Hate message on DV?

[Shaelyn]

Okay so today I got a hate message Someone sent me a PM saying basically that I looked like a bitch, acted like a bitch, and was slutty. I have never spoken a word to this person in the past and actually it was kind of funny. I still don't get how someone can look like a bitch. So the whole point of this thread ... do I look like a bitch? Have I ever been a bitch to one of you?

[ExoByte]

Not to me! If you're getting messages like that, send a PM to one of The Staff members, preferably Moderator or Administrator. Quote the PM sent to you and tell them who it was from. Something like that should not be tolerated, especially unprovoked like that!

[Shaelyn]

Oh, I am not that worried about it. I mean if it said something really offending I might but it isn't worth the time. I just thought it was really funny and that everyone should get a load of laughter at it. I mean really who tells someone they "look" like a bitch !? Thank you very much for your concern, my friend.

[ninja9578]

Forward the PM on to me please. That's a violation of the rules and very uncalled for. To answer your question: I've been you post around a little bit and I've never seen you be bitchy, nor do you look like a bitch.

[nitsuJ]

Okay so today I got a hate message Someone sent me a PM saying basically that I looked like a bitch, acted like a bitch, and was slutty. I have never spoken a word to this person in the past and actually it was kind of funny. I still don't get how someone can look like a bitch. So the whole point of this thread ... do I look like a bitch? Have I ever been a bitch to one of you? Do you think you look like a bitch, act like a bitch, or that you're a slut? If not, don't worry about it and ignore the retard.

[Ynot]

no one ever sends me any hate mail :(

[Shaelyn]

I can send you some if you would like lol ... it is very funny.

[Photolysis]

Do you think you look like a bitch, act like a bitch, or that you're a slut? If not, don't worry about it and ignore the retard. Well actually, just because someone doesn't think they have a problem, it doesn't mean they *don't* have a problem. I'm not talking about this case as I don't know the original poster and as far as I can remember I've never read one of her posts (aside from the ones in this thread obviously). But I have known people who act like a bitch who think they don't. What I will say though is, how can someone look like an adjective that describes a personality (well at least in this case )?

[Shaelyn]

My thoughts exactly. There is no possible way to tell if someone is a bitch by looking at them. And I agree ... just because someone doesn't think they have a problem doesn't mean they don't. Wow, how many "doesn't/don't" (s) were in that sentence!?

[Adam]

I think you can tell by a picture.. But I don't think you look like one.

[Shaelyn]

Well, thank you! I would hope not. I think I look silly out of all things. The point wasn't to look bitchy although I have pics like that hehehe.

[Carôusoul]

Who sent it?

[Shaelyn]

Oh, someone by the name of Puppycat I recall but no trouble really. She made me giggle.

[hisnameistyler]

Oh, someone by the name of Puppycat I recall but no trouble really. She made me giggle. At least she's not getting to you I lose faith in people sometimes

[ExoByte]

I lost faith in people a long time ago.

[Shaelyn]

I never had faith in people. I had hope one day they may change but came to the realization that the world is coming to an end and everyone in it is going to hell, eventually. So fuck it might as well have fun while I am slowly edging towards eternal torture.

[ExoByte]

Aren't you just the optimistic one?

[Shaelyn]

I sure am. lol It depends on what mood you catch me in. My best friend of 5 years stopped talking to me so I am a little depressed.

[Carôusoul]

I'm a monumental faggot.

[Shaelyn]

I'm a monumental faggot. Sounds good to me ... I am a monumental fuck up (excuse my language). You want to be best friends???

[ExoByte]

You're monumentally confusing. First a post about people harassing you through PMs, and now you insult yourself. Not that I'm not entertained by the thought, but just an observation.

[Shaelyn]

You're monumentally confusing. First a post about people harassing you through PMs, and now you insult yourself. Not that I'm not entertained by the thought, but just an observation. Ha, I didn't even see it that way. I am confused myself ... I never know what I am talking about. Something just tells me to say/type one thing so I do. Then something just tells me to say/type another so I do. I never have a clue about what I am talking about. Take now for an example.

[Black_Eagle]

"Looking like a bitch" is something that is usually only coined by girls who are insecure about themselves and are trying to lessen the status of a certain person in other people's eyes.

[Shaelyn]

That's a way to look at things ... I also agree with this.

[kichu]

I find this thread interesting. I've been told my whole life that I look like a bitch. By various people, at various times in my life. They must all see something. It can't be a coincidence or that I've just run into a lot of insecure jerks. I don't think you look like a bitch, but I believe there must be a way that certain people look that to other certain people signals "bitch!" Maybe arched eyebrows, or a certain mouth shape? I don't think that's completely unrealistic or surprising that people make those judgments. It's human nature to observe and judge and then draw conclusions based on that. The part that bugs me is that this person went and told you that in what sounds like a rude message. They have every right to think what they want, but trashing you was unnecessary.