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I don't want to sound like some pervert here but the thought of having sex in a lucid dream is incomparably appealing. I'm still struggling though with just becoming lucid to begin with. I finally got an opportunity the other morning and got into it and it felt so wonderful, but then I woke up when I was just getting started.
Same here man. The more you have them the longer they can last... but for me it's been kind of random. Sometimes I am just incredibly lucid and other times I struggle to keep it going for more than a few moments. Remember to rub your hands or spin. The other day I used Sensei's tip saying to myself "Calm" because I knew I was getting too excited (the woman I was with was gorgeous). It helped keep it going for a little longer.
I noticed that the spinning and stuff like that brings me back to lucidity but only very briefly. Seconds later I'll feel myself coming out of it again. Maybe I just need more practice.
I think one would have to be "perverted" for such a thought not to be appealing :). Dream encounters are a fun and safe way to experiment.Quote:
I don't want to sound like some pervert here but the thought of having sex in a lucid dream is incomparably appealing.
It may be good to focus on having solid and stable LDs for a while before attempting sexual encounters. Learn to maintain your lucidity and focus on your environment, all the while reminding yourself that you're in a dream.
Lucid sex can be awesome! You can safely (physically and socially) try anything you want of course. Reading the OP I just thought of a hypothesis on the falsehood that says lucid sex is unstable (NOT TRUE!!).
- I gather that one of the first things that a lot of people want to try out is sex.
- It is easier for a beginner to become lucid near the end of REM when you are nearing waking up anyway (this improves with time!), so what do they try?
- It creates a negative schema/expectation that is spread when people share their experience and others read it reinforcing the negative schema.
More info on avoiding negative schema: http://www.dreamviews.com/general-lu...-read-imo.html
@davethewarrior - are you a veteran or active military? Feel free to send me a PM if so, or if you simply don't want to answer in this thread.
No I'm not in the military? Why?Quote:
Originally Posted by fogelbise
Your username made me wonder if you might be...
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Originally Posted by fogelbise
You guys remind me of that dude on some other thread who wasted his lucidity in the search of a condom. :lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by FryingMan
@Elpis: From your description, that person was most likely not lucid. That person may have been lucid initially, but if so, they certainly lost lucidity (forgot that it was all a dream) if they wasted time looking for something that is not needed in a dream scenario. That is unless that was a preset experiment that they had in mind in order to see what it felt like. I don't see how it relates to the comments that you quoted though.?Quote:
Originally Posted by Elpis
That is one of the singularly most funny things I've read on DV. Do you have a link to it?Quote:
Originally Posted by Elpis