New member, few questions

Okay Hi folks, i've been doing lucid dreams for quite a while now, i'm not new to the process, but as most of you may be awesome lucid dreamers that could provide me help, i'd need some advices from you, thanks....

1. One of my prob is that now that i'm more used to lucid dream, I don't became all surprised in dreams when I realise i'm dreaming. These days, it looks like when I realise I'm dreaming, I just go ahead with the dream without actually realising I can have an impact. Last couple dreams I had I was like, oh, let's just pretend i'm dreaming, and I was manipulating the dream like I was pretending !!! I just wonder if it has something to do with the way I try to induce the dream or maybe with the way i'm not totally aware in my dreams, i'd like opinion on that...

2. When I have lucid dreams, things i'd like to do is have sex (d'uh). But when it comes to this, I always get to excited that it's then that I wake up. I just can't go through the full act. I remember having a lucid dream that lasted 3 hours within the dream but when I wanted to have sex, it all shattered and even the spinning technique couldn't help me. What should I do ? Also, if you know techniques so it could last longer loll

3. I can manipulate objects and people, from making them do things, say stuff and even make appear people around the corners. But I just can't manipulate the elements. It's always so sunny, it's so bright, it's always sun down when I realise i'm dreaming and most of the time, I am where I live, at school, or at the job. I'm rarely lucid at places I rarely go and I can't travel even if I want to. I'd like advice on how to manipulate the land scape.

Thanks for the advice, i'll browse the forum to read some stories now

Oh... also, my induction techniques is testing my dream state all day long, when I think about it, and actually imagining myself becoming lucid when I go to bed. It works 1/3 times. I heard about MILD, but I just can't seems to get it right, if you have advice on that please...

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1. One of my prob is that now that i'm more used to lucid dream, I don't became all surprised in dreams when I realise i'm dreaming. These days, it looks like when I realise I'm dreaming, I just go ahead with the dream without actually realising I can have an impact. Last couple dreams I had I was like, oh, let's just pretend i'm dreaming, and I was manipulating the dream like I was pretending !!! I just wonder if it has something to do with the way I try to induce the dream or maybe with the way i'm not totally aware in my dreams, i'd like opinion on that...

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i think it's the way u induce the dream,if u turn to have a real problem whit this,i'm working on WILD,so i might help u in the futur

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2. When I have lucid dreams, things i'd like to do is have sex (d'uh). But when it comes to this, I always get to excited that it's then that I wake up. I just can't go through the full act. I remember having a lucid dream that lasted 3 hours within the dream but when I wanted to have sex, it all shattered and even the spinning technique couldn't help me. What should I do ? Also, if you know techniques so it could last longer loll

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Be avere of ur sorundings,go to ur room(try going trough a door that leeds to ur room,becous ur in ur room all day so u know it the best)

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3. I can manipulate objects and people, from making them do things, say stuff and even make appear people around the corners. But I just can't manipulate the elements. It's always so sunny, it's so bright, it's always sun down when I realise i'm dreaming and most of the time, I am where I live, at school, or at the job. I'm rarely lucid at places I rarely go and I can't travel even if I want to. I'd like advice on how to manipulate the land scape.

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well try this thing whit the door i yust told u

i hope i helped u,have a nice day/dream ;) [/quote]

Just to make sure I get it right...

You're telling me to experiment in my room in my dream, since it's the most stable place I could go to try stuff... because I must admit by experience that it does seems clearer when I have sex (as exemple) in my room rather then in other place... I do have more control over it too... Is it what you meant ?

no i want to say,your in ur room most of the day,and subconusly u know all the ditails of it,so when in dreams u get exited u will know ur soroundings and the dream will not fade away

Oh right... thanks