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      Prom and this girl...

      So my prom is coming up soon. I need a date, more like, I'd like to have a date. And there is this girl that I think is really cute. We've met like once. She is in 10th grade while I'm in 12th. I really got a thing for this chick so I think I'll ask her to prom, maybe just as friends or something and see how it goes. Man, there is just something about her eyes. They look right into your soul! I've been telling myself that even if she says no, its ok, at least I tried! I feel its better to try and fail than to never try at all. I've made too many of thoughs mistakes in the past, I wont let another slip by without a go at it. Wish me luck!

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      Ok. Good luck! But most importantly have fun!

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      luck.


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      Good luck!

      I took one of my sisters friends (my friend too) to the prom.

      Highlight of the evening was when we found a guy on the side of the road that had been hit by a car!

      I trust you will have a much more memorable night!
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      *HUGE POST ALERT*

      EDIT: Huh. While i was replying, 3 other people replyed. Weird
      EDIT 2: That butterfly is hypnotic...........
      EDIT 3: Iceland kicks ass. My family is from there (and France. French viking! Le rape! Le pillage! )
      EDIT 4: I've edited this 4 times in less than half as many minutes.

      Originally posted by will.i.am
      So my prom is coming up soon.
      Good on you for surviving high school. I get my grad next year, but my send-off is this year- i get to move to another city for senior year!

      I need a date[/b]
      Just a little tidbit, but never ever tell yourself this. You don't really need a date, that's just what you've been taught to think by our feminised society.

      more like, I'd like to have a date. *And there is this girl that I think is really cute. *We've met like once. *She is in 10th grade while I'm in 12th. *I really got a thing for this chick so I think I'll ask her to prom[/b]
      Good so far....

      maybe just as friends or something and see how it goes.[/b]
      Okay, stop right there. I'll tell you something; never ever refer to you and her as friends if you want any chance of getting with her. Women don't seem to like the idea of their 'friends' getting intimate with them in my experience. Next.

      Man, there is just something about her eyes. *They look right into your soul! * *I've been telling myself that even if she says no, its ok, at least I tried! *I feel its better to try and fail than to never try at all.[/b]
      True, true, but it's also better to go into something with all the facts than to run in blind. Just a few tips to 'hook' her;
      1. Be a confident prick; Confidence is THE most important thing when you enter this arena. You will see that the guy who doesn't seem to really care what the answer is when he asks a girl out will most definately get a lot more 'yes' than the guy who has problems even walking up to her in the first place. Not that i'm saying that's you, that's just an example.

      2. Don't be 'Mr. Nice Guy'; It happens all the time; some poor nice guy has his girlfriend cheat on him with some asshole with forearm tattoos, or similar. Mr. Nice Guy was lucky to even have a girlfriend in the first place. Seeming 'dangerous' can be to your advantage, because it posts a 'challenge' to women; specifically, to see if they can 'tame' you. Also, playing the asshole greatly reduces the tendency for people to use you as a 'doormat'.

      3. Don't give up the farm; Try to keep any conversation away from you if possible. Gently steer the conversation to a different topic if it does come around to you, but let her know a little bit. If she knows too much about you, there is no mystery to you, and mystery is a good thing.

      4. Don't lather her with attention; If you do this, she won't have to do anything to get your attention, and that's bad. At that point, you cease being a possible interest, and become her 'cuddle bitch'- an instant source of attention whenever she needs some. If you direct your attention all around the room, it might entice her to try to 'compete' for your attention with all the other 'hotties' that are bound to be there. And that can only be a good thing.

      5.Look at her, not the table; If you and her are talking, maintain eye contact AT ALL COSTS until the conversation ends. If you can't even look her in the eye when you talk, what else is she going to expect from you?

      I've made too many of thoughs mistakes in the past, I wont let another slip by without a go at it. *Wish me luck![/b]
      A quotable, from yours truly; 'Take action, before inaction takes you.' If you want something to happen, get off your duff and make it happen.

      A few things to remember;
      1. Never use the 'D' word; Avoid using the word 'date'. 'Date' implys that you will be picking up the bill, and that's not good for your wallet.

      2. Mirror, mirror; Try playing with a little technique called 'mirroring'. It can be used to make someone feel more at ease around you. I can't exactly think of proper terms to explain it, so just go to this link to read an article on it.

      I hope that helped. Following are some links that I think are pretty good reading, and fairly interesting at that.

      Tony's How-To Lay Guide - quite an interesting read. I pulled the article on mirroring from this.
      Intellectual Whores - The Ladder Theory - the home of the Ladder Thoery, a very good document on intersexual relationships.
      The Guys And Girls Thread - taken from the Discussion Board at 40k.ca, this thread, almost 120 pages and over a year old, is a good place to pose any questions you may have. It also helps that the person who created the thread, and doles out most of the advice, is double-majoring in Psychology and (something else i can't remember). This thread is also home to an excellent interpretation of the Ladder Theory.

      And, above all, have a great time at grad! You only get 1 after all.
      'You fools! You can't kill what's already dead!'

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      Oh wow, I'd have to say that was one of the most intresting posts I ever read! A lot of that is really good advice and the links are good also, I been to that last one before. That's using psych. to get your woman!

      maintain eye contact AT ALL COSTS until the conversation ends[/b]
      I don't think he'll have problems with that. According to his original description, he's already fallen in love with them.

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      WOW

      That right there was some great advise! Thank you SO much!

      On a side note* I could stair at her eyes forever

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      Looks like everything has been said already, so I'll just say: Good Luck!
      "Trust is a weakness"
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      Re: Prom and this girl...

      Originally posted by will.i.am
      *Man, there is just something about her eyes. *They look right into your soul! * *I've been telling myself that even if she says no, its ok, at least I tried!
      You gotta tell her this...she will appreciate it.
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      I was 63.32% sure that you were going to post the lyrics to "Echo"...

      I guess I was wrong this time...


      Anyway, I wish you good luck and it is great that you are going for it. I have missed out on opporunities several times, and looking back I wish I had taken them, and seen where they led me...

      I just suck with the signals that girls give out...I can never really notice or interpret them correctly...

      It is a foolish game we play, and I really don't like to play by the rules...
      If I hadn't made me
      I'd be more inclined to bow
      Powers that be would have swallowed me up
      But that's more than I can allow...

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      I've had a girl rub her brests, then say they were nice and firm. It came out of nowhere, I was confused!

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      She was probably just doing it to see your reaction, for one of many reasons. One possible reason is she's an attention whore
      Not that attention whores are bad; they're actually quite fun to be around.
      'You fools! You can't kill what's already dead!'

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      God damn! Jeez Deadmetal! How thorough did you wanna be?

      Nicely done though.


      That pickup guide is pure gold! Much respect going out to the guy who wrote it.
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      I would have trouble interpreting that

      Insight into Truthbearer's mind:

      (All in 15 milliseconds)

      Posible reactions and thought going through my mind:

      -Ask "Can I touch them?"
      - Just touch them
      - She's probably joking just laugh
      - She's probably joking just laugh and then proceed with either option 1 or 2 and hope she interprets it as a joke as well
      - Self Destruct/Die
      -Why does this always happen to me?
      -What would Conan do?
      -Say "Mine too"
      -Slap her silly shouting "WHAT DO YOU MEAN WITH THAT? ARE YOUR INTENTIONS WITH ME!!!!! Superego represses thought
      -Think, "damn how can I touch them?"
      - Stare intently, yet discretly, at them for the rest of the night
      - Respond a sarcastic "Oooook" or "Right....." or "If you say so..." or "Who am I to say the aren't" or "Sure they are...(apply only if they really aren't)"
      -Wish I wasn't such an ass
      -"Damn, how I love boobs"

      -"She's coming on to me, reply with wit and a sort playfull naughtness and hope it makes her more attracted to you(yes, there are many characters in my head that form the entire me. They are quite chatty and at times annoying. As I type they keep bugging me saying I shouldn't type this but I am already inclined to do so, so I won't let any of them try and stop me)

      -That won't work you ass, girls don't care about that sort of thing, and it is probably going to divert you from the path you wish to follow...


      In the end I choose the Conan either the witty remark, or, if I am in the mood for it, I will just go for the Conan "Grrrrrr", not listening to the last statement, which proves to be true....

      Damn this is a long stupid post...
      If I hadn't made me
      I'd be more inclined to bow
      Powers that be would have swallowed me up
      But that's more than I can allow...

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      Originally posted by dougdrums
      I've had a girl rub her brests, then say they were nice and firm. It came out of nowhere, I was confused!
      So did you rub them...you pussy.
      "i am the crumpled sheets of paper behind an artists' attempt at perfection"


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      Lol, would you have LC?

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      It was a friend of mine's girl... anyway:

      Note that the following topics of disinterest have been field tested and shown conclusively not to work: Unix[/b]
      Does that mean windows is sexier than unix?

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