I put the phone under my pillow and had vibrating alarm only. I wakes me up and doesn't disturb her. Whats great about it is I can set any app to open when the alarm goes off. So I get my Journal app that I use to take notes. It worked great for me. I only got 2 dreams and one of them I didn't write enough to make sense of it. I got lazy on the others and didn't write anythi.... but what the heck? I just remembered one while typing this. LOL!