Help! Why am i dreaming things i dont like or wans think!!!

This is nusts for me cause it happens offten...i am a dude and sometimes i have dreams of beeing gay and even having gay sex sometime...what the hell is wrong with me...i love chicks and i disslike gay people and whould never desire or think such a thing...why would i dream aout it dose it mean something...i am not sexually active at this time and i dont even what to think about it...mad at a past ex so that my be it...but how do i stop dreams like this form happening to me...sombodey pleas help.

First of all...i encourage you to NOT HATE GAYS...they are people, with a different lifestyle.

Second...i think i have had dreams about being gay, and it means nothing...its just a dream. Don't worry about it, man. Your heterosexual in the waking life, just perhaps your afraid of being gay, or you passionately don't want to so your subconcious dreams about it!

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just perhaps your afraid of being gay, or you passionately don't want to so your subconcious dreams about it![/b]

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In a way i am, but why would my subconcious want to torment me...how woud i tell my suconcious no and never have it happen ever again...i know it can be done...is their something i need to do in the real world that would change this...cause usually if i change something in the real world it will effect my dreams.

I am first to say,
Welcome to the forum Ano! :aphiusisonecrazySOB:

Secondly, it is not a good idea to introduce yourself to a forum and make the declaration that you hate gays. You don't know what kind of response you'll get. There are people who would, and probably will, flame you for saying something like that.

Well, for your question. Maybe you should not dislike gays so much. I know that the more you don't want to think about something the more you will end up thinking about it...

<< Not any kind of expert

Its like Lowercase said. Its just a dream. I think that the media has hyped up a view of dreams. They are portrayed in the movies and such like they're what you want to happen, but they're not. They're just random and psychological stuff most of the time.

Yeah I agree with LC don't hate gay's because they are different, they're just people with different lifestyles we gotta except everyone. Maybe deep down you may want to experiment and if thats the case then thats something you may have to deal with. But you gotta find a way to surpress whatever feelings toward Gays that you have, thats the first step.

Hrmph, you should really change your sig, its rather contradictory to what you've said. *bites tongue*

Anyways, cant you use that to maybe become lucid? And then you could change the situation that you're in to something you would prefer more.

You mean his flag? Yea.

Welcome to the forums.

Dude i just had this deam last night...I was choping this gay guys head off it felt good...I feel better now...i wonder why...all i did was controll my dream it was cool...thanks for the tips.

Ummm... STOP. Learn to respect others. I'm suprised that no one's flamed you yet.

*FLAME* lol

You suck =P (Ano)

I just laugh at people like you :D

I'm gay in case you didnt know of course, but hey, no hard feelings, I see no point in flaming..arguments suck..especially pointless one, there are open minded and there are close minded people..brings some variety ^_^

you took that well.

Welcome, Ano.

I have had dreams like that, and although I personally think it's really horrible (no offence, anybody), you need to realise that some people think differently from the way you do.

And Lucidity can be used to help do whatever the heck you want in your dreams. Like change it.

personally i hate my subconcious, and i think it hates me back...mine torments me with images and dreams that i dont want for seemingly no reason, and i dont see why that cant happen to someone else as well...it prolly has more to do with your fear of them...learn to accept gay people as they are, people, and i think you'll find these dreams will go away...you seem definately homophobic, and you really should learn that a person is a person...and, as for myself, i generally choose to fear people who might actually somehow harm me...gay people are just gay people, that deosnt really harm anybody, while on the other hand a rapist or mass murdurer would be a good person to fear, as you might get raped or murdured...see? sry if im rambling...

Welcome Ano!!

I've had semi-gay dreams as well. Didn't progress beyond kissing.
I am a hetero male with a family.
It was an interesting experience, a little shocking, but not unplesant.

Just go with the flow. Maybe your higher self is trying to teach you something :D

Haha, maybee all those gay dreams are teaching you a thing.
I hope you keep having them till you learned your lesson ;)



Besides.... whats up with your country flag? Did you subconciously pick that one as your favorite? ;)

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Originally posted by Lucius
*FLAME* *lol

You suck =P (Ano)

I just laugh at people like you *:D *

I'm gay in case you didnt know of course, but hey, no hard feelings, I see no point in flaming..arguments suck..especially pointless one, there are open minded and there are close minded people..brings some variety ^_^

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YAY! We all love you Lucius! :banana:

you all think your funny :lol: but maybey right...but i like the fun bloody dreams.

I dont see any fun in killing people, regardless of their sexual preference lol :?

and you never wanted to do something bad in a dream...like leave something harmfull around.

This discussion about sexual preference is ending now. I don\'t want anyone, namely my good friend Lucius to get hurt. If you want to continue, do it in PM\'s or your own time.

I know it probably won't get as far as someone getting hurt. But i am making my best judgement here, and taking action before something happens. If you disagree, PM me, and i will weigh the options.

Thank you, i'm not trying to condemn anyone! I just want this place easier to...function in. :cheers:
Thank you again for your understanding...if you have it.

EDIT: I will not lock the thread...yet. Be careful with your words, everyone, especially the AUTHOR of this thread.

Just a note: Get your head out of your arse, ano.

you may now lock this thread.

All you do is not no nothing of nothing you wish you knew the knowlage i kew earthling...and you time is comming soon.

Ok... Ano has gone bye bye.

thats it.