my 4th lucid experience

I fell asleep at about 2am and an hour and a half later I had a LD. It seems that I had a dream sign without knowing it. It's one guy that always bugs me when I'm in a dream and this time I realized I was dreaming because he was there. Anyway here is how it went.

I was somewhere maybe a desert when I saw this man. I realized that I was dreaming and did a reality check just to make sure (nose pincher). Then suddenly everything started spinning not by my will and I appeared in my room. Everything was dark and stuff wasn't on their places. Desk was in the wrong place and stuff like that. I remember I thought that maybe i'm not dreaming so I did a reality check. I actually did a lot of reality checks because the last time I lost my lucidity an returned to non-lucid dreaming.
Anyway I tried controlling the dream but nothing worked. I said that I want a naked woman but nothing appeared the I wanted a phone to call myself again nothing. Then I turned on the light in the room but it only gave a little light so I said: "come on give me more light" and it worked. That's the only thing I managed to control. Then I woke up.
Oh almost forgot when I tried looking at my hands my fingers were appearing and disappearing all the time. An interesting experience to say the least.

It was weird to me that a dream came so soon an our and a half from falling asleep.

EDIT: Any tips about dream control it's just not working for me.