'm surprised nobody has ever considered having orgasms without sex in dream. One of my goals is to have an orgasm everywhere on my body, each atom feeling amazing. I'd think somebody would have tried this already, especially considering they have a pill in RL that can do that, so it's definitely possible...

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Originally Posted by Bigpun

if u want to have better dream sex or lucid sex watever dont masterbate

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You may be right for most people but for me masturbating doesn't make my dream sex worse, in any case it actually gives me more dreams of sex ha ha