Fraud's (oops, Freud's) ideas have been outdated for decades. I don't think anyone in the scientific community has seriously talked about "egos" for at least 60 years. |
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Idea for this came from Rant and Rave thread, thnx sinoblad |
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Fraud's (oops, Freud's) ideas have been outdated for decades. I don't think anyone in the scientific community has seriously talked about "egos" for at least 60 years. |
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Here in home (that being not scientific community it seems) it's has been main point of argument and proverbial hammer for quite a long time. Shadow, other, enemy, evil, nemesis, ex-genderfriend, mom, dad, whatever it be for any other community (like word magic for scientific community) there are spells that we fill with thinks we want push aside or not give credit for what they bare for |
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I can see where the idea comes about, and I agree that it can be helpful to occasionally think of our minds in that way. But, in the long-run, it's an incorrect viewpoint. |
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Ego might be like very real mirror image. Ii's easier to see ego when I see it. Like in mirrors, paintings or photoes. Or even in other peolpe. When Ii see myself outside me, it's a matter of selfstudy, do Ii like how Ii see myself, am self too tired, ugly, selfrighteous, foolish or cute, interesting, beautifull, godlike (wait this must be narcistic ;-p). Same thing stems with reflecting ego within my mind. If Ii don't like what myself looks like when Iis' are looking at relfection of all that is me, Ii's promise to be more kind and supporting and resally try to see in the bottom of given situatuion ´rather than twosidely tell only why Ii's don't care and what's worng in a cold and cockeyshort of way like this way of talking |
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I prefer the word pain-body, it's more specific to what the actual problem is, which can be confusing when you use the term Ego. People bring up Freud as if he has anything to do with what we're talking about. |
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Everything works out in the end, sometimes even badly.
Great point. I don't know your entire belief system, but this I've witnessed and experienced to be true. While at a place dedicated to freeing people of their egos, I saw that often those in leadership positions had the biggest egos of all. They'd freed themselves of the more common ego beliefs, but clung to one or two more tenaciously than anyone else. And I could tell they didn't really want to let go of those ones. |
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I don't know my belief system either so you're fine. |
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Everything works out in the end, sometimes even badly.
Ah, okay. I thought I disagreed with you on about everything, but you seem to be making more and more sense lately. |
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I'm certainly not getting any more sane. |
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Everything works out in the end, sometimes even badly.
Ii's happy to notice that this deep blue tone is taken not only as cause and call to deep blues and weeps but real music that sbring arguing and different Is' together. For how can anyone really feel the suffering if not suffered deeply enough. And what we suffer is separtness and miscommuniction. Total and unescable realisation of how alone we're and how wrongly others are taking and getting sense of us. This should not be reflected outside us, cause if we are to do this we just reflect cause of 'taking wrongly' into other(s) fault. It is no-one(s) fault and it's not her fault either because the non-yet -aspect of her (no-one) occasionaly gets just as confuced on trying to interpret any some-one. Me like the painbody view of things. It kind of ties those causes of loneliness, accusations and misinterperation outside our seperate selves and outside our views of others (and outside no-body, thnx mercy). It kind of levels or plains (to use dimensional language) our narrative of pain and chace for the guilty into own 'emotional' level of reality and psyche. After this we can (not without breaks, me suggests for the sake of lighter moments) examine and explore our separate painbodies and collective painbody also - without hunting for the guilty. Because it's seen as a body, we can feel it inside of us when we tune into it. |
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to add more poetic wisdom (or folly) into this: you can treat painbody like an entity that is a mirror. It reflects things in certain tone. You can study it like the one in potter movies or the one that only tries to reflect what is viewed as most beautifull.. There are living mirrors in dreaming (some fellow oneironauts have told me) they can be quite ruff, but they do teach how to break the glass or bubble eventually |
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This was an informative read. |
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