The disease theory of alcoholism, and why I disagree about the "lack of discipline" viewpoint
Lately, there has been quite a debate on whether alcoholism is a disease or not, and some people seem to insist quite confidently that it is not a disease, regardless of what its status is among doctors and medical staff - and I would like to point out my opinions on this, and see what you think about all this.
People who say that alcoholism is not a disease often use the argument that it is "all about discipline" - however, I will have to disagree about that.
I personally know two alcoholics myself, so I know how unreasonable they can be when it comes to trying to talk sense into them.
The big problem with them is that they simply don't even realize that they are alcoholics - they live in a huge illusion where they think they just "like to drink every now and then", and don't even notice that this ruins the rest of their lives.
I think that this kind of psychology is the reason why alcoholism is sometimes considered a disease and/or a mental illness - because it makes the person unable to realize the problem in the first place.
If alcoholism was just about having "enough discipline" then the problem would be much more about finding the motivation to quit drinking, not about realizing that the problem exists.
You can sort of compare this with depression, which as far as I am aware counts as a psychological disorder - depression makes a person feel completely apathic and hopeless, and a lot of depressed people even believe that their depression is how they are supposed to feel, and that happy people are fooling themselves.
You cannot just tell a depressed person to "lighten up", this will only infuriate them and make them feel even more hopeless.
I see many similarities among alcoholics - you cannot just tell them that they are alcoholics, because they won't understand what you are saying, and in my opinion that's the underlying problem with alcoholism.
What I am wondering is - why do some people think they have the right to argue against the opinions of educated doctors?
I was actually present at a seminar about alcoholism as recently as last year, which was presented by a doctor, and as far as I can remember, she called alcoholism a form of psychological illness.
And if doctors are in an agreement that alcoholism is some form of illness or disorder (which, at the moment, seems to be the case), then other people honestly have no right to argue against that, nor are in any position to do so.
Yes, you can have your personal opinions about it, but do not expect to get much support from doctors then.
Also, the reason why things like this are sometimes labeled "diseases" etc is because it make it easier for doctors to approach the problem - it doesn't mean that the patient should just "surrender" and stop caring, it means that the patient should realize the exact problem and approach it the best they can themselves.