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From Periods, menopause, pregnancy, ovulation, breast issues, whatever you want. |
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Ikr |
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I wish period blood made better lube. |
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Abraxas
Originally Posted by OldSparta
Um ouch? |
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Why? |
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Both dream and female-related: I've started dreaming about sperm banks when I ovulate. -_- In waking life, I don't care very much about sex and also don't want to be a parent. Apparently the first point has sunk into my subconscious, but my ovaries still want to negotiate on the second one. |
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Wish women were up front about things and said what they meant, it does a better job of getting you what you want, at least if you're dealing with men. Sorry, I didn't realize the dishes were left out specifically because you wanted me to do them, if you wanted me to do them all you had to do was ask. |
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Women are atomically designed to be repeled by me |
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There are tons of things about the female anatomy that bother the crap out of me. But I don't think they would bother me as much if I was dating one. I know that barely makes sense, it's just stuff I think about a lot. For example, I wouldn't want to have periods, but I wouldn't care if my girlfriend did. |
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lol, Snoop. Do you have eyeballs? Did you see the dishes were out? If so, put them away |
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That's understandable Ophelia and Zhaylin. So do I Snoop, I'm a female and I really wish others would be more up front and just ask if they want something. |
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Can I complain about stereotyping like this? |
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To be fair, and in Dianeva's defense, dudes aren't always upfront either. I didn't mention it before in this thread because I assumed it was a "well duh!" |
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I like all things female... except for the fact that I'm trapped in a female body. But women are simply the best. |
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Hurricane At The Sea (1850) and Shipwreck (1854) by Ivan Aivazovsky
The dreamer formerly known as Angelpotter
I understand it was a sensitive example to pick but in this case I was talking about something that actually happened to me today. I can see how it could easily be taken otherwise, but it's important to know that I didn't mean it as a joke to put down women. I apologize for the misunderstanding, it should have occurred to me. There are plenty of other examples of women expecting men to be mind readers or to pick up on things that other women do, which is fine on its own but I just don't think or operate this way, I am very straightforward and need things spelled out for me if there is an expectation to meet, which is a quality I see more in men than in women. With that knowledge, I wish the women who are guilty of this would realize or care that guys just don't do things based off of unspoken hints, clues, bread crumbs, body language, or tone of voice. We say what we mean and ask for what we want. I realize this must be frustrating to said women, but it can't be any more frustrating than the man you're giving clues to not noticing them and you thinking his is simply ignoring you. Spelling it out, even if it is annoying, is very helpful--at least to me. I am usually more than happy to do what it is that you want from me, but I am just too oblivious to hint systems to be able to do any of what you want. For both our sake's, please just ask. |
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Last edited by snoop; 02-18-2014 at 05:20 AM.
I know you are joking, and don't think I'm picking on you, but this is actually what happens to be what the women I'm talking about think. I understand it is a reasonable expectation, but I'm just a big dummy and don't pick up on things like that. If I am asked to do it, I don't have a problem doing it and then we're both happy. Yes, it's not very thoughtful but my head is in a different place. Actually, specifically I am terrible at seeing things that are right in front of me, even if I'm actively searching for something. Half the time it is literally staring me in the face and I don't see it. |
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I'm the same way dude. |
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Um. ...sorry if I offended anyone. |
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You're just like me! I've had so many problems with my ex-roomie. She expected me to read her mind or something. If she'd simply tell me what she wants me to do, instead of sulking all day and making miserable faces, things would have been a lot easier. I suggested making a time-table to divide the chores so that I don't have to play this guessing game of who does the dishes on which days, and she rejected the idea. That kind of attitude annoys me a lot. I appreciate directness. |
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How comfortable is it to use «open clothes» in a cold day ? I think that's not an intelligent trade-off many people ( specially women ) do |
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Check your memory, did any suprising event happpen ? does the present make sense ? visualize what you will do when lucid, and how. Reality check as reminder of your intention to lucid dream tonight. Sleep as good as you can; when going to sleep, relax and invite whatever comes with curiosity. Grab your dream journal immediately as you awake and write everything you can recall (if only when you wake up for good). Keep calm, positive and persistent, and don't forget to have fun along the way
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