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      Girl Problems

      Umm ok, lets say that "hypathetically" I have a crush on someone.Well lets say she is really beautiful(blonde hair blue eyes ect.)and she has a wonderful personality.Well kinda wonderful I mean she is allways being sarcastic about things I say, but nothing beyond that.So lets say I want to ask this girl to go out with me, but im not the best looking kid in the bunch.So what do I say/do to get her to notice me.I mean errrr the hypathetical me.
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      Well she should like you for who you are but....you could find out what kind of guy she's into and what are her dislikes and likes about a guy. Appearance wise I mean. Umm, get a new outfit, new hairstyle, a haircut, shave or grow facial hair, etc. It all depends on what she likes. Comment on her and flirt with her.

      Curiosity killed the cat but at least it didnt die an ignorant bastard

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      Try and hook up with her at a party or something, it's always much asking a girl out there then in the middle of school. And remember to be confident! It's the most important thing. Good Luck.

      Edit: Ooh I just remembered.... Never, ever fall into to the friendship trap... Once you're in there you're chances are quite a bit lower. But like Nightowl said, it all depends on the type of girl. Who knows, maybe she's into guys who are her friends?

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      O crap I think the "hypathetical" me is in the friendship trap!Does that include talking to her for like 45 mins. a day?
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      errr, yea it sounds like you are. Does she flirt with you at all or shows some interest in you?

      Curiosity killed the cat but at least it didnt die an ignorant bastard

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      Umm I'm not sure... But maybe the fact that she talks to you for that long is a sign that she has a crush on you, too? You could always try asking her friends what she thinks of you. Then they'll tell her that "that boy she hangs with all the time" has a crush on her. That will definately get her attention. I guess it all kind of depends on the situation.

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      She is really flirty to just about everyone but me, I don't think she has made a single sexual/romantic comment to me.

      *starts cursing very loud and continually bangs head against wall* Thats it, on my 1st lucid dream she is going to be in it and im going to ask her out! *stands proud with american flag and patriotic music in background*
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      if she has been flirty to everyone but you that means that she is trying to get you to come to her without her having to pull you...she sounds like she likes you...learn now how women work, for if you cant understand them now, you'll never have hope in the future (not that any of us can really understand them...its a more or less thing ;p)

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      well ffx...if you want a cheerleader, drop the goodcharolette look...
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      She likes Good Charlotte. Anyway I don't have a "Good Charlotte" look but I had considered it till I remembered I still live with my parents and will for quite a while and I really wouldn't want to hear them get all "you shouldn't be wearing stuff like that take it off!" so I decided against it.
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      Listen take it from me give yourself 3 yrs and when you turn 16 then go for it. Right now you shouldn't stress yourself out enjoy your begining teenage years.

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      I can't believe you guys are telling him to change himself to get her attention. be your self and be proud! if she doesn't like you for who you are, she's definitely not worth it.


      Ignorant bliss is an oxymoron; but so is miserable truth.

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      Dude, what Paperdoll just said. That's exactly what I was gonna say. Don't change a thing; if she doesn't like you for who you are, she's not the kind of person you want in your life anyway.
      And honestly, you're kinda young to be worrying about this stuff. Just.. enjoy being young.

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      I've been avoiding commenting on this, but Paperdoll and su-chan are right.

      Don't change yourself! Be who you are. If she is not cool enough to like you for who you are, then she doesn't deserve you!

      Think about it!
      you must be the change you wish to see in the world...
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      Originally posted by Paperdoll EP
      I can't believe you guys are telling him to change himself to get her attention. be your self and be proud! if she doesn't like you for who you are, she's definitely not worth it.
      yeah...but i was just kinda makin fun of him, just a joke

      but yeah man, never change what you believe in to bend to the wish of others.

      Hey, while we are on the subject heres a great question. Would you change yourself for love?
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      Ok i made a fool of myself up there...i would like to appologize...

      Love knows no barriers, it breaks all, people would die for the 'name' of love, NATIONS would even be destroyed for love, as in the case of Troy. But one person should never change themseleves...its stupid to change your own principles just to get someone to like you. cheers...
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      Originally posted by Seeker
      I've been avoiding commenting on this, but Paperdoll and su-chan are right.

      Don't change yourself! Be who you are. If she is not cool enough to like you for who you are, then she doesn't deserve you!

      Think about it!
      Yep, Seeker's as right as we are.
      I mean, think about it... first of all, how can you have any kind of enjoyable relationship with someone if you're too busy pretending to be someone else? Then she doesn't love you anyway, she loves someone that you aren't. I would guess it's rather tiring to try and be someone else entirely. Secondly, how can anything like that last at all? I mean, eventually you're gonna get tired of trying to put on a face to impress her, and she's going to eventually see the "real you" and whether she likes you yourself or not, she's probably gonna be mad that you basically lied to her.

      And chances are, she likes you anyway, if she's behaving that way.

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      su-chan is exactly right.

      oh btw, if you ask her out and everything goes wrong don't get mad at us because we're just idiots and you should have known better than to ask us for advice. XD I'm kidding I'm kidding.


      Ignorant bliss is an oxymoron; but so is miserable truth.

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      make what a poll. o.o


      Ignorant bliss is an oxymoron; but so is miserable truth.

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      Originally posted by Paperdoll EP
      su-chan is exactly right.

      oh btw, if you ask her out and everything goes wrong don't get mad at us because we're just idiots and you should have known better than to ask us for advice. XD I'm kidding I'm kidding.
      I'm only right because that's exactly how I feel about it. I'd be pretty pissed if I found out the person I was dating was pretty much lying to impress me; it's much more impressive if you can be confident enough to say "Hey, this is who I am, and I'm perfectly comfortable with that. LOVE ME NOW." Well, not that last part, but... you know what I mean. ^^;

      I also like Paperdoll's disclaimer about our advice. XD

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      Ignorant bliss is an oxymoron; but so is miserable truth.

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      Thanks for the advice! I love you guys(and girls) *gives everyone a hug* *paperdoll backs away and stands in a corner looking disgusted*
      You guys suck.

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      actually I look more like this:


      Ignorant bliss is an oxymoron; but so is miserable truth.

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      Originally posted by Paperdoll EP
      actually I look more like this:

      Well at least i didn't say you joined in
      You guys suck.

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      Hahaha! Thats the orgasm smiley!



      Actualy I have a friend-that-I-want situation too, but I don't persue it.

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