Why does a boy I know end up in my dreams that co-incide with kidnappings?

Why does a boy I know end up in my dreams that co-incide with kidnappings? Depending on what dreams they are P. is either a)helpful b)a kidnapper or c) other

the first time he appeared in a dream it was after I got kidnapped, 2nd time- I almost got kidnapped in a dream after I fainted (I was going to play Ariel in TLM, P was going to play Prince Eric-hence the reason I fainted in that dream) he got me out of the closet, but the second time in the same dream both he and I were kidnapped, in the 3rd dream he was a kidnapper, and in the 4th dream he was helpful (all the dreams except the first one are in my DJ)

Are you 100% sure it's the same person playing the good guy and the bad guy?

I get that the common connection seems to be kidnappings but can you be more specific about his roles in your dreams?

• In the first time he appeared it was after you got kidnapped, what role did he play in that dream?
• Second time you say you almost got kidnapped but you don't mention what he was doing other than getting you out of a closet. Then am I to understand that in that same second dream the two of you were both kidnapped? I'm presuming he was an innocent persona at least at the end of that dream.
• In the third one I get that he was the kidnapper.
• In the fourth one you say he was helpful but that's all. You don't mention a kidnapping at all.

I'm not going to go looking through your dream journal desperately searching for mentions of some "boy" you haven't given a description of so can you be more helpful in here with what roles he plays?

With the limited information you've given, betrayal is the first thing that springs to mind. Kidnappings are the common connection but he turns against you and does to you a horrible thing that was originally done to the both of you as a pair.

The kidnappings could be completely unrelated and merely serve as a way to create the dream. As such it's also possible he's your Animus — your masculine side attempting to be noticed by you. This, now that I think about it, seems more likely simply because the idea of kidnappings are generally seen as a masculine action or trait — especially when it comes to the abduction of a woman. Click and read here

The boy is Cauiasin (like me), with black hair-(if he's mentioned he's either called "a boy I know" or P.) The first dream he appeared in he appeared as someone who helped me get a ride (on a moterclyce) back to the train station where my friends were looking for me. The second time, I got the part of Ariel in a Disney play of The Little Mermaid (without auditionting), he appeared as the actor who would be playing Prince Eric. So I fainted and almost got kidnapped but P. found me after I shouted his dog's name, the second time (in the same dream) he and I were practising the "row boat" scene (you know the "Kiss the Girl?") in real water and both he and I got kidnapped after getting back to shore.

The 3rd time he was the kidnapper the only thing he actually did that I can remember is threaten my life at gunpoint when the fictional hero came with a gun. (interesting enouch another boy I know showed up in this dream).

In the last dream he appeared in. He and the other boy (mention above) were coming up to a farm (where I was staying) to appogize for bullying in elementary school. But I was off playing Nancy Drew in a way. But P. had alot of lines. His first line was "Oh yeah. I remember that Anne wanted to be a dective when she grew up" Than when I was hiding in the bushes with P. and T-but they joined the tacking-sp? and there was attemped kidnapped. That's when P.'s second line comes in "These look like car tire prints-and the car tires are snow tires". Somehow I know P's cellphone number after I escaped from the car. and 5 days later I got kidnapped and P and the others were looking for me so `"These aren`t car, or truck prints there are van prints-snow tire van prints. I know Anne wants to play dective but isn`t this getting to be a bit dangerous?".

Helpful?

I doubt this is useful but I was looking over my dreams and I noticed that he started appearing in my dreams after his family got a motorcycle

Oh so this is a person you know in real life? My baaaaaaaaaad. Completely forget everything I said in my first reply.
I simply don't have a clue but if I were to hazard a guess I'd say perhaps you just like having him in your dreams and you throw a bit of danger or adventure in to spice it up. Sorry I can't be any help.

"P" showed up again in a dream after I saw Tangled. But so far he hasn't been in my dreams lately.