betrayal

has nay one here ever been betrayed by someone they realy care about or love?

That feeling must really suck. :(

I don't believe I have had personal experience but I can imagine it must be bad, especially when you trust the person.

i got first vote and it does suck big time

Hhm... I don't think I ever have. Obviously I've lied before, but you said "BETRAYED" thats a big big word... I don't think I've ever actually even been placed in the situation in which I would have had to choose really hard between betrayal or not.

Take it easy,
Dylan

does dating sisters count? :?

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Originally posted by adidas
does dating sisters count? *:?

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lmao, that's good... and i don't know... o.O

i have a lot of friends that think i betrayed them, but i was really doing my absolute best to be the best friend they could ever want, and they never told me i was screwing up, so in the end they dubbed me anti-christ.

i'm not entirely clear on the exacts of the situation to this day, but i suspect there was some kind of betrayal on someone's part in there, and i no longer accosiate with any of these ppl because they literally seem to think i am the root of all evil.

I've been "betrayed" before...just not by anyone I really cared about or loved. Just this "friend" who turned out to be a complete two faced bitch...oh well, I'm glad that I found that out when I did, rather than later on in the road...

first I had friends, then they stabbed me in the back for popularity, then I kinda became isolated, sucked pretty much. Then I made some more friends somewhere else but after a while they stabbed me in the heart because they where assholes. And then recently someone did something that kinda felt like betrayal but it wasnt intentional so she's forgiven, and all is cool.

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Originally posted by death dreamer
has nay one here ever been betrayed by someone they realy care about or love?

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no

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Originally posted by Squall
That feeling must really suck. :(

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Yes it does! Sucks major league big time!

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i have a lot of friends that think i betrayed them, but i was really doing my absolute best to be the best friend they could ever want, and they never told me i was screwing up, so in the end they dubbed me anti-christ.

i'm not entirely clear on the exacts of the situation to this day, but i suspect there was some kind of betrayal on someone's part in there, and i no longer accosiate with any of these ppl because they literally seem to think i am the root of all evil.[/b]

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yes, it was all an elaborate plan on my part (mwahahahahha)...see, look at your friends now! you have myself and my best friend and another friend of mine i introduced you to...all the pieces are falling into place! you shall never be able to escape my grasp! bwahahahha

...i've been backstabbed before, but not with the whole love thing...just normal backstabbing...ermm, i always have a tendancy to turn around and do worse to them, and have yet to fail at this sort of vengeance...it really deos make everything feel alot better to know that they tried to backstab you, but you ended up winning in the end anyway, and now you know they arent really your friend either...but again, the love backstabbing is a different story i geuss...as you cant really force someone into loving you again...(with the exception of my kitty, who has fallen into my devious plan)


edit: wtf, it wont let me quote? this is the second post it hasn't let me do a proper quote in...

you need to be 100% behind someone before you can stab them in back.........

I was betrayed by my sister once (not in a small way either), but I actually got over it pretty quick. I don't know if I would have if it had been a friend though, as opposed to a family member.

well i was betrayed by the one person i truly care about...

she had sex with the one person i truely hate!

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yes, it was all an elaborate plan on my part (mwahahahahha)...see, look at your friends now! you have myself and my best friend and another friend of mine i introduced you to...all the pieces are falling into place! you shall never be able to escape my grasp! bwahahahha[/b]

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i should have known... lol, so long as you don't betray me though, love, i think i'll let it slide *winks*

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well i was betrayed by the one person i truly care about...

she had sex with the one person i truely hate!

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...slut. i hate the way society seems to tell people that flinging around sex and the emotions of those they care about is ok, and then people just go and listen and do that kind of thing...

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Originally posted by adidas
does dating sisters count? *:?

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only jake...i could expect this from you! hah :lol:

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Originally posted by Truthbearer
I've been \"betrayed\" before...just not by anyone I really cared about or loved. Just this \"friend\" who turned out to be a complete two faced bitch...oh well, I'm glad that I found that out when I did, rather than later on in the road...

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^Yeah ditto. Now that girl is one of the biggest whores I know. She told my friend that's still friends with her that she was never loyal to ONE boyfriend. Not one. And she's had A LOT of boyfriends. So sad.

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Originally posted by Luna
Now that girl is one of the biggest whores I know. She told my friend that's still friends with her that she was never loyal to ONE boyfriend. Not one. And she's had A LOT of boyfriends. So sad.

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*shakes head* that is sad... i don't see how that works, personally... but then i'd never bother with a relationship unless it had major potential... i mean, what's the point? but that's just cuz i'm a sheltered little prude, i suppose... lol

i guess i can follow the jumping around when u have no commitment, trying to find something worthwhile... but cheating always seemed kinda stupid to me. then again, my sweetheart was "technically" going out with 2 other ppl when we started seeing each other, so... yeah, i'm shutting up now, i have no idea.

I don't think that I could ever cheat on my partner...it's just not who I am. I think that there are much more important things in this world than sex, besides what the media will tell you, and I will make my best effort to fight for them.

It worries me that my father cheated on my mother several times until she finally decided to put an end to the relationship, and that I am bound to repeat that pattern, as it has been suggested that I will according to statistics and psychology. It worries me but then again I know that in the end I always have the choice to do as I wish, and I do not have to mimic his relationship with my mother, or anything like that. I have to be very aware of my every thought for that, but I know that I can break the cycle and be the person that I always thought myself to be....

I tend to feel like I've betrayed myself when I get attached to a person and start having expectations of their behaviour, then get hurt when they go against those expectations. I've gone a little cynical--I mostly expect people to act without attentiveness or thought to their own long term benefit, much less the benefit of people they think of as "others." I try to help people and not to hurt them because I've seen how the effects spin out from both kinds of actions, and however it may seem in my interest in the short term, advancing myself or my enjoyment at someone else's expense does me no favors in the long run. Still, I find it hard to keep equanimity regarding others from sliding over into distrust, and my last experience getting close to someone (over a year ago) left me pretty isolated and suspicious of people's motives.