Is quitting an argument considered loosing? or near loosing?
Hello, me and this retard keep having arguments, but in almost each one he quits! Its kind of annoying since I have a lot more to say, and he calls it smart. I'll call it smart, a little bit, but if you want to win, quitting is not an option. It's like quitting protecting your country ( which will be a losing strategy. Here's our long (sorry) conversation on facebook:
Jacob Madut
Thank you captain obvious and also because you were leaving I thought I would be a little nice.
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stop being a fag "thank you CO", really annoying..
Jacob Madut
You say it like almost all the time something is obvious.
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tell me the last time i said that?
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can't reply to that, can you?
Jacob Madut
Wednesday in Study Hall I don't want to type the whole story so you have to use your memory to find out this one.
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well you said that on friday and today..
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any answers to that smart ass?
Jacob Madut
Who's the one that says "Captain Obvious saves the day" (it's you if you didn't know that) and I don't know how many times you've said it but you must have said it enough times that that's all I hear when someone says something you already know.
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gotta clean your ears man.. gotta do it, to poor to afford q-tips?
Jacob Madut
Wow nice comeback buddy ( I can't believe I'm explaining this actually I can because I explain a lot of things to you.) Okay umm when I said "I don't know how many times you've said it but you must have said it enough times that that's all I hear when someone says something you already know." it's an idiom okay find out what it means because I think you don't know what it means.So don't take everything literally okay just calm down and accept the fact that somethings aren't meant to be taken literally.
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I didn't read all that, and since you are not as smart as you think you are and can't give info in concise ways, well, idk
Jacob Madut
Of course you didn't read all that I would expect it was a challenge for you to get past Wow or something.
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"to get past Wow or something." ??
Jacob Madut
Omgosh I really have to explain these simple things to you.You know what to keep you feeling like you won I quit.BE HAPPY KNOW CELEBRATE!
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Be cognizant that I am not unintelligent, but please be aware that you are not as adept nor intelligent as you think you are.
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'BE HAPPY now*? CELEBRATE!' ??
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Му Duck
Jacob Madut
Yeah I knew you would do that that'd why I spelled it Know and not now and good for you using words you think would be hard for people to understand you see scientist brake down things they don't need to say words most people won't know and it would probably confuse other scientist that why they use more simple words its good to know words you don't know but it would be better to use simplified versions so people understand what you're saying.Quote:"Say it again but this time in English."
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do you have self esteem issues?
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?
Jacob Madut
Wow this really has nothing to do with self esteem and you bring it in to the conversation.I already said you won be happy enjoy I'm tired of talking to you about this.
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Yes, this does have to do with YOUR self esteem, which you have clearly issues with.You keep thinking and trying to make yourself look better then everyone else and trying to put others down. Well, you are not! And the way you keep dropping conversations? Wow, it's sad.
Sergei: Go back to Africa and play basked ball if you are tall enough
Jacob Madut
Dropping a conversation is not sad you want to know what really is sad its sad how you think I'm trying to make myself seem better then you I'm guessing that's why you need Sergei there I also think you need Sergei there to make jokes for you so you think everything is alright that he will make everything go away and whenever I say something you can't really handle by yourself it will always be Sergei who you call upon to answer it.That's sad can't handle your problems by yourself that's even sadder.I also think when you talk to me about something and I answer it in a way you don't understand or you feel like you will lose you ask Sergei to say something to drop the subject and make you feel at ease.That's really sad Sergei is your source or scapegoat I should say to keeping you calm.Btw it's you who has Self esteem problems i'm not the one who laugh every time someone answers your question wrong and I don't say "can you beat that you can't beat that" you clearly want to seem better then everyone.
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1: the only reason i said "Sergei: Go back to Africa and play basked ball if you are tall enough" is because he wanted to say it.
2: They way you drop conversations are sad, not actually dropping them
3: If it's not sad to drop conversations; how is it sad to think some one has self esteem issues and think they want to make them selfs look better then every one else?
4: You laugh every time I "fail", although some times I do not, and you still laugh because you can not make it work in your little brain
5: If you really didn't have those kind of issues ( be it self esteem or anything else ( I am not a psychiatrist )) Why would you start so many arguments, when you are at the verge of loosing them: you quit them.. Why you ARE loosing them, you always think you're winning, when you do that you get really frustrated: keep interrupting me, repeating the same thing, calling others to answer questions for you.
6: You "repeat" almost every argument. This is how much you wrote about me needing help from others ( Sergei mostly ):
"I'm guessing that's why you need Sergei there I also think you need Sergei there to make jokes for you so you think everything is alright that he will make everything go away and whenever I say something you can't really handle by yourself it will always be Sergei who you call upon to answer it.That's sad can't handle your problems by yourself that's even sadder.I also think when you talk to me about something and I answer it in a way you don't understand or you feel like you will lose you ask Sergei to say something to drop the subject and make you feel at ease.That's really sad Sergei is your source or scapegoat I should say to keeping you calm"
That's a lot of sentences that say the same thing.
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7: You can't answer my questions well: the question of "Why do you keep sitting by me" has never been answered yet, the right way I mean. And don't give a silly reason of "it's a nice view" and "it's closer to the books" no!
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I'm Стас btw.
Thank you, I appreciate your help.
PS: It's okay to take side ;)
