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Originally posted by 90sjesus
What I'm confused about is whether I'm trying too hard, or not trying hard enough, it appears to be quite a fine line. I've read somewhere that wanting it too much can decrease the possiblity of them and my brain is frustraitingly stubborn to me at all times, I am known to have long arguments with myself :P Do you think I should try not to think about it during the day and see where my dreams take me, or try learning new techniques? Any help would be very welcomed, this website looks so cool.
You sound so much like me, I indeed would describe myself as wanting it too much, for the last 4 days its pretty much all I've thought about. I don't know if it's detrimental or not but it's certainly hard to suppress! I really don't have advice as I am grappling with much the same dilema myself. I have kinda taken the path of letting my thoughts go where they will go. If I think about it during the day, so be it. If I don't I don't, the main thing I think I am beginning to learn is you can't really force anything to happen. Hope I have been of some help!