Girl Problems

**ffx-dreamz** · 02-19-2004 03:23 AM

*says as non-emotionally as possible*(so I don't insult her by being mushy*Thank you paperdoll. Im glad you care. I am extremely afraid of rejection. Mainly because I have 5 periods with her and I will have to be with her no matter what for the rest of the year. That could get bad.

**nerve** · 02-19-2004 03:27 AM

good point. maybe you should wait. or, invite her to do something, uh...start hanging out with her and get to know her better, then you may actually find that you don't like her...or..that she likes you THEN you can ask her.

**ffx-dreamz** · 02-19-2004 03:30 AM

Well I know I like her. I know her pretty well(maybe thats a bad thing) and I love her personality, But I just cant be sure how she feels.

(and another thing, Im so glad I can be open to you guys!)

**nerve** · 02-19-2004 03:35 AM

alright well...good luck then! just don't get hurt...please..

**ffx-dreamz** · 02-19-2004 03:41 AM

If I get lucid tonight. (Which would be my 1st) Im going to practice at my dream school with the dream girl

If not Ill have to prepare myself by remembering what you said about not getting hurt.

**Boo** · 02-19-2004 03:49 AM

Will, I'm really happy she dumped you, if that's the way you think.
You don't deserve her.

Also, Ffx, I think you should go for it. If she says no, then that's her deal, not yours and it's better than not knowing at all. I hope it happens for you!

**ffx-dreamz** · 02-19-2004 03:51 AM

Ty so much!

**will.i.am** · 02-19-2004 04:07 PM

Originally posted by Boo
Will, I'm really happy she dumped you, if that's the way you think.
You don't deserve her.

The funny part is, when she said we should be friends, she ment to slow down, NOT break up. But your right, I don't deserve her. I knew this was going to happen, I know this because you two are really close friends, thats why I told her to blame everything on me. So now you two can feel really good about yourselves. Don't worry, I'm always thinking about the other person.

So Boo, for the sake of Amy and your friend ship, please put all the wieght on me. Amy did nothing wrong, I did and I take FULL responsibility for my actions.

**Cedri** · 02-19-2004 07:25 PM

Ok first off I'm not even going into the whole thing about my sad looserness. But WILL MAN OMG SIRRIOUSLY DAMN MAN WTF!?!??! I dont care who you are you dont say thoes kinds of things about women piriod! Dude....no. HAVE you gone insane or have you always been like that?

**Boo** · 02-20-2004 12:21 AM

Originally posted by will.i.am+--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(will.i.am)</div>

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Will, I'm really happy she dumped you, if that's the way you think.
You don't deserve her.

The funny part is, when she said we should be friends, she ment to slow down, NOT break up. But your right, I don't deserve her. I knew this was going to happen, I know this because you two are really close friends, thats why I told her to blame everything on me. So now you two can feel really good about yourselves. Don't worry, I'm always thinking about the other person.

So Boo, for the sake of Amy and your friend ship, please put all the wieght on me. Amy did nothing wrong, I did and I take FULL responsibility for my actions.[/b]

To tell you the truth, Will, I have no idea what happened. Honestly, I kept telling her that she shouldn't break up...not yet anyway. But whatever, I wasn't blaming you at all, but what you said about women and houses was just wrong. Regardless of whether or not you were joking, it just makes you seem like a asshole. So, no. You don't deserve her.

**WerBurN** · 02-20-2004 12:32 AM

boo, i have a friend who says similar things, who reminds me of will alot...and if my friend is any indicator of will, he didnt mean it...its a false message he is trying to convince himself of cause hes hurt, and saying things like that can help you feel better sometimes, but i highly doubt he would really believe anything like that...will is too nice...not that i really know him all that well...whatever, jus my 2 cents

**ffx-dreamz** · 02-20-2004 01:54 AM

Ok, heres an update. I myself could not do it so I asked someone else to ask her out for me.

I guess Ill see what she says tommorow.(o yeah, the person I asked to do that was a "player" so to speak because he got every girl he wanted. Anyway he has been trying to get me to ask her out for awhile giving me tips ect. So I just figured it was smarter to ask him to

)

**nerve** · 02-20-2004 02:13 AM

got someone else to do it? bad idea.

**ffx-dreamz** · 02-20-2004 02:26 AM

You think? Would that be a turnoff for you paperdoll?

**nerve** · 02-20-2004 02:49 AM

hrmph. to me it says w e a k. *shrugs*

**will.i.am** · 02-20-2004 03:00 AM

Thank you WerBurN, you're right about me, it was just a mask.

**ffx-dreamz** · 02-20-2004 03:20 AM

Somehow I know your right paperdoll, but I just can't face her.

**nerve** · 02-20-2004 04:01 AM

gonna have to toughen up.

**ffx-dreamz** · 02-20-2004 04:03 AM

Maybe you dont remember junior high.(then again your probably not to much older than me) Its hard to face a girl and ask her. It just is. There are so many things that could go wrong. I just dont know...

**Boo** · 02-20-2004 04:09 AM

Originally posted by WerBurN
boo, i have a friend who says similar things, who reminds me of will alot...and if my friend is any indicator of will, he didnt mean it...its a false message he is trying to convince himself of cause hes hurt, and saying things like that can help you feel better sometimes, but i highly doubt he would really believe anything like that...will is too nice...not that i really know him all that well...whatever, jus my 2 cents

Yes, you are probably right, but it pissed me off anyway. And Amy is one of my very best friends, so it made things worse. And Will, I am sorry if you think I am blaming you for any of it. I'm not. Like I said, I didn't want her to break up with you, I thought it was a bad idea.

FFX, that's a risky way of asking someone out, especially since it sometimes creates confusion with the whole "he said, she said" thing. I would suggest confronting this person, as hard as that seems...
heh, but what do I know. I'm an idiot. Anyway, good luck!

**jacobo** · 02-20-2004 04:10 AM

its all a mental build up. get over it, but don't be cockey about it. alcohol always help loosen the tounge. -- then again you are in middle school so thats not really a good idea. just grow some balls and DO IT!