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      Quote Originally Posted by mooseantlers View Post
      Masturbation is achieving orgasm. That's it, so is sex. If masturbation is unhealthy, so is sex.
      There are practical limits on how much sex you can have--based less on stamina than available partners and appropriate surroundings. If you have an 'orgasm habit,' it's as certain to change your brain chemistry as a heroin addiction.
      If you have a sense of caring for others, you will manifest a kind of inner strength in spite of your own difficulties and problems. With this strength, your own problems will seem less significant and bothersome to you. By going beyond your own problems and taking care of others, you gain inner strength, self-confidence, courage, and a greater sense of calm.Dalai Lama



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      Quote Originally Posted by Taosaur View Post
      There are practical limits on how much sex you can have--based less on stamina than available partners and appropriate surroundings. If you have an 'orgasm habit,' it's as certain to change your brain chemistry as a heroin addiction.
      This. Also the fact is that other "basic" biological functions like eating and drinking become unhealthy when done in excess. Modern society is over-eating in massive amounts to the point it's very unhealthy.

      Think of caveman. Did he jerk off daily? I don't know, but living was pretty rough back then. Most of the day was spent SURVIVING, and they certainly didn't have access to thousands of naked women within a click. I think that compared to that over-indulging in porn is easy.

      I'm not going further into the debate of it. I have the mentality that I test out for myself and see what happens. It might be that the naysayers are right, but unless anyone of them have gone without an orgasm for month or over themselves, they're just speaking out of their asses.

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      Quote Originally Posted by Taosaur View Post
      There are practical limits on how much sex you can have--based less on stamina than available partners and appropriate surroundings. If you have an 'orgasm habit,' it's as certain to change your brain chemistry as a heroin addiction.
      True, but addiction is a whole different thing. ANYTHING can be bad for you if you do it too much. Once a day is perfectly healthy.
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      Quote Originally Posted by mooseantlers View Post
      True, but addiction is a whole different thing. ANYTHING can be bad for you if you do it too much. Once a day is perfectly healthy.
      I wouldn't call consistent once-a-day masturbation "perfectly" healthy, but it's not quite excessive, either. It's pretty much the upper limit. If "about once a day" is more like ten times a week than five and you didn't just figure out how to do it, you might want to get some hobbies.
      If you have a sense of caring for others, you will manifest a kind of inner strength in spite of your own difficulties and problems. With this strength, your own problems will seem less significant and bothersome to you. By going beyond your own problems and taking care of others, you gain inner strength, self-confidence, courage, and a greater sense of calm.Dalai Lama



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      Don't forget sex addiction either. That is a legitimate issue mooseantlers, and a sign of it is often chronic masturbating. Though after reading this topic I have reason to believe a lot of teenagers are prone to this anyway. 0_0

      Either way it can still be a problem. HOWEVER not masturbating for a year is a bit silly. Knock it down to once every week or two if you want to "prove" that you can manage it fine.

      I believe that its almost unavoidable to not face bigger issues if you try to not masturbate for 12 months. Frustration, lack of focus, etc.

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      To quote one of my favourite movies "Masturbation is self-improvement".

      I don't think you can really improve yourself by abstaining from it.
      However, I think it is a great test of willpower lol.

      IMO any discussion about what is excessive and what is stupid etc. is just pointless.
      If you have the time to masturbate 10 times a day, go for it.

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      It's really not all that crazy. Celibacy is one of the more common vows people take, whether for spiritual reasons or more general self exploration and self discipline.
      If you have a sense of caring for others, you will manifest a kind of inner strength in spite of your own difficulties and problems. With this strength, your own problems will seem less significant and bothersome to you. By going beyond your own problems and taking care of others, you gain inner strength, self-confidence, courage, and a greater sense of calm.Dalai Lama



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      Quote Originally Posted by tommo View Post
      If you have the time to masturbate 10 times a day, go for it.
      Your lube bills would be as bad as a smoking habit. How would you even find time to replace the calories? Speaking of which, you'd probably need to invest in quite a bit of hand sanitizer, too.

      Seriously though, I'm not sure if it's currently in the DSM, but historically more than twice a day for two solid weeks is a symptom of depression.
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      If you have a sense of caring for others, you will manifest a kind of inner strength in spite of your own difficulties and problems. With this strength, your own problems will seem less significant and bothersome to you. By going beyond your own problems and taking care of others, you gain inner strength, self-confidence, courage, and a greater sense of calm.Dalai Lama



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      Quote Originally Posted by Taosaur View Post
      Speaking of which, you'd probably need to invest in quite a bit of hand sanitizer, too.
      Never shaking your hand if you replace hand washing with sanitizer.

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      Quote Originally Posted by Taosaur View Post
      Your lube bills

      Sure feels good to live somewhere where my dick wasn't mutilated at birth against my will. Sure feels good.

      Feel when all these jellymad murricans in will never know that glorious foreskin feel. Dat natural Lube.
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      Quote Originally Posted by Carôusoul View Post
      Sure feels good to live somewhere where my dick wasn't mutilated at birth.
      Hear hear.

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      Quote Originally Posted by Loaf View Post
      He just left IRC.

      LOL

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      When he fails, he has just been trolling.
      When he fails or doesn't even try or lied, then he just wants us to post.


      Quote Originally Posted by anderj101 View Post
      Good luck weakamon. If you succeed, I will engrave a placard of achievement for you.

      I will not attempt such a feat, as I would be setting myself up for a huge failure.
      Haha, thanks

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      LMAO

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      DAY 2(01/02/12):SUCCESS

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      I don't care how much slack you have; if you're toweling the dachshund ten times a day, you will want to grease up.
      If you have a sense of caring for others, you will manifest a kind of inner strength in spite of your own difficulties and problems. With this strength, your own problems will seem less significant and bothersome to you. By going beyond your own problems and taking care of others, you gain inner strength, self-confidence, courage, and a greater sense of calm.Dalai Lama



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      Quote Originally Posted by Carôusoul View Post
      Feel when all these jellymad murricans in will never know that glorious foreskin feel. Dat natural Lube.
      Aren't you forgetting about pre-seminal fluid?
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      Quote Originally Posted by GavinGill View Post
      Aren't you forgetting about pre-seminal fluid?
      what

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      i've made it 23 or so days before, i only experienced hyper-arousal for the first week and a half though. after that, I was getting kind of worried--maybe it's because i didn't wait long enough, but regardless I find it odd that the hyper-arousal went away (physically and mentally). once the purpose for stopping was fulfilled, i stopped stopping. anyway, good luck to you man, couldn't imagine going a whole year.

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      Quote Originally Posted by Dianeva View Post
      what
      "pre-cum"

      Kind of like how girls get wet before and/or during stimulation.

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      ah

      I'm such a newb.
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      Of course you're always in control of your mind, everyone always is. It's whether or not your "fuck it" meter subjugates your will power.

      Anyone could do this. We're all capable of tasks like this. Don't eat meat for a year. Stop smoking cigarettes. Don't drink coffee. Stop drinking alcohol. I don't understand why you're proving to yourself something you already know.
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      Quote Originally Posted by Grod View Post
      Of course you're always in control of your mind, everyone always is. It's whether or not your "fuck it" meter subjugates your will power.

      Anyone could do this. We're all capable of tasks like this. Don't eat meat for a year. Stop smoking cigarettes. Don't drink coffee. Stop drinking alcohol. I don't understand why you're proving to yourself something you already know.
      Have you ever tried to quit masturbating for an extended period of time? I'm assuming, based on your post, that you aren't addicted to cigarettes, coffee or alcohol or you wouldn't be acting like it's so easy.

      We do have the power, it's in us. For this point, I agree with you. We all have enough willpower to abstain from any indulgence. But speaking from personal experience, it's torture.
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      Everything works out in the end, sometimes even badly.


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      Quote Originally Posted by Taosaur View Post
      I wouldn't call consistent once-a-day masturbation "perfectly" healthy, but it's not quite excessive, either. It's pretty much the upper limit. If "about once a day" is more like ten times a week than five and you didn't just figure out how to do it, you might want to get some hobbies.
      If you had the time would you not have sex with someone once a day



      Quote Originally Posted by LOAF
      Don't forget sex addiction either. That is a legitimate issue mooseantlers, and a sign of it is often chronic masturbating. Though after reading this topic I have reason to believe a lot of teenagers are prone to this anyway. 0_0
      Completely agree, sex addiction, sex and masturbating are both sexual release as I have said, if you're addicted to sex, you will also masturbate a lot, its a given.
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      Shit I masturbated 4 times since I hopped on the PC two hours ago.

      My libido goes crazy when I can't smoke though. Unless I masturbate at least 3 or 4 times, I'll think about sex all day long.

      And I have plenty of hobbies.

      Everything works out in the end, sometimes even badly.


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      DAY 3(01/03/12): SUCCESS


      [VOICE RECORDER]
      "Hi guys, Weakamon here. I'd like to let you all know that Day 3 is over, and the good news is: I survived. I experienced some elements that sort of impaired my resistance against my feral instinct during Day 3 . When I was in class, my school mates were talking about animal to human stuff. Like, the 15 minutes stamina of a dog and how a human would handle that. Kinda like those things. So there I was, doing a face while listening to their conversation. But like what i've said, I'VE SURVIVED, and that's the good thing here. So uhm, I guess that's it, Weakamon out..."
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      I respect your organization but are you really going to give a daily update? 365 days of constant updates to that description is a challenge in itself haha!
      Last edited by Loaf; 01-04-2012 at 12:01 PM.
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