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My older borhter who is sorta a rolemodel has been reoccuring in my past dreams, but he has been trying to run from me / neglecting me.... whats this mean? he doesnt live with me but we attend the same highschool and he barely tyalks to me.... thanks
Maybe you should try to get closer to your brother in real life, get to know him better.
-Rob
Exactly, what's the problem while there's no geographicall distance between you?Quote:
Originally Posted by magicrules22311
maby it is a sign that you depend on him to much?
It sounds like you really look up to him and you're probably craving some reassurance or attention back from him.
Like Rob suggested, maybe plan some regular 'boy time' and hang out, just the two of you.
I think it is obvious that you are hurt by your brother's treatment of you, which is understandable. Who knows why he is doing this, he has his own issues probably. He'll either come back to you (most likely, someday, and he will probably regret treating you so badly) or not; either way, you will have to deal with it meantime and your dreams are trying to help you do that. I feel sorry that he is doing this to you and you have no idea why. I know my sibling relationships are love-hate, so a lot of people go thru this.
But...maybe you can use this to help with lucid dreaming. Use him as a dream sign; do a reality check whenever you see him at school and hopefully it will help you get lucid when you see him in a dream. You could even talk to him then....maybe the dream-brother would have something interesting to say (supplied by your own sub-conscious of course, but there may be some insight into the problem.)
Good luck with your dreaming and your brother.