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      Mr Suave

      So i hae a question for all you guys. Ever feel like the great girls always pick the ass holes? WHy is this what do they have that joe nice guy doesn't have. I mean sometimes i can just do it, i have the suave ness and i make all the right moves and lines, but other times, nothing. How can i become mr suave and beat all the ass holes?

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      MONEY & BEER = SEX
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      still trying to figure that one out. i don't think that it's necessarily being suave because i've seen some go for the out right ass holes that couldn't put a move on a girl if their life depended on it. my personal theory is that they're rebelling against their parents who want them to have "a nice guy." it inclines me to punch out the first guy who looks at me funny at a party... i just can't bring myself to break a couple fingers for a girl who doesn’t know what the f*ck she wants.
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      That is usually true up til about the time they hit 30 or so. Then they are looking for a nice, dependable guy to settle down with.

      Of course there are exceptions to the rule. My wife nd I were in our early 20's when we hooked up!

      (BTW: She hates beer )
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      Re: Mr Suave

      Originally posted by kickbackseifer
      So i hae a question for all you guys. Ever feel like the great girls always pick the ass holes? WHy is this what do they have that joe nice guy doesn't have. I mean sometimes i can just do it, i have the suave ness and i make all the right moves and lines, but other times, nothing. How can i become mr suave and beat all the ass holes?
      Easy. Most guys (that are decent) are afraid to put off a girl, so they'll cover up their sexuality. Assholes (for the most part) don't do this.

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      If you can't beat them join them.
      J/K. A "nice" guy has a concious and cannot be an ass like some guys. But sooner or later it will pay off because you will find a girl eho does not like the company of an asshole!

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      Oh you are not alone there kickbackseifer. I know exactly how you feel.

      I'll quote what I said in a thread a bit like this a little while ago, changed a little to suit the situation of course:

      Originally posted by Lomebririon
      I hate it when I see beautiful, NICE girls I know going out with those 'i'm so tough', ugly slobs.
      I think that anywhere you go, you will probably see a few people from either gender that like a bit of ugly or flaky retardedness. I suppose we'll just have to put up with it. 'Sigh'

      I think these girls believe that there is an air of depth about these 'assholes'. Like they are only like that in public and that there is a deeper side to them. And when they can tame the asshole's \"wild spirit\", they will be left with a decent, faithful man.

      But we all know that that's rarely true.

      That's only my opinion though.
      It may be just that some girls like a man who isn't nice to them. I mean, I saw a guy once whose girlfriend broke up with him because he was being 'too nice to her.'

      But it's not my problem, I can't choose how they live, so I just deal with it.

      Originally posted by Howetzer
      A \"nice\" guy has a concious and cannot be an ass like some guys. But sooner or later it will pay off because you will find a girl eho does not like the company of an asshole!
      Word.
      The best times of your life should not be when you're still so young, or else you'll live a life always dreaming of the past.


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      the a-hole's guide to getting laid! wow i could never do that stuff. yet i'm somehow content with myself.
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      I hear that.
      The best times of your life should not be when you're still so young, or else you'll live a life always dreaming of the past.


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      I know tons of girls like that at my school. I'd choose wanking over being a jerk any day, though.

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      I just can't do it, i can't be a complete ass hole. dougdrums - interesting guide

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      I do my best not to pick the ass holes, but sometimes, I can't help but be attracted to them in a strange way. They are usually terribly confident in themselves, which I find attractive. Every nice guy seems to be too shy, and I'm not about to wait around for them to get the "i'm interested in you" signals long after they've been sent.

      I'm a nice girl, but probably not one of the beauties you're talking about, being quite average.

      girls might like ass holes, but guys never seem to like plain girls.
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      Originally posted by Kickbackseifer+--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Kickbackseifer)</div>
      just can't do it, i can't be a complete ass hole.[/b]
      Never change who you are just so someone will like you. If they like you, they must like you for you.

      <!--QuoteBegin-Ashliebelle

      but guys never seem to like plain girls.
      How stereotypical. I like plain girls.

      If I may drop one of my famous innuendos here, "Many fine wines have faded labels".



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      The best times of your life should not be when you're still so young, or else you'll live a life always dreaming of the past.


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      i like the girls who actually stimulate me. and not in the sexual ways you sickos. for example the girl i'm currently going with is one of the most unique people i've ever met. she's smart, funny, and brutally honest. it's just fun to be with her, she doesn't wear make up or hollister's latest trend. she is who she is and that's what makes the relationship exciting.

      but in all fairness lomebririon; the girl going after the a-hole is stereotypical in its own right.
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      Personally i like the plain girls better than these blonde chicks who don't know which way is up. But it would be nice to just see someone decide im interested and go for it. But with good results.

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      Im going to quote a song in relation to this.

      First you want a guy thats real nice
      Wants to spend all his dough and his time

      Then you change your mind and want a thug guy
      Who don't act right
      It doesn't pay to be the good guy.

      You calling me late night
      Telling me how he won't act right.
      He then flip you the bird and make you cry
      It just ain't right
      It doesn't pay to be the good guy.

      Why should I be the good guy
      You take me for granted and push me to the side
      rather have a man that will tell you lies
      Tell me why why Tell me why...


      You guys should relate to this, if not don't worry hehe=)

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      Originally posted by adidas+--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(adidas)</div>
      i like the girls who actually stimulate me. and not in the sexual ways you sickos. for example the girl i'm currently going with is one of the most unique people i've ever met. she's smart, funny, and brutally honest. it's just fun to be with her, she doesn't wear make up or hollister's latest trend. she is who she is and that's what makes the relationship exciting.[/b]
      I agree with you about non-sexual stimulation. You are lucky to have met someone like that.

      <!--QuoteBegin-adidas


      but in all fairness lomebririon; the girl going after the a-hole is stereotypical in its own right.
      You have a valid point there. I might just have agreed with you on the whole \"going after the a-hole cliché\" aspect of the topic if I hadn't seen it for myself.

      Nothing is a cliché when it's happening to you.




      Originally posted by Kickbackseifer
      But it would be nice to just see someone decide im interested and go for it. But with good results.
      Kind of makes you wonder what the world would be like if everyone told the truth.

      Oh yeah, nice song Switch.
      The best times of your life should not be when you're still so young, or else you'll live a life always dreaming of the past.


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      Nothing is a cliché when it's happening to you. [/b]

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      Originally posted by kickbackseifer
      Personally i like the plain girls better than these blonde chicks who don't know which way is up. But it would be nice to just see someone decide im interested and go for it. But with good results.
      I'm blonde. I know which way is up. what's your point? >:|


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      Originally posted by Lomebririon
      Kind of makes you wonder what the world would be like if everyone told the truth.
      You rang????

      Paperdoll (notice I didn't call you PD ): I think he meant blonde bimbos...why am I explaining this to you???? I am very sure you know what he meant....

      I won't lie to you and say I don't like physically attractive girls, but what I am looking for is for someone who I can really connect with, someone that fits my type of personality and mindset...I wish that I could find a girl that would make me feel better about the world and my existance, that can prove that real love exists and a connection that can surpass the boundaries of this world is a posibility....[/rant]

      Why girls choose asshole, I believe was the original topic: I have no idea and it pisses me off, but I believe that if she was superficial/stupid/oblivious/etc enough to pick an asshole, then she cannot be the right type of person for me. I don't want to be a name in between her list of assholes....
      If I hadn't made me
      I'd be more inclined to bow
      Powers that be would have swallowed me up
      But that's more than I can allow...

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      Some girls just get so wrapped up in their emotions, they don't realize how big of an asshole a guy is. If he's giving her attention in a non-stalker way, chances are, she'll start liking him and will overlook or ignore or not even notice the ass-holiness (I would like to copyright this word for myself).

      Truthbearer, I hope you don't mean you won't like a girl just because of her past relationships! My last boyfriend was really shy and emotional. That doesn't necessarily mean that my next boyfriend will be one of the same. It actually means I will be looking for a more confident and less emotional guy.
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      I don't mean I won't like her, but I will think twice about dating her... its like that old proverb: "Tell me who you are with and I'll tell you who you are"(I took the liberty to translate it from spanish)

      If she has a historial filled with assholes then I would think that she takes herself that seriously and values herself that much. There are many kinds of assholes out there, so it is not always the same, but for most cases I do feel that way. I'll think "If she was *blank* enough to date or fall for that idiot, then I don't want her"

      I don't know if it is a good thing, but I just can't stand that sort of thing...
      If I hadn't made me
      I'd be more inclined to bow
      Powers that be would have swallowed me up
      But that's more than I can allow...

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      Originally posted by Switch
      Im going to quote a song in relation to this.

      First you want a guy thats real nice
      Wants to spend all his dough and his time

      Then you change your mind and want a thug guy
      Who don't act right
      It doesn't pay to be the good guy.

      You calling me late night
      Telling me how he won't act right.
      He then flip you the bird and make you cry
      It just ain't right
      It doesn't pay to be the good guy.

      Why should I be the good guy
      You take me for granted and push me to the side
      rather have a man that will tell you lies
      Tell me why why Tell me why...


      You guys should relate to this, if not don't worry hehe=)
      here's a good song lyric too...

      If you want to be happy for the rest of your life,
      never make a pretty woman your wife.
      So from my personal point of view,
      get an ugly girl to marry you.

      clear eyes. strong hands.

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      Nice Guys Finish Last\"

      Nice guys finish last.
      You're running out of gas.
      Your sympathy will get you left behind.
      Sometimes you're at your best, when you feel the worst.
      Do you feel washed up, like piss going down the drain

      Pressure cooker pick my brain and tell me I'm insane.
      I'm so fucking happy I could cry.
      Every joke can have its truth and now the joke's on you.
      I never knew you were such a funny guy.

      Oh nice guys finish last, when you are the outcast.
      Don't pat yourself on the back, you might break your spine.
      [/b]
      Fits right in here. Well, I'd rather be the nice guy then the asshole, i'm not going to voilate my principles to get some.

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