Hey there, hope this site can help!

I have been having a lot of dreams lately that when I wake up, I think about constantly and just can not understand them. A lot of these dreams I want to be able to control so I'm not completely miserable when I wake up. I've already read a major section about lucid dreaming and I had never heard of it before! This is why I joined today...

It doesn't matter what kind of dream I have, no matter what, the girl I am in love with, shows up in my dream. We talk with each other and other friends are present. Eventually in the middle of a conversation she will get up and walk away completely ignoring what I had just said and she will start flirting or kissing one of my best friends. Or she just completely walks away and I can not chase her/find her. :( This bothers me more than ever, and I ask my best friend in real life, you aren't involved with her are you? He always says, no, we aren't even friends, anyways he has a girlfriend. I want to be able to control this so she doesn't stray away from me, as our time together is limited in real life, I mine as well have her time in lucid dreaming is my figuring.

Thanks for reading my story and I hope I am welcomed here!

-Rob

Bro I would have the same kind of dreams about my partner. I would wake up real annoyed at her and hold a grudge for ages lol. But this was when we first met and for about 2 years I would dream that she was cheating on me in front of my face. I think what helped me was once I began to trust her 100% these dreams stopped. I have now been with my partner for 9 years and I trust her completely and have not had a dream of this sort for 7 years. I hope I dont have a dream like this ever they really are one of the worst form of dreams there are