Weird Dreams Need Some Help.

So something that has happened to me recently has been making me lose track of what I have been doing during the day. Basically when I was growing up I was always told about "The Girl of Your Dreams", well she has showed up in my dreams for about a week and a half. I can't lucid dream, I know this for a fact because I can't control my dreams. Anyways back on topic. The one dream that I can remember the best is a semi short one. So I am back in my home state in a place that is familiar (but i can not recall its name), I am with one of my friends and we are taking place in some board game tournament that I'm sure doesn't exist. As the tournament goes on after like the second round I see her. Its like we know each other since we were little kids (FYI: I am 20 and she looks about 21 or 22 in this dream). Well we don't get to play each other in this tournament and she wins it. We go to play afterwards, about halfway through the game I had to go and use the bathroom go figure,:cheeky:, when I come back my friend who is my partner has messed the game up and he did it in a way that somehow humiliated The Girl. So I chew him out because he doesn't understand what he did and go to look for the Girl to apologize. I find her fairly quick and start to apologize and before i know it all the people watching the game start to come out of nowhere and proceed to beat the life out of me. The Girl stops the group of angry fans and the whole time I can't hear her. In the middle of her stopping the group I wake up. I have no clue who she is or what her voice sounds like, I have never even seen her but for some reason anytime I'm with her I feel amazing and not in a sexual way. If someone can help me understand if or what this means that would mean a lot, I can't focus at work for the life of me because of these dreams.

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I can't lucid dream, I know this for a fact because I can't control my dreams.

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Just wanted to clarify you this one: lucidity is not the same as control. Control can happen frequently when you're not lucid, but being lucid does not necessarily means that you can control the dream. I'm sure if you work on it not only you can lucid dream, but you will also be able to control them. It's all about practice :) Maybe it would be a way to get a better understanding of what these dreams mean?

Also, since this post regards dream content that seems to be troubling you and the theme keeps occurring, I'm moving this to Nightmares and Recurring Dreams in hopes you can get more suited replies there.