Very interesting, Silent, and welcome to the forums. I'm starting to wonder about my recent dream-friend now.
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Very interesting, Silent, and welcome to the forums. I'm starting to wonder about my recent dream-friend now.
Maybe instead of having a LD girlfriend, how about just practice socializing with girls in your LD? Unless it's like you are in the army or something.
My husband and I were in a very rocky spot. I had this dream (non-lucid) where I was in this beautiful park surrounded by an old college campus and there were happy people everywhere. This young blonde boy, a teenager, was walking and flying around with me the whole time. He was rich (we are poor) and kind. He said, "All I want for the rest of my life is to do whatever I can to make you happy." Now my husband and I are doing great, but I still remember that dream and that boy...contrasted with real life, it just makes me sad.
What would be even more interesting is that if you were able to consistently summon your dream girlfriend, if you impregnate her and have kids and marry and raise a "dream family" for the rest of your life.
But then I guess if you start losing your lucid skills you'd be a deadbeat dad...lol...
Also, there is real life.Quote:
Originally Posted by Captain Sleepalot
Thanks for the support!
It is nice to hear whether or not other people have similar experiences regarding these "dream characters" and their waking lives.
silentlucidity, thats was an amazing post, thanks.
And welcome to DreamViews!
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Originally Posted by Captain Sleepalot
Yeh it would be interesting to hear if anyone has done this, it must be mega confusing, u would be living two lives. That guy who claimed to have had a 100 year ld surely with all that time he must have done this.
As interesting as this would be, a large part of me would find it heat-breaking raising a child who wasn't real. Going through all the motions of fatherhood and really loving this kid, only to know ultimately it's just part of your imagination.Quote:
Originally Posted by Captain Sleepalot
I wonder if this would even be possible, because of the child's growth etc could you really, over time manifest this baby, to child, to kid, to (wo)man?Quote:
Originally Posted by Alex D
I recon it is but i don't think anyone is ever going to try it to find outQuote:
Originally Posted by AdamA
To be fair I would rather raise my own family and use LDs for what I cant have/do :)
Well it's up to u what u do in ur ld, it's ur ld after all:)Quote:
Originally Posted by AdamA
That is true...if one's lucid skills were such that this kind of thing was even possible, it would definitely be interesting to read an account of the "lifespan" of a dream child and family though.Quote:
Originally Posted by Alex D
Also, it helps people approach real life with the same view that everything is transitory and impermanent.
Hehe. Well, someone like me also has to expect a certain amount of programmed responses to practically everything he says. It is nothing new. I will readily admit however that escapism runs freely with me, there is just nothing of value left in this world in my (humble) opinion; it's all money, career, TV, and the golden arches.Quote:
Sorry for my longwindedness but I felt I needed to make up for all of the downtalking/mockery of Never's support of the LD GF concept.
I think it's great that you found a relatively close reality to your dreams, and an excellent post that was. I hope to see more of your insight in the other forums as well. We need more "long winded" people here.
Thanks, i think :?Quote:
Originally Posted by Never
well i think you guys are all lucky to actually have dreams which are peaceful and where u can jus lie around. my dreams, lucid or not, mostly end with a lot of people dying. i want a peaceful dream, but shit happens in life and i think it can jus spill over to ur dreams
I think it would be interesting to have a DC girlfriend. They wouldn't ever dump you, they would have any personality you chose, anything. :D It'd be pretty cool.
Ld girlfriend = you dating your subconscious mind.
Yes but technically you are dating your brain in either case ;)
and wouldnt it be nicer to be dating a REAL girl?
Interesting. I never thought of that. I am sure none of us have. Thank you so much for your insight! :banana::boogie::bowdown:
..sorry that was uncalled for, but seriously this thread has enough programmed responses in it.
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Originally Posted by ksd5
Yeh thats what i really like about this idea. U can choose your a personality for your girl and also since she is a part of your brain you will probably be very alike, same interests and stuff. :)
I had my second ld girlfriend last night. I was with this gang of people (which is how i met my last ld girlfriend). They decided they wanted to have a party in one of their flats but they said to not be too loud because of this persons mother or something, and we entered the building. Then this boy comes down the steps and asks whose idea it was to have this party. He looks like he wants to beat the living crap out of the person so when he asks me i say it wasn't me (which it wasn't).
The next thing i recall is being in this other building with them and lots of other people were in there (a mixture of male's and females). There was an announcement on the speaker to find a partner and then in a few seconds nearly everyone had a partner and they are all doing a slow love dance sort of thing on the dance floor. I didn't want to be the only one without a partner so i am trying to find one. I ask one attractive girl and she says i can't be your partner because i am not dairy (as in dairy product). About another two or three say the same thing so when i find a third i have already accepted that she was going to say that but to my amazement she doesn't and wants to be my partner, Victory!
Annoyingly (not sure if it's a word) i don't recall what happened after that, the next thing i recall is that activity ended and she is on the other side of the room as me so i decide to go over to her. I ask her if we are now boyfriend/girlfriend but i word the phrase all wrong and she replies with something like no, it was just a bit of fun and i was stunned, i never thought dream characters could be so ruthless. I don't know what it is about dream characters i meet but they al seem to have good looks and great personalities which means i start to fall for them (again i repeat how stupid that sounds).
So now thats twice i have had no intention of looking for a ld girlfriend and yet these two girls come along.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s8rd4VQrrLo
I just watched this trailer and it reminded me of this topic.
i really want to watch this film, i downloaded it but it was a rar film so i couldn't play it which was annoying.