Thread: Best lucid sex?

I heard that if you have sex in a dream, you will get too excited and wake up...

Here's an exert from one of the many sexual episodes I've had:

I was now in someone else’s house and was surrounded by a Spanish family. It was daytime now, and the sun shone in through the windows. I don’t remember exactly when, but it was sometime around here that I first lost lucidity. There was an adorable little baby boy, with a little beanie on, and I picked him up and sat down in a chair with him on my lap. Immediately, it was if I had been a friend of the family for a long time. I started rocking the chair, holding the baby, and he began dozing off. I don’t remember if I met the girl first, or became lucid again first, but – somewhere around here – I realized I was dreaming again. Don’t know if anything triggered it or if it was spontaneous. There was now a girl there who looked just like a young Salma Hayek hanging around, and I immediately gravitated toward her. (I just saw her on Punk’d yesterday. Good gawd. ) I just hung out with her for a while, without really turning it into anything overtly sexual. She had to do something for her family involving tending to bees and wasps, and I helped her with that. I wasn’t afraid of the insects because I kept reminding myself it was a dream. Otherwise, I probably would have been terrified. Lol. She was really shy and reserved at first, which actually made me even more attracted to her, but she warmed up to me pretty quickly.

Next thing I know, we were waking up in an elegant, white room with two large beds. In the other bed was some huge guy, passed out. Her roommate or something I’m guessing. Don’t know exactly. We were both naked and she carried the white sheet with her as she got up and went over toward the bathroom. I followed her and walked up behind her, sliding my arms around her and kissing her neck while I talked to her. She seemed to forget her original reason for getting up as I guided her over to a short countertop, somewhat sit/standing against it, pulling her back against me.(<--So awesome that I found such an accurate picture. Heh.) I could tell she was getting hot, the way she leaned her head back into me while I kissed her neck. My hands traced down her stomach and played along her pelvis. They started to go lower and she kind of shifted, apprehensively. I backed off a little and kept kissing her neck and shoulder. Obviously feeling the intoxication, she was a little more inviting, the next time my hand fell between her legs. She reached back, between our bodies, and took hold of me - rubbing and feeling me get harder in her hand. Then, she arched her back and pulled me down beneath her, sitting back and pushing me inside her from behind, my hand still working around front. As we had sex, I periodically looked over her shoulder, seeing that the DC - who was supposed to be sleeping - was now pretending to be asleep, and failing miserably. I could see him watching us through squinted eyes, not sure whether or not she noticed. I didn’t really care, though, knowing this was just a dream. The sex was great, though. Hot shit.

And here's a link to the rest of the dream, if you'd like to read it.

It's very common for people to get too excited and wake up. This usually comes with inexperience. Lucid sex is one of the most common hobbies around here. Depending on the clarity of your dream, it can feel very, very real.

I remember once, I had a very bad temper tantrum in a lucid dreamstate because of the lack of reality. I really, really got mad. If I hit a tv tube with a bat, it did not break, I had to really get mad to do it. Glasses did not break when dropped. I was totally frustrated.

Well it turned out there were two waitresses, and I said, watch this, I was tempting the unreality of it. I was betting that I would feel almost nothing, or something like old carpet. Well, I took one for sex, however, I climaxed. VERY REAL climax, and so I woke myself up confused about the reality, however--IT WAS NOT A WET DREAM. I do not use lucid dreaming for sex, it was just that I was having a fit about reality.

This is one of the dream where I was made aware that things could be very real, in sight, sound, feeling, etc., however, that the degradation of experience, the unreality had a designed purpose.

One of the specific things I researched in the Lucid dreamstate was the clarity of perceptual information. I came to realize that it was not under my control. I understand why now, at least some understanding. If the clarity of experience were under my control, I would be a danger to myself because my emotions run very deep. Lucid dreaming would in fact, for me, become psychologically dangerous. Many times I would trade reality for fantasy--a fatal proposition.

To be honest, if you haven't had lucid sex, don't.

Once you have sex in a dream, all your dream body wants to do is have sex.

Every time I lucid I get the urge to have sex and have to hold myself back from doing it.

Trust me, real sex is better. Do other things.