Newbie here^^;

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02-07-2006, 07:57 PM
wataru

Newbie here^^;

Hello to all!
This is my first time on this great site,and I just wanted to introduce myself..
So hello.My name is Wataru and I'm here to explore lucid dreaming and possibilitys it opens
ahead of me.
And yes,I have a question for any Admins or Mods that may stumble in here,or just to anyone who can help me.
It's about adoption program.
The reason why I'm here is to try and stop my nightmears and flashbacks that i suffer from for the last 3 years,trough lucid dreaming.
I know I should be on the site at leest two weeks before try and find someone who would help me with my training,but im little desperate here,you see..
Im just one insomniac girl that would like to try and control my nightmares as soon as possible,and maybe actually get some sleep after 3 years.

^^; I am awere of the fact that it takes lot of hard work,and I dont mind that.
Still,I'm just a beginner.If i sleep at night,in the morning I can recall 4 to 5 my dreams,and twice I actually did expirience lucid dream.but for a very short time,because I lost the control
of the dream soon after I realized i was just dreaming...

Im sorry if my post was a bother,and I would want to apologize on my weak english..
^^; Im just learing it for about four years,and I know its very hard to read it,but I will try to write the best can!
02-07-2006, 08:09 PM
nesgirl119

Re: Newbie here^^;

Quote:

Originally posted by wataru
Hello to all!
This is my first time on this great site,and I just wanted to introduce myself..
So hello.My name is Wataru and I'm here to explore lucid dreaming and possibilitys it opens *
ahead of me.
And yes,I have a question for any Admins or Mods that may stumble in here,or just to anyone who can help me.
It's about adoption program.
The reason why I'm here is to try and stop my nightmears and flashbacks that i suffer from for the last 3 years,trough lucid dreaming.
I know I should be on the site at leest two weeks before try and find someone who would help me with my training,but im little desperate here,you see..
Im just one insomniac girl that would like to try and control my nightmares as soon as possible,and maybe actually get some sleep after 3 years.

^^; I am awere of the fact that it takes lot of hard work,and I dont mind that.
Still,I'm just a beginner.If i sleep at night,in the morning I can recall 4 to 5 my dreams,and twice I actually did expirience lucid dream.but for a very short time,because I lost the control
of the dream soon after I realized i was just dreaming...

Im sorry if my post was a bother,and I would want to apologize on my weak english..
^^; Im just learing it for about four years,and I know its very hard to read it,but I will try to write the best *can!

Hey there and welcome to the forum!!
Well, after you are here for 2 weeks, you can find someone who you think is right for you. That is why they say you should be a member for 2 weeks.
Controlling nightmares is easy. All you have to do is just know you are dreaming (LDing), and remember they cannot really hurt you. They will not hurt you, if you know it is only a dream.
About the insomnia part, I would suggest trying to get a hold of a psychiratrist of some sort, so they can assign you some sleep meds (I take them a lot too).
This post didn't bother me at all. As for the English, just keep trying on it, and don't worry, I don't really mind it.
And if you have any other questions, feel free to ask!!
02-07-2006, 08:19 PM
jdrisc247

welcome

welcome to DV. I am also new and if you would like since im not sure if they will let you be adopted yet, you could stay in touch with me and we could share what we have learned. This is just an idea and i will not be offended if you dont want to do this. O...and by way, your english seemed pretty good to me! Just PM me any time that you want.
02-07-2006, 08:41 PM
wataru

:) thank you both for replys^^
To nesgirl..Well..My nightmares are actually flashbacks of real events,so it isnt easy for me to control them.But that can be due the fact im not strong enaugh yet!
And now im just waiting for those two weeks to past as soon as possible^^
And to jdrisc.. I would really much like to stay in contact with you! I doubt you will be able to learn anything from me,but I would be grateful if you would let me learn something from you^^
02-07-2006, 08:51 PM
nesgirl119

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Originally posted by wataru
:) thank you both for replys^^
To nesgirl..Well..My nightmares are actually flashbacks of real events,so it isnt easy for me to control them.But that can be due the fact im not strong enaugh yet!
And now im just waiting for those two weeks to past as soon as possible^^

I see.
The answer to that then is stress. Stress can cause that to happen, and can make it very difficult to not only get back into control of the dream, but to recall it as well. The solution is to try to relax and not think about that as soon as you go to bed. Playing some music can help (I listen to music myself, not to help w/LDing, but to help clear away my stress).
Don't be too anxious. Enjoy the site during these two weeks first.
02-07-2006, 09:01 PM
wataru

^^ I will do that. heh..Im such an anxious monster! =D
02-07-2006, 09:02 PM
Burns

Wataru, firstly, your English is very good. I admire people who are bilingual. Sometimes it's hard to read some people's posts because of all the abbreviations or computer slang that's commonly used in forums like this.

Anyway, have you ever talked to a close friend or relative about these flashbacks you get? Sometimes just talking about it to someone helps lighten the burden it has on you. You can always PM members that you trust and talk about it, too. Most people on the DV forums are glad to help.

If you have talked about it to other people before, and still experience them, my advice would be to do some relaxation exercises before falling asleep. Sometimes clearing your mind of all thought will yield better dreams. Dwelling on everyday thoughts or fears about what you'll dream about may encourage those dreams to manifest. Do some deep breathing exercises and try to completely clear your mind - concentrate on keeping your mind absolutely clear before falling asleep.

As someone else said, nightmares and flashbacks can be easily controlled when you are lucid dreaming (because you'll know nothing can hurt you because you're asleep), but I understand you may not be to that stage yet, so while you're working on it, you can try the relaxation exercises in the meantime.

Then in 2 weeks time, if you're still interested, I'm sure someone will be happy to adopt you and work with you more one on one.

Good Luck and Good Dreams!
02-07-2006, 09:03 PM
nesgirl119

Quote:

Originally posted by wataru
^^ I will do that. heh..Im such an anxious monster! =D

Sometimes, I can be, too.
Only 12 more days until I am a year old on here!! Though I am really old enough to vote....
And only 2 days later than that, you'll be able to get adopted....how exciting!!
02-07-2006, 09:07 PM
wataru

=D
*claps hands*
A year! Thats awesome^^
Its so strange..On mos forums Im the one who greets newbies,and now im actually one again!
:D
02-07-2006, 09:09 PM
Barbizzle

haha. That must feel weird. I am a nnob aholic here, and i know it would be so strange to be new, no one know who I am, and have no connections right away :P If ou ever need anything at all, just PM me :)
02-07-2006, 09:11 PM
wataru

Quote:

Originally posted by Barbizzle
haha. That must feel weird. *I am a nnob aholic here, and i know it would be so strange to be new, no one know who I am, and have no connections right away :P *If ou ever need anything at all, just PM me :)

hehe..^^
I will remember that,so dont be surprised if u recieve a weard PM anytime soon!
Yes..Imagine..You are new..Dont know anyone..Nobody worships you..
ooops :oops:
=D
02-07-2006, 09:16 PM
Dagget

That's the best thing about the internet.

Nomatter what you are like IRL you can come to forum confident and everyone will great you with a smile and unopinionated. Few exceptions to this rule like maybe your name and avatar and such but generally a lot more open that offline societies.

Welcome to Dreamviews Naruto fan :)
02-07-2006, 09:19 PM
nesgirl119

Quote:

Originally posted by wataru
=D
*claps hands*
A year! Thats awesome^^
Its so strange..On mos forums Im the one who greets newbies,and now im actually one again!
:D

....well not quite.. :oops: Still have 12 days left.
I don't even join other forums. Only this one!!
02-07-2006, 09:20 PM
wataru

Quote:

Originally posted by Dagget
That's the best thing about the internet.

Nomatter what you are like IRL you can come to forum confident and everyone will great you with a smile and unopinionated. Few exceptions to this rule like maybe your name and avatar and such but generally a lot more open that offline societies.

Welcome to Dreamviews Naruto fan :)

^^Thank you so much!
And..Its not cuz Gaara is antisocial..Killing machine..But because of the physical resemblence and the fact we are both insomniacs^^;
02-07-2006, 09:22 PM
wataru

Quote:

Originally posted by nesgirl119

....well not quite.. :oops: *Still have 12 days left.
I don't even join other forums. Only this one!!

Wow! Really?
Im Admin on one naruto forum and Mod of few other forums..
:mad: Thats coz of my people skils! LOL
^^ well..So strange..To be a newbie..^^but i shall enjoy it!
12 days? lets count down shall we!
02-07-2006, 09:29 PM
nesgirl119

Quote:

Originally posted by wataru

Wow! Really?
Im Admin on one naruto forum and Mod of few other forums..
:mad: Thats coz of my people skils! LOL
^^ well..So strange..To be a newbie..^^but i shall enjoy it!
12 days? lets count down shall we!

Really.
I could never handle the skills you have like that, b/c
Okay....I will do that in my avatar.
02-07-2006, 10:37 PM
Dagget

Quote:

Originally posted by wataru

^^Thank you so much!
And..Its not cuz Gaara is antisocial..Killing machine..But because of the physical resemblence and the fact we are both insomniacs^^;

Gaara is a big softie, he loves Naruto at least in this wallpaper I have...

*ahem* anyway....

<j/k btw>