Thread: my boyfriend has 2 girlfriends and i'm one of them

Hey n8ur and to the forum!

Okay, my interpretation is that even though you know he is interested in you now you still have doubts, this is obviously shown in this dream. You feel left out and isolated, asthough you don't know whats going on, not being told anything. This probably is just a bit of paranoia and we all get a bit paranoid about things at times, i know the feeling of jealousy and it can be powerful at times, i also know it can make us do stupid things. So i think the best way would be to just identify this problem and evaluate it if you think it is relevant. It is likely you and your boyfriend are doing great together but if you have doubts it is best to ignore them since these sort of thoughts can turn nothing into something. Just take it easy and know that your boyfriend loves you.

Welcome to DV.

I think you are just paranoid to be honest. But, Has he ever cheated on you in the past? Or were you having other problems?

Just talk to him about these dreams you are having and hopefully that will help take it off your mind. Not much else you can do, besides go lucid

I'm going to agree with Michael on this one, if he has ever cheated on you in the past it is best for you to discuss this dream with him and talk about how you feel. Just to be sure, there is proably nothing at all but i don't want you to feel stupid about anything if anything were to happen, if you want to talk about anything please do feel free to PM me Chin up and don't let these dreams bother you too much without reason.

Originally Posted by n8ur

I thought he was interested in other women, but now I know he is only interested in me and we have a great relationship.

I have news for you, He IS interested in other women, he would not be a true hetrosexual male if he did not, but hopefully he has you as his preference and it will stay that way otherwise its time you broke free.

I've been married for 28 years and the amazing part is that its still to the same woman although she is twice the woman now.

Remember the saying, "It does not matter where you get your appetite as long as you eat at home."

Now its a welcome to Dreamviews from Downunder.

Thank You very much lucid for the welcome to the forum and for the insight!!!

I have had this same exact dream. My boyfriend will be dating another female and it is all normal. But then i atart getting jealous and an overbearing urge to ask him to break up with him. I atart thinking why? Why would he date her after all this time we had together??? I approach him and ask but he never reallys gives me an actual answer he just sort of lioks bothered and assures me that it will be okay. I have had that dream only twice. And im also in a long distance relationship. You are not alone ! I think this dream for me expresses my trust issues and not being comoletely secure with him. He is my everything and always tells me he loves me and we see eachother getting married in the future and spending our life together. Him and i were also both adopted. So i see that as something from God. Since he is my everything that dream i have had makes me wake up in sadness and I cry i hope i was able to help in some way!

Originally Posted by n8ur

i have had this dream twice so it may start to be a recurring dream. I'm dreaming of my boyfriend and he has 2 girlfriends, me and one more girl, and it seems normal like that and he seems happy, at first i'm trying to be cool with it and it doesn't bother me but after a while it gets to me and i become jealous, i end up asking him to break up with the other girl, he agrees but it seems like he doesn't want to because it takes him forever. I keep asking and nothing really changes. It is dark in the dream and I am feeling left out and like i don't get enough attention. What does it mean?

I am a 26 year old female, we've been in a relationship for 3 years, we are getting more serious, we went to his friends wedding recently and now we're talking about marriage sometime in the further future. We have had problems in the past and I thought he was interested in other women, but now I know he is only interested in me and we have a great relationship.

I hope that helps someone to help me out
Thank You