Thread: Do you have a fetish?

I gotta admit it...I have a fetish that is hard to satisfy. I like asians...but I also like curvy girls (not obese, but more weight than most people would like I guess) so for me the ultimate turn on is an asian who is also curvy. Quite hard to find lol.

Originally Posted by GavinGill

Girls with Southern accents are like the cutest thing. Not sure why, but that's always been a turn on.



Squee. .-.

I know why.. you like baech boyz music and wit 'bout gelrs:

"Well East coast girls are hip
I really dig those styles they wear
And the Southern girls with the way they talk
They knock me out when I'm down there

The Mid-West farmer's daughters really make you feel alright
And the Northern girls with the way they kiss
They keep their boyfriends warm at night

I wish they all could be California girls"
- Beach Boys California Girls

I have a darkness fetish.

That is all

Originally Posted by OwO

I'm very tempted to share my many fetishes, however, I am a minor and I'm not quite sure how the law would view this.

It<s not illegal to have fetishes or to share them. As long as you're not posting nude pictures of yourself, you're fine.

Speaking of Southern accents, there's a girl on the internet I listen to named Beth Presswood who has the sexiest Southern accent I've ever heard. I don't normally like Texas accents, but hers sounds really good. Can't find any good youtube links but she hosts a podcast called Godless Bitches.

Originally Posted by GavinGill

It<s not illegal to have fetishes or to share them. As long as you're not posting nude pictures of yourself, you're fine.

As a minor, you don't get any punishment for posting nudes. It's the people who distribute or view them who do.

Originally Posted by khh

As a minor, you don't get any punishment for posting nudes. It's the people who distribute or view them who do.

Nope.

14-year-old New Jersey girl may get sex offender status for posting naked pictures on MySpace - NY Daily News

Teen couple who photo'd own sex acts prosecuted for child porn - Boing Boing

Teen charged for sending nude phone photos - Technology & science - Wireless - msnbc.com

You can very much be punished for that.

Originally Posted by Maeni

Nope.

You can very much be punished for that.

But all of these laws are made to protect children... aren't they? That makes no sense!

That makes no sense!

Nope :V

Originally Posted by khh

But all of these laws are made to protect children... aren't they? That makes no sense!

Do you really think that it's protecting children to allow them to post nude pictures of themselves? Now, I don't think they should necessarily be prosecuted for child porn (unless that really was their intent), but it doesn't surprise me in the slightest that they'd get in trouble for it.

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Do you really think that it's protecting children to allow them to post nude pictures of themselves?

Maybe discourage it. Ending up on the sex offenders registry is a very horrible punishment, allowing them to post nude pictures is definitely better than such a harsh punishment. How about just discouraging it?

(unless that really was their intent)

You really think children who deliberately make child porn with themselves should be charged with the production of child pornography? That would fuck up their lives so hard.

but it doesn't surprise me in the slightest that they'd get in trouble for it.

Me neither, it makes sense given the sex-phobic society we live in. But you're using "get in trouble" very, very lightly. Being prosecuted and/or put on the sex offenders registry is a shit load more than just "getting in trouble".

As counterweight, I'll post something weird that I've been wanting to post anyways.
Some time ago, I watched a video called Cupcakes, a brutal video based on an even more brutal fan fiction with a pink pony murdering a blue pony.
I remember being really fascinated with the fan fic when I first read it, and similarly I got really fascinated with the concept of Cupcakes when I saw the video.

It's strange, but not like a fetish. I didn't get sexually excited about the idea, but for a time, it felt like the concept of getting tortured and killed was somehow exhilerating. Another strange part of it was my perspective in the fantasies that followed. In all of them, "me" would be the person being killed, but I'd switch between being both a lot.

It's quite strange, and I've only felt this for just a few days, and it has followed my obsession with Andrew W.K. music completely.

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Originally Posted by Maeni

Maybe discourage it. Ending up on the sex offenders registry is a very horrible punishment, allowing them to post nude pictures is definitely better than such a harsh punishment. How about just discouraging it?

You really think children who deliberately make child porn with themselves should be charged with the production of child pornography? That would fuck up their lives so hard.

I'm speaking objectively here, not subjectively. Kids who know that they're breaking the law and are old enough to understand that are sentenced with adult crimes all the time. If you don't want to fuck up your life, don't break the law. :T I don't think those girls really had any intention of making child porn, and were judged unfairly. But I've already said that.

Originally Posted by Maeni

Me neither, it makes sense given the sex-phobic society we live in. But you're using "get in trouble" very, very lightly. Being prosecuted and/or put on the sex offenders registry is a shit load more than just "getting in trouble".

The sentence you're responding to here, without the extra thought in the parenthesis, is "Now, I don't think they should necessarily be prosecuted for child porn, but it doesn't surprise me in the slightest that they'd get in trouble for it." I wasn't saying "get in trouble" to refer to how they were punished, I'm just saying it doesn't surprise me that there would be a punishment for it, regardless of what it was.

Originally Posted by Maeni

As counterweight, I'll post something weird that I've been wanting to post anyways.
Some time ago, I watched a video called Cupcakes, a brutal video based on an even more brutal fan fiction with a pink pony murdering a blue pony.
I remember being really fascinated with the fan fic when I first read it, and similarly I got really fascinated with the concept of Cupcakes when I saw the video.

It's strange, but not like a fetish. I didn't get sexually excited about the idea, but for a time, it felt like the concept of getting tortured and killed was somehow exhilerating. Another strange part of it was my perspective in the fantasies that followed. In all of them, "me" would be the person being killed, but I'd switch between being both a lot.

It's quite strange, and I've only felt this for just a few days, and it has followed my obsession with Andrew W.K. music completely.

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Me on the previous page:

Originally Posted by Alyzarin

When I was younger and had my death fetishes, I used to fantasize about being both the victim of murder and the murderer at the same time.

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Kids who know that they're breaking the law and are old enough to understand that are sentenced with adult crimes all the time. If you don't want to fuck up your life, don't break the law.

But then we come right back to the original point. Why on Earth would you punish someone for breaking a law that was made to protect that very person from that very thing they did? That makes no sense!

The sentence you're responding to here, without the extra thought in the parenthesis, is "Now, I don't think they should necessarily be prosecuted for child porn, but it doesn't surprise me in the slightest that they'd get in trouble for it." I wasn't saying "get in trouble" to refer to how they were punished, I'm just saying it doesn't surprise me that there would be a punishment for it, regardless of what it was.

Fair enough.

Oh, woah, that sounds similar to mine. Except my fantasies were (are?) more focused on the torture than the actual death.
Don't know if that's what you mean too, but that's the way it is for me at least. I wonder where the hell that came from? I was also pretty fascinated with it when I first read the fanfic, and had a feeling of wanting to read more, but I sort of forgot about it until the video came out.

My fetish is discussing my fetish with people on the internet.

OH GOD YES

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Originally Posted by Maeni

But then we come right back to the original point. Why on Earth would you punish someone for breaking a law that was made to protect that very person from that very thing they did? That makes no sense!

Well, again, this is pretty much what I think the law sees it as. Breaking those laws still makes you the enemy, even if they were meant to protect you. The law was made to protect kids from being in porn, and to punish those that were making the porn. And in this situation, it would be those kids that were making it, even though it was also them in it. In this way it seems that they in effect waive their rights to protection as they weren't really a victim. In an authority figure type of perspective you're actually protecting them by punishing them, because they're only hurting themselves. But that's pretty much where this topic ends and leads back how they should be punished.

I'm not saying it's right or wrong. I don't personally believe I've dedicated enough of my time to thinking about this subject to claim that I know what's best in regards to it. That's just how I see the current situation. I'd say that if they're going to be sentencing kids then perhaps they could at least come up with a juvenile version of the sentence. Maybe so that you didn't have to register as a sex offender or anything, it would just appear in your record, and as it's a juvenile crime you could have it sealed once you become an adult if you show that you haven't tried to commit it again.

Originally Posted by Maeni

Oh, woah, that sounds similar to mine. Except my fantasies were (are?) more focused on the torture than the actual death.
Don't know if that's what you mean too, but that's the way it is for me at least. I wonder where the hell that came from? I was also pretty fascinated with it when I first read the fanfic, and had a feeling of wanting to read more, but I sort of forgot about it until the video came out.

For me, it kind of varies. Actually, I guess it's kind of both. The torture was important for me (emotionally and psychologically, I don't care much for physical torture) from both aspects. Both the fear and the excitement from each different perspective. The death also appeals to me in the sense that... it's just a big mystery. I'm obsessed with altered states of mind and it kills me that I can't know what dying is like. So I think that's where that comes from. On the other side, the perspective of the murderer adds a sense of power and invincibility. So what it all comes down to me is the extreme emotional states of on both ends of the scale, and getting to experience death and a total loss of control while also being the one in control at the same time. It's paradoxical and strange. But that's about how I'd have to describe it.

I'm actually interested in developing how it feels to kill other people (IN DREAMS), but torturing them before I do so. (IN DREAMS)

But before I do that, I need to do the "warm and fuzzy feeling" thing with a DG in case I go batshit traumatized by what I do to the Dream Characters. (Like a restore point for me so I forget the experience if it's too much for me).

Of course, I don't need it for sexual pleasures, but still, I don't know what goes on my brain that makes me wanna "unce unce unce."

Originally Posted by Linkzelda41

I'm actually interested in developing how it feels to kill other people (IN DREAMS), but torturing them before I do so. (IN DREAMS)

But before I do that, I need to do the "warm and fuzzy feeling" thing with a DG in case I go batshit traumatized by what I do to the Dream Characters. (Like a restore point for me so I forget the experience if it's too much for me).

Of course, I don't need it for sexual pleasures, but still, I don't know what goes on my brain that makes me wanna "unce unce unce."

I'll probably get around to something like that eventually. Like you said, just 'cause I'm curious. I'll bet it could be fun, I think I'd make a good psychopath.

Lol, Only in DV.

I'm an enormous vorarephile. It's not some little kink that turns me on. Vore does more for me than anything else.
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I don't know why it has this effect on me, it just does. At least it is quite possible in dreams.

Originally Posted by Wyvern

I'm an enormous vorarephile. It's not some little kink that turns me on. Vore does more for me than anything else.
Vorarephilia - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

I don't know why it has this effect on me, it just does. At least it is quite possible in dreams.

I wish I could like that multiple times. Vore was one of my earliest fetishes, and one of the only ones from back then that really still sticks with me.

I've never quite understood that. In such fantasies, what do you imagine being eaten by? A giant human, or a whale or something? Or is it more like, being eaten alive by a normal human?

It differs from person to person, but for me it's generally being eaten alive all in one piece (head first, pretty much always) by another normal human (although maybe possessed, or actually a demon in disguise, or something like that). Very, very rarely, it would be an alien or monster or something, but it's almost always human. Also rarely, I'll think about it the other way, with me eating someone else in the same way, but that doesn't do it for me as much. It's more like a curiosity since I like it the original way so much. I do know that there are people who prefer thinking of giant people and the like, though.

But that isn't even possible. No one's mouth can contain an entire human. How do you reconcile that in your imagination?

You work around it, it's not like it needs to be perfect, it's a fantasy. I usually just don't really think about it, but I guess if I had to put a description to it I'd say it seems like my imagination will expand the size of their mouth and shrink the size of me a little and have them meet half way, and then just takes my focus away from that part to focus on the feeling of it so that it doesn't really have to make a whole lot of sense.