Thread: We are wonderful.

Originally posted by Dangeruss
I love fridays. Tomorrow is a friday! hoorayyyyyyy.

You guys don't seem to know where I'm coming from. It makes me physically sick to think about myself in a positive way. I enjoy the sensation of pain. In fact, I just beat my head in an hour ago. The last time I thought about offing myself was five minutes ago, and the time before that was about ten minutes ago. Just thinking good thoughts doesn't make these things go away! thought does not govern emotion!! You're all acting like it's the fault of the handless man that he can't climb the ladder to happiness. No one wants to be miserbale, if they're unhappy they are almost always unhappy for a reason. I've known a lot of unhappy people in my life, and you might be surprised how many of them had nothing but good things to say about life and humanity. Online I'm different of course, but most people that know me (except for my good friends) think that I'm very optimistic and hopeful. I think you can tell this isn't the case. Thinking positively might keep me alive, but it certainly doesn't make me happy. Sometimes it feels like thinking positively makes me even more miserable because I know that I'm lying to myself.

People who feel happy will think happily, but people that think happily don't necessarily feel happy. The type of control over reality it would take for a person like me to feel happy is equatable (in my mind, anyway) with serious delusions. A happy Russell is about as useful to me as a demented Russell.

Russ, before you can have control over yourself, you have to take responsibility for yourself. You are the reason why you feel this way. Nobody else made you depressed. It was you. You have to come to terms with this. It is nobody else's job to make you happy but you, and if you refuse to believe you can, then so be it. You will never be happy if you go through life like this. That's a very unfortunate thing.

Originally posted by Gwendolyn


Russ, before you can have control over yourself, you have to take responsibility for yourself. You are the reason why you feel this way. Nobody else made you depressed. It was you. You have to come to terms with this. It is nobody else's job to make you happy but you, and if you refuse to believe you can, then so be it. You will never be happy if you go through life like this. That's a very unfortunate thing.

Gwendolyn, yes yes yes yes yes. You are completely right. (in my opinion)

I want to make this point as my friend pointed it out to me that some may not understand this:

I do not care if you believe that which I choose to believe, I do not need you.

I choose to believe the things that I believe because it is fun for me to believe them.

Everything I believe might be wrong.

Words are the least effective way to communicate, I agree. Of course you can take my words and make of them what you will. It doesn't matter to me. We are all at choice.
Getting confused in the language is indeed something that many people do. Thats okay.
We are all choosing who we really are.
It is okay to believe what ever you want to believe. Have fun and enjoy your choice.

My friend, Lily star, I hope your choices make you happy and I hope your life is just the way you wish for it to be. Thanks for being my friend even if it was not for long.
You are a wonderful person, just as we all are.
I am always here if you change your mind.

Peace and Love

wrong place

Originally posted by Tom_Peace
Well, we are all perfect. *:-)
Gwendolyn, you are cool and wonderful too.

not meaning to flame but dude COME ON stop smoking the weed, and wake up we ARE NOT PERFECT and no where NEAR PERFECT....people that think we are perfect are just ignorant fools and need to wake the fck up (excuse my french) and if you think that YOU are perfect then you are an Arrogant FOOL!

Im with lilystar all the way

im perfect @.@

Originally posted by Remiel

not meaning to flame but dude COME ON stop smoking the weed, and wake up we ARE NOT PERFECT and no where NEAR PERFECT....people that think we are perfect are just ignorant fools and need to wake the fck up (excuse my french) *and if you think that YOU are perfect then you are an Arrogant FOOL!

Im with lilystar all the way

I don't think it is fair for you to say that just because he is happy with himself and his life. For you to call him arrogant for this, makes you more a fool than anyone. What is wrong with his view? If it's his reality, than for him it is true. It doesn't matter if it is for you or I or anyone else....For him it is true. Nobody said you couldn't believe what you want, because you have total freedom to do so. I guess always underestimating others and finding flaw easily is just your reality.

Originally posted by Gwendolyn


I don't think it is fair for you to say that just because he is happy with himself and his life. For you to call him arrogant for this, makes you more a fool than anyone. What is wrong with his view? If it's his reality, than for him it is true. It doesn't matter if it is for you or I or anyone else....For him it is true. Nobody said you couldn't believe what you want, because you have total freedom to do so. I guess always underestimating others and finding flaw easily is just your reality.

underestimating no, finding flaws yes, it doesnt matter whos view it is, everyone needs to realize to be perfect is not possible, you can only be as close to it as humanly possible, i choose to see the glass half empty. and i never called him arrogant, just anyone who thinks they are perfect. and i never denied him the right of thinking his own thoughts, just very abruptly showed him the truth behind his little fairy tale life.

"finding flaw easily is just your reality. " Give me a god damn fucking break. We are human therefore we are flawed, no matter how much you want to sugar coat it. We either embrace our flaws, accept them (despite still possibly hating them), or change them (OR, even hate ourselves or hate them, and who says that is wrong? Only those who feel the opposite, as we "negative people" sit here and argue the opposite to you) ... but even then? We are still flawed. Even if we see ourselves as perfect there is no way in hell a person isn't still flawed in some way. Flaws are easy to find when you are merely human.

This seems to be a battle and a pointless one at that ... I am leaving this place once an admin gets back to me (I'd rather not just LEAVE but have my account like disappear or something) but I end here with this argument. I will leave Tom to all his happy friends, that is probably what it should have only been in the first place, "Oh yes Tom I agree", "Yeah, you're right" ... nothing of the contrary.)

you know lily, it's like, I wanted to read that post, but I couldn't get past the "give me a god damn fucking break" part

if you have something intelligent to say, don't start off with a vocabulary-challenged phrase like that, it makes me think you're an idiot

+locked until further notice+

my goodness...what on earth happened in this thread? someone shares his optimistic view on life, and somehow this coerces others to jump in and denounce it? why? i mean really, what's the deal? so you don't share someone else's opinion...of course you don't: we're all individuals. that's no reason to turn something so light-hearted into a battleground. i mean, i can understand arguing in more serious topics, but something like this? some people need to learn to just have a little fun (or let others have their fun), and not take things so seriously sometimes...