EDIT: Huh. While i was replying, 3 other people replyed. Weird
EDIT 2: That butterfly is hypnotic...........
EDIT 3: Iceland kicks ass. My family is from there (and France. French viking! Le rape! Le pillage! )
EDIT 4: I've edited this 4 times in less than half as many minutes.
Originally posted by will.i.am
So my prom is coming up soon.
Good on you for surviving high school. I get my grad next year, but my send-off is this year- i get to move to another city for senior year!
Just a little tidbit, but never ever tell yourself this. You don't really need a date, that's just what you've been taught to think by our feminised society.
more like, I'd like to have a date. *And there is this girl that I think is really cute. *We've met like once. *She is in 10th grade while I'm in 12th. *I really got a thing for this chick so I think I'll ask her to prom[/b]
Good so far....
maybe just as friends or something and see how it goes.[/b]
Okay, stop right there. I'll tell you something; never ever refer to you and her as friends if you want any chance of getting with her. Women don't seem to like the idea of their 'friends' getting intimate with them in my experience. Next.
Man, there is just something about her eyes. *They look right into your soul! * *I've been telling myself that even if she says no, its ok, at least I tried! *I feel its better to try and fail than to never try at all.[/b]
True, true, but it's also better to go into something with all the facts than to run in blind. Just a few tips to 'hook' her;
1. Be a confident prick; Confidence is THE most important thing when you enter this arena. You will see that the guy who doesn't seem to really care what the answer is when he asks a girl out will most definately get a lot more 'yes' than the guy who has problems even walking up to her in the first place. Not that i'm saying that's you, that's just an example.
2. Don't be 'Mr. Nice Guy'; It happens all the time; some poor nice guy has his girlfriend cheat on him with some asshole with forearm tattoos, or similar. Mr. Nice Guy was lucky to even have a girlfriend in the first place. Seeming 'dangerous' can be to your advantage, because it posts a 'challenge' to women; specifically, to see if they can 'tame' you. Also, playing the asshole greatly reduces the tendency for people to use you as a 'doormat'.
3. Don't give up the farm; Try to keep any conversation away from you if possible. Gently steer the conversation to a different topic if it does come around to you, but let her know a little bit. If she knows too much about you, there is no mystery to you, and mystery is a good thing.
4. Don't lather her with attention; If you do this, she won't have to do anything to get your attention, and that's bad. At that point, you cease being a possible interest, and become her 'cuddle bitch'- an instant source of attention whenever she needs some. If you direct your attention all around the room, it might entice her to try to 'compete' for your attention with all the other 'hotties' that are bound to be there. And that can only be a good thing.
5.Look at her, not the table; If you and her are talking, maintain eye contact AT ALL COSTS until the conversation ends. If you can't even look her in the eye when you talk, what else is she going to expect from you?
I've made too many of thoughs mistakes in the past, I wont let another slip by without a go at it. *Wish me luck![/b]
A quotable, from yours truly; 'Take action, before inaction takes you.' If you want something to happen, get off your duff and make it happen.
A few things to remember;
1. Never use the 'D' word; Avoid using the word 'date'. 'Date' implys that you will be picking up the bill, and that's not good for your wallet.
2. Mirror, mirror; Try playing with a little technique called 'mirroring'. It can be used to make someone feel more at ease around you. I can't exactly think of proper terms to explain it, so just go to this link to read an article on it.
I hope that helped. Following are some links that I think are pretty good reading, and fairly interesting at that.
Tony's How-To Lay Guide - quite an interesting read. I pulled the article on mirroring from this.
Intellectual Whores - The Ladder Theory - the home of the Ladder Thoery, a very good document on intersexual relationships.
The Guys And Girls Thread - taken from the Discussion Board at 40k.ca, this thread, almost 120 pages and over a year old, is a good place to pose any questions you may have. It also helps that the person who created the thread, and doles out most of the advice, is double-majoring in Psychology and (something else i can't remember). This thread is also home to an excellent interpretation of the Ladder Theory.
And, above all, have a great time at grad! You only get 1 after all.
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