Thread: Does Kissing another guy in a LD make u gay? or sord of gay?? help..

Originally Posted by boognish

i would have to say that you are definitely a little bi-curious. the kiss was premeditated and you even buttered him up with some conversation first.

Ahhh South Park!!

Originally Posted by Bladekillua

I won't put all the details because you don't want to know lol I'll go straight to the point. (I dont THINK i was in full control because i .. ok i dont want to admit i kiss another guy in my LD dream
What happened was that i was with a friend of mine and suddenly i became lucid when i say this guy walked right pass me(He made me go lucid it was his fault). After that i had this urge kiss the guy who walked right passed us.Right after i became lucid i followed him. I started this conversation (u dont want to know about it)and suddenly out of no where i kiss him and in real life i haven't kiss anyone before so i dont know what to think.. the worse part is that i have him for a class so i can't even look at him or talk to him.I feel so weird around him. i hate it. its just with that idiot, who i hate now and wont talk to him ever again because he makes me feel bad in a way even though i know it was just a dream....( but it was so real ) Any advice but plz don't say to tell him about the dream it would be worse....

No, not at all.......it makes you a flaming homosexual. jk

Originally Posted by Bladekillua

Wow lucky u kissed Angelina Jolie PP

Lol I've already kissed (and had sex with) neavo here from DV.. and I say he's way better than Angelina xD

Too bad if neavo didn't want everyone knowing he's gay

Lol @ this thread! It's just turning into stories of homo-eroticism, incest and buggery.

On that note I turned into a girl once for the TOTM and a guy started rooting me.

Originally Posted by Amelaclya

I think you're ok unless you actually feel something for men.

Even if he is gay he's still ok. lol

"Not that there's anything wrong with that" - Seinfeld

Originally Posted by boognish

i would have to say that you are definitely a little bi-curious. the kiss was premeditated and you even buttered him up with some conversation first.

He's not bicurious...lol last night I had a dream that I was a redhead pre-teen who had a brother the same age as myself, and we thought we were harry potter and ron weaslie...and it was a freakyly funny plotline...haha...we went to an event this woman hosted just to show people that they were insane, and there was no such thing as magic but we didn't know that was why she hosted it, ...anyways, you can do lots of crazy shit in your dreams and it doesn't mean anything at all.


And you should not avoid that person just because of a stupid dream...it doesn't mean anything.

Although Freud was a crockpot with the whole "dream reading" thing, because that has been proven false, he did say atleast one thing that makes sense.


Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.

and to kromoh...you can't unlearn something you've learned? Jee I bet you learned logrithms in school...do you remeber how to put log(4)20 into non logarithmic function?

You can unlearn things that you learn. You may learn that going outside is bad...because you used to live where it was bad, and then you move...suddenly outside is ok, and it is fine to go outside, you change what you've learned.

But, we shouldn't have to change...there is nothing wrong with being gay.

Originally Posted by Mes Tarrant

Totally valid comparison!

um i dont post here often so this is the first time seeing you, but:
holy shit you joined this year and you have 2k+ posts! [/jealous of your schedule]

edit: btw reading through this thread, i cant believe how people can still assume that stuff in one's dream automatically means something... i would not hesitate in saying that anything you can dream can potentially mean nothing. Now if you go on to (im not saying this is more likely since the dream occurred) expirament with boys, find you like it, and later classify yourself as gay, you could say that this was the event in which you first acted on homosexuality. But if none of that stuff happens (which will probably be the case) then it was just a meaningless image that your brain threw together and put into your sleep.

aka: dont worry about it.

Lol from the second page this topic has just gone downhill, haha.

lol sandform. Yeah I meant it as an allusion only. You might actually forget what log(4)20 is (or perhaps you didn't pay attention to the class like me xD), but I don't think you can forget a thing like sexuality. You think of it everyday, so it's like nearly impossible to change.

What I mean by "unlearning" is unlearning something practical - e.g. what being hungry feels like. Maths is more to the area of knowledge - to the area of thinsg you can forget.

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Originally Posted by tommo

Too bad if neavo didn't want everyone knowing he's gay

Lol I don't know if he's gay xD but that wasn't a problem in my LD

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yet @ sandform:

yeah in your dreams things will happen just like you believe they'll happen. If you turn into a girl and guys start hitting on you, then it's because you believe guys hit on girls. (which is of course true lol) Actually, you use a logic equal to this one to scientifically interpret dreams.

A year a go in a normal dream, I had sex with a boy from my class, and I didn't remember the dream at first. When I next day saw him in school, it struck me like lightning, how we had been kissing and cudling and other stuff. I wasn't weird around him, thought it took me a bit of time to shake it out of my head

Anyway, unless you actually feel like you have a crush and want to experiment more, with what happened in that dream, then you're most likely a bisexual, though it could also just be teenage confusion.
I'm a bisexual myself. At first I didn't really like the idea of gay stuff, but then I started getting these dreams. I started questioning my own sexual orientation, and realized that I actually had an attraction to males.
It should be noted though, that I prefer girls over boys

Well, to think of it, I'm the opposite of Marvo here. I have been gay for since I can remember. I didn't like girls at the time. But then, dreaming of girls made me start liking them (a bit heh ). But I prefer boys over girls. I think I should go on a fight with Marvo or something xD

I should probably reword my above post.

Most people are in reality bisexuals, they're either just too proud or disgusted to admit/realize it, or they just haven't really ever thought about it. This is at least my impression.

And yeah Kromoh, are we gonna cuddle and make out now cuss a bit on each another now?

at my house in 1 hour ok? Yeah we will

Uhhhhh I suspect hidden messages!

I am going to tell on you, teehee!

Originally Posted by Marvo

I should probably reword my above post.

Most people are in reality bisexuals, they're either just too proud or disgusted to admit/realize it, or they just haven't really ever thought about it. This is at least my impression.

And yeah Kromoh, are we gonna cuddle and make out now cuss a bit on each another now?

Well I dunno about that...I tried to be straight alot...I tried to fantasize about that girl..buffy from buffy the vampyre slayer....=( never worked out.

(and I reallly really tried lol)

figured maybe she was ugly...so I tried other ones....limp as a noodle.

Did you by any chance try porn?

Oh wait, I should probably re-reword. I meant, most heterosexual people, and some homosexuals.

Originally Posted by Marvo

Did you by any chance try porn?

Oh wait, I should probably re-reword. I meant, most heterosexual people, and some homosexuals.

I dunno... I could probably bring myself to have sex with a woman...but it wouldn't be very pleasurable...and I would be thinking of someone else.

I think most people could have sex with any gender if they wanted to...just their minds would be somewhere else.

Why of course, but most people could have sex with the opposite and the same gender, and enjoy it. The problem is all the sterotypes and taboos that are around, because of religion.

Originally Posted by Bladekillua

Any advice but plz don't say to tell him about the dream it would be worse....

Kissing another guy in a dream would not make you any more gay than killing someone in a dream would make you a murderer Bladekillua.

The fact is that people dream things all the time that they would never consider doing in the physical, and that are often completely contrary to their belief system.

Part of the reason for this could be the way the subconscious mind communicates and understands things.

I would be willing to guess that to the subconscious mind, kissing a guy in a dream means something completely different than it does in the physical.

It could be your subconscious minds way of telling you that this person has a lot in common with you.

I hate to even mention the other thing that could have caused this, but here goes.

We live in a world of spirits.

Although we cannot usually see spirits, they are there. Those who are psychic can see them better than others.

And how do spirits attack people?

Through their mind, by dropping thoughts into their mind.

So, the thought you had may not have come from you at all, but may have been from some gay spirit trying to make you think this.

That's why it is so important for a person to learn to discern their thoughts and be able to determine which thoughts came from them, and which may have come from another source.

Only you can determine what the actual meaning of this dream is Bladekillua because no one knows you like you know yourself.

What you decide it means will be what it means to you.

Originally Posted by Marvo

Did you by any chance try porn?

Oh wait, I should probably re-reword. I meant, most heterosexual people, and some homosexuals.

Ok, so I've read some of the posts here and i notice that its getting a little off topic but even so u ummm guys helped a lot!! maybe it was just some experiment my subconscious made or whatever i wont let it bother me much

gay spirits!? really.

Originally Posted by iadr

Kissing another guy in a dream would not make you any more gay than killing someone in a dream would make you a murderer Bladekillua.

The fact is that people dream things all the time that they would never consider doing in the physical, and that are often completely contrary to their belief system.

Part of the reason for this could be the way the subconscious mind communicates and understands things.

I would be willing to guess that to the subconscious mind, kissing a guy in a dream means something completely different than it does in the physical.

It could be your subconscious minds way of telling you that this person has a lot in common with you.

I hate to even mention the other thing that could have caused this, but here goes.

We live in a world of spirits.

Although we cannot usually see spirits, they are there. Those who are psychic can see them better than others.

And how do spirits attack people?

Through their mind, by dropping thoughts into their mind.

So, the thought you had may not have come from you at all, but may have been from some gay spirit trying to make you think this.

That's why it is so important for a person to learn to discern their thoughts and be able to determine which thoughts came from them, and which may have come from another source.

Only you can determine what the actual meaning of this dream is Bladekillua because no one knows you like you know yourself.

What you decide it means will be what it means to you.

Wow thanks iadr u helped alot and got me thinking. Maybe my subconscious was trying to tell me to get along with him better and be friends. I think that because i had never payed any attention to him until this recent Lucid Dream where u know!!!! Thanks again iadr

Originally Posted by iadr

I hate to even mention the other thing that could have caused this, but here goes.

We live in a world of spirits.

Although we cannot usually see spirits, they are there. Those who are psychic can see them better than others.

And how do spirits attack people?

Through their mind, by dropping thoughts into their mind.

So, the thought you had may not have come from you at all, but may have been from some gay spirit trying to make you think this.

That's why it is so important for a person to learn to discern their thoughts and be able to determine which thoughts came from them, and which may have come from another source.

Only you can determine what the actual meaning of this dream is Bladekillua because no one knows you like you know yourself.

What you decide it means will be what it means to you.

I totally agree with everything else but this part seemed to be a more highly advance answer in a way

lol I refuse to reply to that post.