Originally Posted by
-InsaneKid-
Welcome to dreamviews! Though I think you might have a misunderstanding about lucid dreaming. "Being lucid" is knowing that you are dreaming when it is happening. So:
You contradict yourself. ;)
Lucidity has nothing to do with control, though being lucid often makes control worlds easier.
As for being more aware, do as the guys said and keep a dream journal and look for dream-signs. I like to use a recorder, personally, so I don't have to get up to write a dream (making dream chains moreso a possibility) then you can type it up on the computer (or write it down) in the morning. But if you want to get into an easy way of having more lucids, look into the DILD method in the tutorials section. It is a great starting method that should play off your dream journal quite well. If you want something a bit different and don't mind waking up in the middle of the night, you can look up one of the various WBTB methods which are highly effective.
Anyway, good luck with your dreams!