Who was she?

I'v recently had a dream, it wasnt a Lucid Dream, but it has somehow related to the Lucidity factor, because I was aware of everything, but yet I wasnt Lucid.

The dream itself was weird, like almost any other dream, but the main thing about this dream was this girl...and the realistictivity of the dream was abosolutly incredible, it is by far the most realistic dream I have ever had.

The dream started out as I was in this strange sort of town, it was a very small town.

I was walking down the sidewalk, I didn't really know where I was, but it was a very nice temperature outside, so I just kept walking. Then I noticed this reddish-coloured house, for some reason I stopped to look at it, it was just a red house, but for some reason I couldnt tear my eyes off of it, like I knew something was about to happen.

And then this girl opens the door, she looked familear, but I couldnt really think of who it reminded me of.

She called to me "Nick! hey! whatsup? come over here!" She seemd quite happy to see me, but I didn't have the faintest clue to who she was, but I walked over there anyway to see what was going on.

I said "Do I know you?" she almost seemed as if she didn't hear me, or if she ignored the question. She reminded me of someone, I thought, but I just couldnt discearn who, regardless, I felt a strange sence of peace when I went over to her.

She said "Where were you?" and then something unexpected happened.

She pulled me into a hug, it wasnt just a hug, it was an entire embrace, she had her whole body pressed against me, and she just stood there holding me. for some reason, I automaticly put my arms around her, like it was the most natural thing to do.

It felt so good, I felt like she cared for me more then anything and anyone, and she loved me with all her heart and soul, I felt myself loving her too, and it was the most wonderful feeling I have ever experienced.

We stood there for what felt like days, and it didn't matter, as long as I was with this person nothing mattered, I wanted to stay there forever with her, and I knew she felt the same way.

Finnaly. she let go of me and we walked over to another room.

It was the living room, there was a big tv, and a really nice couch, she sat down on the couch, and I sat beside her, we talked for hours (or what felt like hours) about things that were in my real life, and yet...I did not become Lucid, it was almost as if something kept me from becoming lucid.

After we were done talking, she picked up the remote and turned on the t.v, we watched a movie, I don't really remember the movie though for some reason, but the t.v could have been off for all I cared at that moment, because she had put her arms around me and sortof leaned on me, and we just sat there holding eachother. I think somewhere during this, I fell asleep.

I woke up.

I was still on the couch, she was awake and she was watching me and caressing my face, she smiled when I opened my eyes and saw her. I almost automaticly pulled her to me and we just sat there, not saying anything, holding eachother.

During this my mind reeled to try and figure out who she reminded me of, but it was too hard, I was in complete bliss, this was heaven, who cared who she reminded me of, as long as I kept sitting there, loving her, every moment was the best moment of my life, and that was all that mattered.

I said "I love you" and she said "I love you, Nicholas"

I said "Who are you?" and she just smiled, and it didn't matter, nothing did.

After a while she got up, and she walked to the other room, I followed her, she was heading toward the door.

I put my arms around her again, I said "Don't go, please." she turned around and said "Don't worry" and she kissed me. and then she walked out the door, and closed it.

Then I woke up.

Later during the day, I figured out who she reminded me of.

She reminded me of my friend Christiana, who happens to be invlolved in a situation I'm going through, I'v talked about it in my "Perhaps it was my Dream Guides doing?" topic in the General Discussion if you havent seen it.

And this dream has helped out alot, and I mean ALOT, in my situation I'm going through. And I believe that the person in that dream was none other then my Dream Guide.

I think Dream Guides are either parts of our mind, or some sort of spirit that are here to help us with serious problems in our lives.

And later on I Desiphered exactly how it had helped me.

My dream guide assumed the form of a person that reminded me so much of Christy, and yet it wasnt Christy, and then the person expressed great feelings of love and care towards me, to help "Heal" the situation that I'm going through.

Regardless, it has helped greatly.

Sorry for the extremely long post, but I remembered the dream well, and then I wanted to share my thoughts, if anyone else has any similar experiences, please share them.

I had a similiar, but regretfully not so long, dream where I met this girl(in my case a complete stranger) and it felt like we had been in love for a long time. It only lasted a little while though before I woke up. It was a complete sense of love and peace that came over me, but I have no idea who she was.

It was nice to see read your responses on a woman you loved in a dream that you didn't know. I have had the samething except with a man. I've seen this man in a dream where I become lucid. I love him dearly and I am desperately searching for him in my dream as if a hope to get an answer. It was interesting to hear that these people in our dream can be dream guides. I am just not sure what mine means. I love him and love me too. In the last dream he just hug me and hugged him. The only thing I hate about the dream is that he is being held captive and I only get to see him for a few seconds. I see him so clearly that I can really draw him very well. I am sure one day I will met someone that looks like that because there are so many people in the world that probability is good. I just know I need to hold back and not ask a stranger is the have seen me in a dream. :-) Well anyway I hope this is my dream guide. Maybe he is in captivity becasue I just can't relax and accept an explanation for anything when it come to dreams, god, philosophy or religion. I reffer to myself as a constant question. Well anyway thanks for posting your dream it made me feel good to see a similar theme. Maybe its a common dream to have. Peace :-)

It was nice to see read your responses on a woman you loved in a dream that you didn't know. I have had the samething except with a man. I've seen this man in a dream where I become lucid. I love him dearly and I am desperately searching for him in my dream as if a hope to get an answer. It was interesting to hear that these people in our dream can be dream guides. I am just not sure what mine means. I love him and love me too. In the last dream he just hug me and hugged him. The only thing I hate about the dream is that he is being held captive and I only get to see him for a few seconds. I see him so clearly that I can really draw him very well. I am sure one day I will met someone that looks like that because there are so many people in the world that probability is good. I just know I need to hold back and not ask a stranger is the have seen me in a dream. :-) Well anyway I hope this is my dream guide. Maybe he is in captivity becasue I just can't relax and accept an explanation for anything when it come to dreams, god, philosophy or religion. I reffer to myself as a constant question. Well anyway thanks for posting your dream it made me feel good to see a similar theme. Maybe its a common dream to have. Peace :-)

this exact same thing happened to me... only the wierd thing is i neve go to see her again as she/it was an alien and she had to fly off to her home planet. its kinda creepy cause throughout the dream i was aware that she was an alien :?

Ah yes, the "love 'ya" dreams.. have had some of them, with various people, some of which I knew, some who just vaguely reminded me. There was one in which a girl I liked back then told me she loved me .. and I woke up, realising the whole dream never took place in reality. I can't remember ever having cursed louder.

I too have had a few of those types of dreams. I always enjoy being in the dream but once I wake up to reality I then wish that I had never had the dream because I miss the girl so much. Its strange too because usually its someone I have never seen before.

Ok, you realy want to know who she is, well I think I found her: http://dreamviews.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=11898 :D

never knew there was a full category for that kind of stuff. I've had one. Too bad the guy (i'm a girl, so it was a guy) got killed about two months after. At least i had been lucky enough to have one story for a year (this was almost a year ago) so i got to see him continuously for those two months. Even though the whole thing started from a tragedy of some sort (don't completely remember what it was) but it was great. Until he died, that was. I recently dreamed about his ghost and he told me i should try and find someone who makes me happy and isn't a ghost.
Then the other one just happened, although i don't think it really qualifies under the category, it's still interesting (see my posts in the gemeeral discussion; what did you dream last night? for further detail)