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      Quote Originally Posted by rumpel View Post
      Can I be a psychologically healthy person pretty please?
      Yeah, wouldn't that be nice? I think a lot of us here kinda want that.
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      Unhappy

      I need time for myself now......that dream was just horrible....i can't commune with people now....i need to gather myself up again....omg T_T.... see you, my friends at the weekend.
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      I bought somewhere below that chart.

      As we say in the Bitcoin community.... To the moon!!!! ┗(°0°)┛
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      Hathor. I hope all is well.

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      Anju, you should post a pic when you're done. I'm very curious about this "belt" of yours

      I woke to a pleasant surprise yesterday. I had received $40. in back child support. I usually get little over $9. which goes straight to Hulu. (In case anyone is new here, I'm not stealing money from my kids. All of them are either adults or have left home.)
      So I bought Minecraft.... and lost myself for about 14 hours I kept wondering why I hadn't met any bad guys. I never wondered far from the hill top I made home. Then my son comes in and asks, "What are you eating?" I tell him nothing. My food bar never went down. He thought it extremely odd that I hadn't come across any monsters but the food bar told him everything. He told me to open my Options. Even though I had chosen Survival mode, it was set to Peaceful

      And now I feel compelled to restart. I mined myself a very impressively extensive underground home (with a home above as well). What if I turn off Peaceful and a creeper shows up inside my mine lol

      A rant is that I'm an idiot. The cats are not allowed in my room. But when my kids stand in my doorway to talk to me, the kittens explore. They're often mostly out of reach. For Panda, I've always gently picked her up by her head and then I hand her to whoever I'm talking to. Panda purrs the entire time. She goes limp like a very young kitten, so even though my son tells me I'm mean, I ignore him because Panda's okay with it.
      Then I tried doing that with Climber, Panda's sister. Ugh. She was under my desk and picking her up like that freaked her out. She scratched my leg deeply. I pet her and told her sorry but quickly handed her off to my son.

      Later that night, my son cursed the cats because there was a dead bird outside my door. This morning I woke and found a dead mouse. I have no doubt Climber brought them to me because she thought I was mad at her. So I gave her lots and lots of love and praise................ and now my allergies are punishing me Can't win for losing

      A rave is that as I adored the cat, I noticed my son had properly cleaned the Living Room. It looks great for the first time in I don't know how long. I have to be sure to give out lots more praise before the day is over.
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      The common cold is really shitty.

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      Zhay, I just love that you have a cat named Panda.
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      Sure Zhaylin.. Will post pics.

      Today's rave is that I placed order for a sewing machine, which will be delivered monday.

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      Bust busy busy, I'll try catch up on everything in double comms this morning but I have to rush to get dressed so oops.

      Just want to post this here, it's the reason I'm not around and it'd mean a lot if some people could donate (I know lots of people can't) But yeah, if you wish to it's just this link - To The Finish Of My Novel! - Katie's fundraising page for The Office of Letters and Light and do people think that's reasonable?
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      Oh man!!!! I had a sell order on Bitcoin set for 320, moved it down to 290 before I went to work.... It got to a high of 321 before going back down to 300.

      Oh well, I still almost doubled my money in a few days, not bad. I'll probably buy back in soon even if it doesn't go below 290 again, coz I anticipate at least 400 and something in the next few days.

      Oh.... also rant: Apparently kicking flirting in to overdrive is a bad idea. I didn't go full creep or anything, but I started doubting myself, which made me just seem beta, and I'm pretty sure I heard the girl say "I just went off him completely" to her friend. haha
      I'm not 100% certain, but I'm usually right with these things. She also mentioned her bf later.
      But that was the 17 year old girl anyway, so nothing lost really.

      Another rant is I'm getting kind of anxious about university. They told me to pick some courses and they'll say if that will allow me in to bachelor of science. That's awesome, but now I'm thinking maybe there's a reason for pre-requisites. What if I pay all this money for it and can't even do the simplest things?

      I'm going to have to stack nootropics like a madman and go through all the maths and chemistry videos on Khan Academy until the courses start I think. haha All I know is I really don't want to wait another year.

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      I'm getting scared now.....i just lost like 4 more pounds just now....i was 134 now im like 130. O_o And i am eating less but....wow my 26 year old body is coming back....now i just got to buy a damn (another) camera holder so i can timer my pictures cuz i just realized my ex threw the mother fucker out before he left!!!! That fuckin bitch! Going to buy it today so i can show how good i am now!!! >_>
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      Tommo, I would be careful about the nootropics. A lot of them have not been properly evaluated, and for all you know they can do more damage than good. Khan Academy isn't too bad an idea, though. They have good videos.
      What kind of education have you had in science and mathematics?
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      Yeah, that would be even better! But shit, that's not gonna happen.



      "I'm not here. This isn't happening."

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      Just kind of skimmed through. I know I suck. But I love Kahn Academy, to throw that in there.

      Anyway...

      I had an interview today at Wal-Mart (I know it's an evil giant, but I don't have many options living in a small town and I need to make a little money). I was interviewed by two people. The first person made me really nervous. She was laid back, but I couldn't tell what she was thinking and it really upped my anxiety. The second interview went more smoothly and I didn't feel as nervous. They asked me a bunch of "describe a time when.." type questions which I hadn't prepared for. I used a lot of experiences from school since that's what I've been doing the past two years, aside from all of the drama at home. Apparently I made a good impression, because they offered me the position of a cashier (woohoo) but I was told to wait for a call to set up a drug test. I actually partook in a little joint smoking session on Sunday so I was a little nervous about that. But I'm not a regular smoker anymore, so I'm thankful for a little extra time to be certain it won't show up. I guess I can't be certain, but hopeful. I was worried they'd make me do it then and there. I drank so much water today, lol.

      I know it's not a big deal and everyone gets nervous about starting a new job, but the reality of it kind of hit me when I got home. I haven't worked in over two years. I'm not worried about the work as a cashier or anything. I know I can do the job well. I'm just nervous about meeting new people and making the right impression. When I say that, I don't mean I want to "wow" everyone at how well I can do a clerk's job or anything. I just want to get off on the right foot, maybe make friends. I don't want to get wrapped up in those kinds of people that we all have had jobs with... the ones that just gossip and are negative about being there all of the time. It just seems like those are the types of people that I tend to fall into whenever I work at a job. I don't think it's because that's the type of person I am--at least I don't want to be that type of person, but I think I get so nervous that I just end up wanting to fit in and so I go along with gossip and reveal too much about myself from the start. Does that make sense?

      I already feel like I'm getting off on the wrong foot. When I was sitting in the break room, a younger girl came in, a cashier, and she was talking to a manager. She smiled at me before she walked out and it gave me the sense that it was a friendly work environment. I mean, the smile was genuine. However, when I left the interview I still needed to get a few things for dinner. This same girl was working the express checkout and I went down her aisle because I thought she was nice. But she hardly spoke to me as I checked out and in fact there was this kind of edgy look she was giving me in place of a smile. I thought that maybe she was just curious about me as a future coworker, you know. Just kind of being standoffish, and maybe trying to judge my character. This could be true, but it also felt like she automatically didn't like me. She was real friendly to the next person in line, so, I don't know.

      I know it's silly to base my feelings off of one person working there, but it was kind of a representation of how I felt in the past with other people. I just know that there's more going on in their head, and the fact that they don't say anything, not even a little small talk makes me wonder if they simply don't like me. Which brings me to the thought of, why does it always feel like I bare the mark of the beast on my forehead? What is it about my face that automatically makes people not like me? (Yes I am aware that much of this is ALL IN MY HEAD). But really. I'm friendly with anyone who doesn't give me a reason to be otherwise. I smile, and I feel like I say the appropriate things. I ask them how they are doing and genuinely care. I'm open to new people, but I suppose, simply, that people aren't generally open. Is that a bad thing? To be open? I hate it sometimes. But then there are times that I really admire that quality because sometimes it makes someone's day.

      I guess my point is that I feel like I'm at a crossroads. There's this path that I really want to take which allows me to be myself, but a more conserved and controlled self--and then there's the path that I generally fall down on, which is the path of chaotic interpersonal issues of awkwardness and shyness and nervous laughter. There is no amount of advice I feel like I could take that would truly help me with this problem. Not even the right kind of anxiety pills.. because pills wear off, and only make reality much more harder when the effects are gone (at least for me). This is truly a personal rant, isn't it.

      I'll stop here, because I'm tired and I might start ranting about that instead. Night.
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      Google can just go shove Google+ right up it's sorry ass, if they think hijacking all of our youtube identity's we had for years, and telling us all that we need Google+ to comment on any youtube comment's or videos will sway me or anyone who already didn't want to use it to just say but I... No just *beep* off. To those who use Google+ please reconsider, what Google just pulled in not just unfair it's NSA dick sucking to the extreme, I will never give in, if I don't want to give my real name and use a comment section on a god dam site, it's my god dam right to do so. This is not OK with me, forcing people to teeter their you tube with their Google+ (with full identity) is unprecedented censorship, this will lead to a scary horrible future, don't give in people, this is shit, and it was never painted any other way by Google.
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      Quote Originally Posted by pointofbeing View Post
      Google can just go shove Google+ right up it's sorry ass, if they think hijacking all of our youtube identity's we had for years, and telling us all that we need Google+ to comment on any youtube comment's or videos will sway me or anyone who already didn't want to use it to just say but I... No just *beep* off. To those who use Google+ please reconsider, what Google just pulled in not just unfair it's NSA dick sucking to the extreme, I will never give in, if I don't want to give my real name and use a comment section on a god dam site, it's my god dam right to do so. This is not OK with me, forcing people to teeter their you tube with their Google+ (with full identity) is unprecedented censorship, this will lead to a scary horrible future, don't give in people, this is shit, and it was never painted any other way by Google.

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      Quote Originally Posted by khh View Post
      Tommo, I would be careful about the nootropics. A lot of them have not been properly evaluated, and for all you know they can do more damage than good. Khan Academy isn't too bad an idea, though. They have good videos.
      What kind of education have you had in science and mathematics?
      Yeah, I'm not too impressed with them tbh. I ordered some l-theanine now, which is perfectly safe, it's in green tea.

      As for my education, basically nothing. I studied all science and maths until year 10, and then stopped.
      Which is what I've come here to rant about....

      Rant - Apparently even some of the online university courses still need pre-requisites. FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU
      I'm so angry right now. The normal university e-mailed back saying the courses I sent them won't allow me in, coz they're not university level?
      If I could do university level courses I'd just fucking apply to bachelor of science! Idiots....

      Can't even do year 12 again at tafe (basically college I guess for Americans) because I need year 11, so it would take me 2 years to do that.
      FUCK!
      I don't want to be back doing high school level things for 2 more years. I'll be 26 by the time I even start university, and 32 by the time I finish vet school, if I get in.
      It's just so depressing.... I guess it's that "comparing yourself to others" thing, which I KNOW is completely stupid but it's almost impossible to not do.
      It's not only that, I want to be doing something I enjoy rather than grunt work. I don't know if I'll survive that long in this crappy job.
      I feel so behind, especially having a friend (that girl) who just graduated a double degree and is already working. I went to her old university the other day with her and it made
      me depressed as hell. It wasn't just that I'm behind, it's also the whole atmosphere.... I dunno, just made me depressed.

      I don't know what I'm doing anymore. I should have just started last year and borrowed the $10,000 it was going to cost for that tafe science course.
      I think it's too late to enrol in that again as well. So that's probably out. I'll have to double check that though.
      And doing year 11 and 12 again is going to cost around the same amount anyway.
      Edit: Okay, I can still enrol in that course.

      Still depressed as hell right now.

      Quote Originally Posted by pointofbeing View Post
      Google can just go shove Google+ right up it's sorry ass, if they think hijacking all of our youtube identity's we had for years, and telling us all that we need Google+ to comment on any youtube comment's or videos will sway me or anyone who already didn't want to use it to just say but I... No just *beep* off. To those who use Google+ please reconsider, what Google just pulled in not just unfair it's NSA dick sucking to the extreme, I will never give in, if I don't want to give my real name and use a comment section on a god dam site, it's my god dam right to do so. This is not OK with me, forcing people to teeter their you tube with their Google+ (with full identity) is unprecedented censorship, this will lead to a scary horrible future, don't give in people, this is shit, and it was never painted any other way by Google.
      Someone posted on Reddit the other day, Google's terms of service or whatever, in 2007 they said something like "Never use your real name anywhere" etc.
      Now every goddamn time you log on they ask you to use your real name or e-mail address and as for your phone number etc.

      Someone really needs to set up a video site which doesn't do that kind of crap. Although I think it's pretty difficult, I'm pretty sure youtube still isn't profitable coz video hosting is so expensive.
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      Girl flirts with other guys on first date and even leaves for 5 minutes with guy.

      Seriously. Do some of you girls think every guy is stupid and retarded?

      How I met this girl: on Halloween and she was with another guy. She flirted with me, asked me out on a date.

      I set it up. We arrive at the venue, we talk for a bit. We negotiate who's paying or what food and who's paying for what drinks. We sing karaoke. She's not listening to me half the time. Arranges a pool game with some guy and talks to him right in front of me. So I try to leave. She stops me.

      keep in mind: we both agreed it's a date.

      so she stops me.*pause we sit at table continue talking and she is putting on more perfume while looking at the other fell* *we have some more drinks. she is grabbing my legs big hug, almost kiss*. the guy offers her weed, and she runs across the street with a guy to a hotel to "smoke weed," probably true but for that five minutes but (at this point she may as well be leaving for a quickie with him). it looked really bad. They come back in five minutes later from across the street. they are exchanging numbers right in front of me.

      I admit... it was not cool of me to lose my cool. but at this point. i mean, I already tried to leave because she was flirting with the guy, i explained myself to her, she should have been at least a little more considerate. You'd think she know how to take a hint, that really wasn't a hint at all... So yes i lost my cool. I told her "F you!" as loudly as i could and left. and she still comes after me with the guy and they are trying to win me over. i took a cab and left. she's all "if you ever wanna hang again never do that again." well you know what... Likewise.

      Girls or guys. If you are on a first date, not cool to hang all over someone else. It lowers my value (and yours) instead of raising it. It's not gonna make me chase you. I pawned all my DVDs to go on a date with you. rubbed myself down in the shower 3 times, bought condoms (just in case), even borrowed money from my cousin, so i could take you out and show you an awesome friggin time! The least you could do is hang with me for a couple hours and give it a chance. i mean why even ask me on a date if you're looking for something better anyway? You really should have just skipped me and not wasted my (and your) time. i mean most girls would be pissed at me for ditching them on a first date even for five minutes., (to which i got agreement with other girls in the bar).

      So I guess my question is: what the hell is going through some of you girl's head's when you do stuff like this? Does it really do anything for you, besides a lousy ego boost? do you get anything meaningful out of it? is it really fun? does it build long lasting friendships and relationships? Does it make you look good when I am yelling at you? can someone please explain this to me?
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      Aly, lol, when the kitten was a baby her colors made her look like a baby panda to me- thus the name My oldest son named Climber because she's always been one to climb all over everything and explore. She's a lot like her mom- tends to keep to herself like a typical snobby cat. But Panda's absolutely rotten. Every time my eldest comes back to talk to me, she practically pants him because she climbs up his clothes for attention.

      to everyone in need. My brain is fried, so I probably missed most of what was said :/ Minecraft is friggin amazing. I've only gotten 9 hours of sleep these last couple of days and no sleep tonight (though I'll nap in the car while at GED).
      I'm in a weird sort of mood because of lack of sleep. If I keep this up I'm going to end up hyper-sexual and self-injurious I MUST sleep later today.
      The older you get, the more things and people remind you of others in the past. Like music. Bruno Mars song "Gorilla" makes me think of........ something. Something from the 80's. Another song, from that time, pushes at the edge of my brain but doesn't quite get to me. Which annoys me to no end lol. And Miley Cyrus's song "Wrecking Ball" makes me think of Tori Amos.

      And then there's people. Sometimes, while driving or otherwise out and about I'll see someone and start to wave. "Oh hey, that's _____. I've not seen her/him in forever....." And then it hits me. The person I thought I saw was as I saw them when I saw them last. As if the person was frozen in time and hadn't aged lol. As time goes on, everyone starts to resemble everyone else
      I'd hate to see how my brain plays tricks on me when I'm actually old!

      Sorry if none of this made any sense.
      Time to get back to the game.
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      @ Zhaylin! Get some sleep! I used to stay up with my boyfriend playing minecraft for hours, I know your current state. It's also the state I was in with WoW and The Sims 3 occasionally. Seriously though, the game saves when you exit, don't forget that .

      @ Tommo, I kind of know the feeling. I'm 23 and I feel way behind my peers. I feel like I could have been doing something much more meaningful than cashiering at Wal-Mart by now, like teaching! I graduated in 08' and if I had gone straight to university and knew what I wanted to do then I would have had my BA for about a year now. Instead I'm getting my AA this fall and will still probably be taking courses for another 3 years just to get my BA and a teaching license. And that's IF I stick to this teaching thing, because honestly, I feel so overwhelmed by the idea sometimes that I want to back out. I am so easily influenced by what I see. I was watching a Bing suggested video last night where Neil Degrasse Tyson (sp? I love this guy!) was talking about that meteor in California and just hearing him speak made me want to be an astrophysicist lol. Well, at least learn more about it. I think I have a hard time separating my interests from my goals in life.. if that makes sense. I suppose this isn't all directed at Tommo anymore so I'll stop there, lol. Anyway, I feel you. Plus I have kids... so at least be thankful you didn't multiply yourself and make it that much harder to do what you want to do. You haven't made any huge life-altering mistakes or anything. At least that's what it seems to me. It's just a matter of time. For me it will take a little more effort and time. :/ It really makes me feel like crap to see two people I went to school with already teaching at my old high school. It makes me feel old and pathetic.

      @ Man of Shred: That chick sounds like a dumb skank, no offense (But I think you agree?). I'm proud of you for giving her the finger, so to speak, because I've met too many guys who would go along with anything just to be with a stupid good-looking chick. Seriously, I'll even admit that I've done a few stupid things in my history of dating and have totally wronged some guys on lower levels, but they stuck around like sad dogs. I know that sounds mean, but both girls and guys need to realize when it's time to leave someone in the ditch. Including myself. I've done some really stupid things in relationships and potential relationships that it makes me wonder why in the hell some really great guys stuck around. I probably didn't even deserve it. Anyway, lol, enough of me. WAY TO GO YOU! That was not right for her to do that and she should have realized it, unfortunately, sometimes people just get caught up in the moment, too, but this girl sounds kind of full of herself.

      My rant: My kids actually let me sleep 20 minutes later than usual and believe it or not, it makes a WORLD of difference. I felt like a bear waking up from a long hibernation. I've been sleeping hard lately, too, because I didn't hear my son wake up. Fortunately, my boyfriend hadn't left for work yet. I have no idea why I'm sleeping like a rock and having amazing dreams. But I like it. So I'm not going to complain!

      Have a good day everyone
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      Quote Originally Posted by Man of Shred View Post
      Guy steals girl from another guy while they're on a date and then expects her to be loyal
      Suck it up bro, you completely set yourself up for this. She was on a date with another guy when she made plans with you. Did you honestly expect it to go any differently?
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      Quote Originally Posted by Alyzarin View Post
      Suck it up bro, you completely set yourself up for this. She was on a date with another guy when she made plans with you. Did you honestly expect it to go any differently?
      Omg...... sorry but i had to laugh at this because it's so lame lmmfao if this is true!!! AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!
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      Quote Originally Posted by hathor28 View Post
      Omg...... sorry but i had to laugh at this because it's so lame lmmfao if this is true!!! AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!
      It is true lol. Just look at his post:

      "How I met this girl: on Halloween and she was with another guy. She flirted with me, asked me out on a date."
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      you know guys I admit it was kind of stupid in the first place. But At least I figured it out and didn't hang around. I feel kind of hurt to just laugh at me like that. It's not very nice. In fact it's not cool. I have come from years of withdrawing into myself and bring on the internet all the time. I am way behind the times and shocked to see what the dating scene is really like, to find out most people that i have come across are just plain mean and ugly. And you know what. you guys are no better for poking fun at me. in fact if there is a mod here I'd clean some of that up.
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      Quote Originally Posted by Man of Shred View Post
      you know guys I admit it was kind of stupid in the first place. But At least I figured it out and didn't hang around. I feel kind of hurt to just laugh at me like that. It's not very nice. In fact it's not cool. I have come from years of withdrawing into myself and bring on the internet all the time. I am way behind the times and shocked to see what the dating scene is really like, to find out most people that i have come across are just plain mean and ugly. And you know what. you guys are no better for poking fun at me. in fact if there is a mod here I'd clean some of that up.
      I'm not laughing at you and I'm not cleaning up any of what I said. If you set a date with someone while they're out with someone else then you're just as much at fault as they are. The dating scene is harsh, but you can't expect to just be the exception.

      And it's good that you admit that it was a stupid decision. You shouldn't want to be with someone who would ditch someone else to be with you anyway.... I'm not trying to beat you down for it, it's just tough love. If you've come this far then you should understand that you can't just have the watered down version of life where everyone is overly nice to you and says things specifically to not hurt your feelings... life is tough, but you have to learn to deal with it to move forward.
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      Quote Originally Posted by Alyzarin View Post
      Suck it up bro, you completely set yourself up for this. She was on a date with another guy when she made plans with you. Did you honestly expect it to go any differently?
      Wow, didn't even realise that. Good point.

      Quote Originally Posted by Man of Shred View Post
      you know guys I admit it was kind of stupid in the first place. But At least I figured it out and didn't hang around. I feel kind of hurt to just laugh at me like that. It's not very nice. In fact it's not cool. I have come from years of withdrawing into myself and bring on the internet all the time. I am way behind the times and shocked to see what the dating scene is really like, to find out most people that i have come across are just plain mean and ugly. And you know what. you guys are no better for poking fun at me. in fact if there is a mod here I'd clean some of that up.
      Man, I don't know about other people, but I wouldn't laugh at you for that.
      You thought maybe she just liked you more than the other guy at the Halloween party. Right?
      It's not your fault, the girl was just a slut. I made this mistake once as well.
      Wasn't exactly that same, she was a nice girl, but she has issues and sleeps around a bit.
      Point is, it's very easy to think they leave another guy for you, because you're so much better than that guy.
      Or they cheat with you because you're so much better.
      But that fact is, 90% of the time, they just cheat because they become too attached to a lot of people,
      and have lower reasoning capability, so they don't think of their boyfriend or whatever when they meet a new guy they're attracted to.

      This isn't just girls, of course. Guys do it just as often.

      Nonetheless, when you said both her and the guy were trying to get you to come back, it sounded like they maybe wanted you to "join in"?
      I don't know.

      Quote Originally Posted by Suena View Post
      @ Tommo, I kind of know the feeling. I'm 23 and I feel way behind my peers. I feel like I could have been doing something much more meaningful than cashiering at Wal-Mart by now, like teaching! I graduated in 08' and if I had gone straight to university and knew what I wanted to do then I would have had my BA for about a year now. Instead I'm getting my AA this fall and will still probably be taking courses for another 3 years just to get my BA and a teaching license. And that's IF I stick to this teaching thing, because honestly, I feel so overwhelmed by the idea sometimes that I want to back out. I am so easily influenced by what I see. I was watching a Bing suggested video last night where Neil Degrasse Tyson (sp? I love this guy!) was talking about that meteor in California and just hearing him speak made me want to be an astrophysicist lol. Well, at least learn more about it. I think I have a hard time separating my interests from my goals in life.. if that makes sense. I suppose this isn't all directed at Tommo anymore so I'll stop there, lol. Anyway, I feel you. Plus I have kids... so at least be thankful you didn't multiply yourself and make it that much harder to do what you want to do. You haven't made any huge life-altering mistakes or anything. At least that's what it seems to me. It's just a matter of time. For me it will take a little more effort and time. :/ It really makes me feel like crap to see two people I went to school with already teaching at my old high school. It makes me feel old and pathetic.
      Oh yep, I'm easily swayed too. At least when it comes to this. But eventually, after cycling through pretty much every imaginable job, I realised that being a vet has been in the back of my mind the whole time. IIRC, teaching is the same for you. So stick with it
      Well, I have made a couple of life-altering decisions/mistake actually. I guess everyone has different trials.

      Quote Originally Posted by Suena View Post
      My rant: My kids actually let me sleep 20 minutes later than usual and believe it or not, it makes a WORLD of difference. I felt like a bear waking up from a long hibernation. I've been sleeping hard lately, too, because I didn't hear my son wake up. Fortunately, my boyfriend hadn't left for work yet. I have no idea why I'm sleeping like a rock and having amazing dreams. But I like it. So I'm not going to complain!
      I had an awesome sleep too. And some rather crazy dreams, albeit with the girl in them.... ugh
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