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Just summon the sword and kick his ASS.
It has to work.
stick it out... i've been there many a time.
it seems the only thing that keeps us going is the fight against isolation... isn't that all life is? a struggle to survive? a struggle to be apart of something... your work... your art... your family... your friends... that's who you are. you are your struggle... and sometimes the odds seemed stacked but they always turn out... they aren't illusions. someone said that peace is only the time between war... you're in a war... shit i'm in a war... but 'war' isn't permanent, it's a temporary state of mind and you'll get over it and learn from it.
you're a smart guy and you know better than me how to find reason or purpose in the devastation that is one's state of mind.
i wish i could be inspirational but you need to work out your own problems and be stronger for it... there's always something to value.
good luck.
Sadly we all have to deal with loneliness , but in that darkness there is always a little dot of light, be that a person, a goal or mission, a wish, or just hope in its purest form. Never lose that! Hope is so important.. there is always hope, its all you can do.
As long as you believe the future will be brighter, you will be ok, make the best of everything until that day, keep up hope, find a goal, help others, feel useful, because every single person can help out another, if you dont want to live for yourself, live for others, sometimes I think I do, but then I realize there are so many pretty things in life!! Watch the miracle, that on its own, just is worth living, and hoping.
O'nus, tough it out man! We've talked enough before so that I believe I know what is going on with you :cry:
You know, people have talked about how difficult the adolescent years are, confusion, anger, loneliness, hopelessness.
The 20's have their own set of problems: fear, stress, loneliness, and heartache. In simpler times, couples would marry in their late teens, start a family, and then stay miserable for the rest of their lives. Today, this has been pushed out into the late 20's to early 30's and things like conflicting careers and desires now add to the stress.
You can make it, I'm sure. When you look back on this time from your 30's, things will look much better than they do right now.
There are some on this forum that I consider to be personal friends instead of just online acquaintances, you are one of these.
If you want to discuss anything off-forum, you know where to find me.
Moving this to the Lounge, it is far from senseless
First of all: *kicks O'nus in the ass* Pull yourself together man!
You are a great guy, and we have had our chats before, i'm sorry i haven't been around lately...
Everybody goes through this at a time in their lives, some to a greater extent than others, and some deeper than others.
Hope is a four letter word that many people do not have.
Dammit, man, you are a friend, and i don't want to see you like this.
STOP. Now. Or i will hurt you.
O'nus, Remember that there are people who care about you, so do not despair. I know I do not know you, but I have felt that way before, and I can relate. If life had no downs as well as ups, how would anyone be able to appreciate the up times? I am terribly sad that your life isn't going so well now, but if you stick this out, it will be worth it.
Oh yeah, once again we see the total hardcore-ness of O'nus. This board is making me nostalgic.
Artelis, sto being an arse.
O'Nus...I don't know you, but pull yourself together. It sounded to me in that post as if you were thinking of commiting suicide and if you are, don't, which is about as much as I can say.
Arr, that be some good therapy there. Thats like a big slap in the face and yelling "DO IT YOU BASTARD!! I'M READY TO WATCH, W0000!!!"Quote:
Originally posted by Techboy
Artelis, sto being an arse.
O'Nus...I don't know you, but pull yourself together. It sounded to me in that post as if you were thinking of commiting suicide and if you are, don't, which is about as much as I can say.
Well I should note that things are better now.
Every relationship and every life will have complications. We all have issues, nothing is perfect, and no matter how "perfect" you believe you love to be, there has to be some flaws, for if not, it's not real - it's just as good as a dream.
I could waste your time and make my reply seem intimidating by explaining the problem, lol, but I'm sure anyone reading this will understand that there was an problem, and it was drastic.. almost seperated us.. but it's all great now, better than before. Of course, becuase of this problem, I embellished all other little complications.. and posted on here because I don't truly like to ask for support in person (thank God for the impersonal factor of the internet, :P )
I'd really like to extend my gratitude to everyones support.. I truly didn't expect so much.. This board is full of great people.
Except for Artelis - Fuck You.
I'm amazed of how a couple of dots can start a conversation.
I nearly wet my pants at the last thing O'nus just said it's so funny...
Seriously though, IZ, O'nus decided to edit his post for some reason. I'm not sure why and I have enough respect for him not to ask.
Woo! I had to drag this halfway back up the page just to say "O'nus: I love the way you shut people up."Quote:
Except for Artelis - Fuck You.
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