Thread: Love

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Dont ask us for an answer, we don't know ^_^ But Im pretty sure your heart does, follow it, love is so beautiful, if you are in love with her you must ask, if she doesnt you at least tried..but, maybe you can start out with not going on the love tour right away..rather, the friendship tour, ask her if she wants to go and do something fun with you, cuz you had so much fun before, who knows, it might just happen, with the flow ^_^

Heh, a girl from your class now?
I thought you liked your friends sister.


... player

Young love...as the old kids say.
But i don't see how its love, seeing as you don't know her that well...love is deeper than 'liking someone for a long time'.
Anyway man...just make a move, and see how it goes.

id say go a little bit more with the friendship moves like Lucius was saying...u could enjoy being with her if it went well for a while before making a commitment!!

anyways good stuff mate

catchya

Go for it dude. You only live life once.


Whaddup you playa!

I actually agree with these guys. See us women like to be a little less agressive, I guess call me old fashion but I prefer for a nice gentleman to ask me out, instead of me making the first move. To me it shows will, determination and the fact that he likes me enough to approach me in the first place. Just don't throw out any of those lame lines alot of guys like to put on women. I need the number to Heaven, because I believe they've lost an Angel. It's cute but lame. Be yourself and don't look at it as love, because life is about lesson's You are going to fall in and out of love more than once. Just when you thought you love someone to the fullest and you could never love someone like that again. Well think again, because you feel that way due to the current situation at the moment. Once someone else approaches your life and they will. You will feel that same feeling all over again. Enjoy your youth.

Just be open and honest with her. Be kind, don't be pushy. Let her know you are interested without making her feel threatened.
Just be yourself.

Yup, I can telly ya right now, shes definitely interested! Just be cool about it, let her know you think pretty highly of her, too, and let it take its course! Congratz, bud, I remember that feeling well! It IS almost magical! Enjoy!

yeah whatever happened to your friends little sis?

i say hang out with her for a little while and make sure she doesn't do that with all the guys (personal experience).

now on to my rant on 'love.'

i think that word gets thrown around toooooo much these days. "ohhh i love you!" what does that mean to you? to me, it means you're deeply entrenched in whoever it is that you love. it's not just that you can't stop thinking about them because there's other reasons for that when you're 13-18... i think love is sooo much deeper and i truly don't think i've ever loved a girl. true i've been blinded by the panties on several occasions and i've said it... but i always regret it a month later. sad story. but yea, love is a deep deep deep deep emotion and i don't like the way it's meaning is being prostituted for the sake of getting some ass.

...same thing goes for hate... "ohhh i hate those things!" -- you don't truly hate those things, you just don't like them... lets not be drama queens now.


other than my obvious objections to calling it love, i think you should give it a try... it can't hurt... too much.

You people give good advice

I completely agree with adaidas. "I love you" is thrown around so much.. and it takes so much away from such a beatiful thing. I've learned quite a bit about this emotion, and its funny to me when even couples who have been dating for two weeks say,"I love you." In my opinion, love just isnt possible in the time span of two weeks, or even a lot longer than that. It takes a year *at the very least*, a year to get to know someone, to get comfortable with them. And now I'm going to get off my soap box. Haha, my appologies, love is just a very big and misinterpreted subject.

As far as "young love" goes, personally I dont like being asked out if a guy just knows my name. That tends to tell me that he's shallow or wants to get some, and in either case he's not going to get a possitive answer. If I had advice, it would be get to know her.. take it slow.

Okay, I'm done.

I didn't ask her because I had second thoughts.I'll ponder over them for a bit longer.My first thought was what kind of commitment would it take?How much devotion? and my 2nd was what do I do?How do I go about a relationship? I wish this wasn't my 1st gf, then I would know those answers.

And it wasn't that I just liked her for a few weeks, I have been talking to her and conversing for a bit too.I feel like I know her more than any girl at my school.

Also, contrary to popular belief, Im not out to get some, I just want a relationship that involves deep feelings for the other person.Someone I can trust and turn to when things aren't going so well, and I want someone who turns to me and trusts me.

Originally posted by ffx-dreamz
Also, contrary to popular belief, Im not out to get some, I just want a relationship that involves deep feelings for the other person.Someone I can trust and turn to when things aren't going so well, and I want someone who turns to me and trusts me.

Touches chest with fist and then raises it in the air homie style

Respect.

I didnt mean to imply you were out to get some , I only ment that in the case of a guy asking me out, personally, if he doesnt know me very well, that's what goes through my mind.

Like everyone has been saying.. hang out with her, and the relationship will pretty much evolve itself in its own good time .

You can try asking her out. I know that feeling, just don't get your hopes up so high that it'll suck if it doesn't all work out. Lol I guess I'm kinda bitter about that stuff.

Originally posted by ffx-dreamz
I didn't ask her because I had second thoughts.I'll ponder over them for a bit longer.My first thought was what kind of commitment would it take?How much devotion? and my 2nd was what do I do?How do I go about a relationship? I wish this wasn't my 1st gf, then I would know those answers.

And it wasn't that I just liked her for a few weeks, I have been talking to her and conversing for a bit too.I feel like I know her more than any girl at my school.

Also, contrary to popular belief, Im not out to get some, I just want a relationship that involves deep feelings for the other person.Someone I can trust and turn to when things aren't going so well, and I want someone who turns to me and trusts me.

likewise, save for a 1st gf. that went well... for a week.

best of luck ffx

If your not out to get any, are you willing to recieve any?

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Back to the matter at hand, any interesting revelations since last you posted on this?

Yeah, actually I have.She asked me out..but I had been having second thoughts since I posted this and turned her down.She is WAY to slutty for me, and that is NOT what I want.I don't want my first gf to be a slut.So, Im proud of myself for making the decision I made.

Wait, why not get a free dinner outa it? If she asked you out, she pays! What made you come to the conclusion that she was too slutty for you. Chances are a great thing to give and who knows, maybe you could quell her meretricious behavior!

Originally posted by PSmolik90
Wait, why not get a free dinner outa it? If she asked you out, she pays! What made you come to the conclusion that she was too slutty for you. Chances are a great thing to give and who knows, maybe you could quell her meretricious behavior!

13 year olds don't go out to dinner with each other! They go get a drink from the pie shop down the road, or go to a party or the movies. You know, shit like that.

Meretricious. Hard to believe it's a real word isn't it? Never go out with somebody with the thought that you can change them, it most likely ain't gonna happen.

But I wonder the same thing, what made you think she was too slutty for you?

After all that worrying you turned her down...funny...ironic...dumb

Nah, if you feel you made the right choice then I commend you for not being a slave of your passions...er whatever...

P.S. PS had a point, free dinner(or muffins or pies of whatnot) are never bad....

Well, she did start "touching" herself...and she also kept talking about how she has seen a lot of big dicks....yeah... She started talking about how she sucked off her old bf all the time.. SLUT.Although, she has a nice personality regardless, I don't want to date someone who does things like that.She is in 7th grade and has already given head..

So, that is my reason for not going out with her.I want to stay clean..and definately don't want a kid at my age.(if she asked me to have sex, I absolutely could not resist, my sexu al side takes over)

I feel I made the right choice, although I probably could have gotten some free muffins out of the ordeal.

I respect you man...

To be honest I have always been the same way and don't want to be like most of them out there that don't really respect themselves, and just indulge themselves in this increasingly decaying society...

You made the right choice...

*appears as the devil on ffx-dreamz shoulder*

Who's to say she isn`t clean. In matters like this, wouldn`t you want to base something off maturity. So, she gave some head to some guy...Experience. Look on the other side, its not like she's doing double anal with guy's she doesn`t know. Your choice is respectful, don`t get me wrong, but chances are chances and everyone deserves one. If she really is a slut, then she would probably want to toss you aside, unless your just some sexy 13 yr old beast she wants to conquer.

Oh and on a side note, I said quell, as in to calm. You can`t change a person, but you can affect how they react to certain situations.