Another Newbie..

Whats up everybody. ive been interested in all this 4 quite a while now, but kinda forgot about it. So ive been readin this site probly for the past few days now. So last night, i really wanted 2 become Lucid.. i was layin in bed tryin 2 relax and tryin not 2 move.. I think its crazy how you get yourself comfortable and still get that urge 2 move.. haha. but so i fell asleep.. & had a dream that i was fighting & K.O'd this kid.. kinda kool huh.? but it was like just a regular dream, except i wasnt in control.. i think it was just a regular dream..

i did everything like i would in real life.. but anyways when you guys are trying 2 relax, do you just let your mind go free just without all your thoughts.?? because i just layed there watchin all the colors on the back of my eye lids...
hahaaha.. is this the right way.? help me out here..

so then today i tried 2 WILD i think.. it was in the afternoon around 2.. and tried puttin myself to sleep. i was pretty well relaxed. i mean my limbs were relaxed & could see things w/ my eyes closed.. was i close.??

How do you know when your "that" close 2 becoming LUCID.??????
thats what i need 2 know.. idk. i need help.. it won't be my 1st LD though..

thank you...