Dream Of A Friend Who Has Passed Away.

Okay,I'm having a problem here. I have recently learned that someone I know over the internet has passed away,this is becoming a major problem. I'm not remembering any of my dreams,and when I do dream it's about the girl...I'm copying this straight from my DJ.

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I recently learned someone I knew over the internet has passed away,I'm not sure if I believe it but for now I do. In the morning I was standing at the side of my house,the girl I knew in a beautiful coffin,with gold handrailings at the side. I was collecting bags of soil,I was burrying her myself. I was also talking to myself in the dream. I suddenly woke up,and nearly began to cry,I am deeply affected,yet I feel I still should write this...I have had this dream 2-3 times in a row.[/b]

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If anyone could please help me,I need to stop these dreams. Please feel free to PM me advice,or just post it here.

Thank you for your time.

Eligos :bump:

Ok, I'm going to go out on a limp here and try to help...

A few things I noticed are that you are unsure whether this girl is dead or not, and that in and of itself can cause emotional stress within someone. Perhaps you seek a greater truth, to really find out if she has passed or not. The other thing I noticed, was that you said you were burying this girl yourself, that seems like a sign of guilt to me. I don't think you would have anything to be guilty of, perhaps not saying goodbye or feeling like you did not get to make your peace with her.


Those are some of my suggestions, I'm by no means an expert so take that with a grain of salt good luck :)

I think the best tactic for ending these dreams would be lettting go of your friend, fully. I understand that people that die make our lives quite tramatic at times. I know, because I have direct experience. If you are a proficient lucid dreamer (or at least have a couple every once in awhile) you could put yourself in a situation with the girl. Tell her that you need to let her go. This should help a lot.