My girlfriend = fine, great, Christian... nazi.
Hi everyone. :D :) I have an odd rant. Please bare with me.
I'm 18 years old. My entire family is Christian. I go to a Christian church every Sunday, and sometimes I preach on stage. I'm thinking about getting married to my girlfriend, Emily. Emily is also a Christian and goes to church. I've known Emily for around two years now, we've been dating for a VERY long time, and she's 17. She likes WWE, new age stuff, spirituality, astral projection, psychics, God, church, rock music, Nature, tornadoes, and everything else I do. The first time we chatted we chatted for hours. Those two hours in Barnes and Noble when we first talked went by like a fast 20 minutes. Emily works inside Best Buy and Barnes and Noble, which is inside a huge popular Sherwood mall in our town. My family got checked-out of the Best Buy store by Emily many times over. I was just wondering your opinions: should I marry a girl who is in the army that my grandfather tried fighting off in WW2?
Emily wears a nice Christian cross, has some Christian tattoos, and quite a few national socialist tattoos. She is a Christian and a nationalist socialist. The first time I saw her tattoos we were driving around at night near the mall, in my car, when we parked in the mall parking lot and started talking and laughing big time. I showed her my new WWE t-shirt which I bought at the mall. She wanted to show me her tattoos --- I agreed --- she has medium-sized Christian crosses on her left arm and back, a green dragon tattoo (with yellow eyes) on her left shoulder, and national socialist tattoos on her right arm and stomach.
I love Emily very much. I do have one problem though. She is a national socialist and has NO problem letting it be known. When I walk into the mall and Barnes and Noble looking around with my friends, Emily's always working in there with other people, stoking shelves infront of people, her NS tattoos sticking out like snow in the dark. Emily and I walked into a Starbucks last Saturday, and we drinked coffee together in the morning. She reached her right arm across the counter when paying with my money. The worst part is it's doubtful she realizes the tattoos could offend people. In addition, people look at ME after seeing her tattoos.
My grandpa said that if Emily wants to go to Heaven with God, she better stop being a national socialist. Just last December, Christmas day, Emily and her family came over in their trucks and opened presents with her huge family, friends, and my family. Emily gave a big hug to all my family members and she was wearing her NS merchandice. My parents' said they like Emily and her family, but doesn't want them in the house if they're going to wear evil symbols like that. I tried arguing with my parents' about Emily's symbols and tattoos, but it didn't help much.
Emily wants to come to our Christian church and preach Christianity to the masses. However, my parents' told me she better lose the tattoos if she's coming to our church. I also have a bad feeling God wouldn't like it too much. My question to you guys: is there anything wrong with a Christian girl preaching on stage, even though she's basically a neo-nazi, too? I see nothing wrong with it. Emily is a great person, too.
Your opinions? I'm stuck in this rut. I need help on what to do. Thanks. :) :)