soul talk

I had a lucid dream last week I must share. I was sitting in the garden of my old house (where I used to live until I discovered my ex wife (EW) was having a thing with my ex best pal (EBP), where they both still live in happy f***ing union). I couldn't think how I got there and was a bit nervous that they'd think I was stalking them or something! But then EW came out to do something and she saw me, but instead of asking what the hell I was doing there, she sat down at the garden table and we started talking, not the usual ranting that we both do so well now, but real, compassionate 'I'm really sorry' type talking, it was touching. I kept saying 'but this is a dream isn't it?' and she would say 'I don't think it is, but if it is - just remember this', and she picks up an old trainer from under the table and waves it in the air. 'I know I'll forget, remind me of this shoe, ok?'. Okay, I said. I immediately awoke and couldn't get it outta my head, it was such a vivid dream. Later on that day I called her and asked if she'd had a weird dream the night before, she said she didn't remember. I didn't tell her anything, but asked her to go check to see if there was an unusual object under the garden table - you guessed it, the trainer was there. (I must point out, I've not stepped foot in that garden for 5 years). She seemed a bit shaken, but I'm sure she thinks I put it there or something (I didn't).

I reckon we communicated on a deep soul level there, putting our (not so petty :mad: ) squabbling to one side - in fact we were oblivious to it almost. Not too easily done under normal circs. When EBP came out to see what was going on (in the dream) he did his best to ignore us talking, as if he knew to leave us alone). It was cool - and it's great when you get that little bit of evidence to take back with you into AWAKE LAND!!

strange...

hopefully its helped you move on, at least a little.

Hi,

Yeah it has a bit actually, murderous thoughts have been downgraded to just a little torture now and again instead! :|

Hey Chell. Welcome to Dream Views :)

Possibly you've been desiring a time where you can reconcile (to some extent) with your ex-wife. Have you been able to forgive what she's done? As for the trainer, that's beyond me.

Well, we're glad that you're here and if there's anything that we can help you with just let us know.

-Amé :sunflower:

Hi and thankyou,

I'm over reconciling - just was curious about the shoe and it's tangible significance. How does that happen?? :?