That's a huge gap bro, 10 years. I think it was best to play it safe and stay away. Seemed like jail bait to me. |
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This happened to me two years ago when I was at an airport in Greece, when I was on my way back home to Sweden. |
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Last edited by Yuusha; 12-24-2014 at 05:34 PM.
That's a huge gap bro, 10 years. I think it was best to play it safe and stay away. Seemed like jail bait to me. |
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"Your background and circumstances may have influenced who you are, but you are responsible for who you become." ~Darren Hardy
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-Become Lucid in every dream every night
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Its possible she could have been thirteen and liked you. Another possibility is she could have been eighteen or older and liked you. Not everyone looks their age so its not right to say she wasn't older than that. There are people out there who are 30 and look like their way younger than that. But I agree that its better to not approach people in that situation. Its weird to me. |
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Yup...Like DawnEye11 said...she could have been older. I know this 22 year old who looks like she's 12. Was she with anyone? Most kids don't go to the airport alone. Either way, there's nothing wrong with asking someone how old they are. |
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She was with a couple other girls, probably her friends. |
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I probably wouldn't have approached either, but then again, I am not so good at approaching...I know just what my dad would say to me in a situation like this though. "The little ones grow" =P |
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"One is loved because one is loved. No reason is needed for loving."
The Alchemist - Paulo Coelho
Haha, yeah that's true. |
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Last edited by Yuusha; 12-25-2014 at 04:24 PM.
Yeah, I agree. There really is a weird feeling when something like this happens. Can't say I totally relate, but when I was just on the border of leaving school to university and I was already of age, I knew some girls who were maybe 3 years younger than me whom I felt attracted to, yet it felt wrong as you say it, to flirt with them. So I think that was probably the right response on your part. Also, considering how many times it happens that we may flirt with strangers on our day to day and do nothing about it. |
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"One is loved because one is loved. No reason is needed for loving."
The Alchemist - Paulo Coelho
Ugh, I feel for you man. I'm always so bad at guessing ages of women, like really terrible. I've also avoided some girls, unsure of how old they are. Asking someone's age can never hurt like AURON said. Though I can imagine that being pretty hard to do when you suspect she is like 13. I think you did the right thing this time! But it's a tough spot for sure. |
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There's absolutely nothing wrong with asking someone's age. If she was 13, she is too young to make rational decisions (at least in a legal sense), so you are expected to be the one to remove yourself should her advances got anything more than the innocent eye contact it sounds like. |
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Do what thou wilt shall be the whole of the Law. Love is the law, love under will.
Yeah, I decided to simply ignore her apparent signs of interest, but it was a tough decision, because I felt that I would probably like her a lot if she actually was an alright age. |
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Last edited by Yuusha; 12-27-2014 at 12:07 AM.
wow, I'm surprised at the perspectives here. I feel like if this was posted anywhere else and there would be nothing but slander and name calling. Good job DV. |
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