Destiny need not lead to happiness, nor be found through happy feelings. |
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You have utterly misinterpreted me. Doing what makes you happy cannot be defined as anything other than adhering to your genetic design and ethos. Whatever you find happiness in is your ethos. Fulfilling your happiness is fulfilling your destiny, whatever it is that makes you happy. |
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Everything works out in the end, sometimes even badly.
Destiny need not lead to happiness, nor be found through happy feelings. |
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I feel like I'm still not being understood. |
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Everything works out in the end, sometimes even badly.
And I say, bollocks to destiny. |
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Who looks outside, dreams;
who looks inside, awakes.
- Carl Jung
Same thing |
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Everything works out in the end, sometimes even badly.
I understand what you were saying before... that it can only be defined in relation to what we choose to do happily with our life: that life defines destiny, and not that destiny defines life. |
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Who looks outside, dreams;
who looks inside, awakes.
- Carl Jung
Sort of, yeah, but one must also understand they have a unique drive toward happiness based on their unique DNA and unique ethos. In that sense, you don't really choose what makes you happy, it is delivered to you by the aggregate of everything that make up your identity. This gives destiny as a concept some warrant, but only in the sense of pursuing your own unique form of happiness. |
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Last edited by Omnis Dei; 04-15-2012 at 02:25 PM.
Everything works out in the end, sometimes even badly.
I guess that makes sense, yes. That we are predetermined to seek happiness, and thus in some part, have a predetermined life. As least insofar as this deep-rooted physiological impulse has its say. |
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Who looks outside, dreams;
who looks inside, awakes.
- Carl Jung
Yeah but you also can't reduce it to strict physiological impulses as though our happiness is determined purely by hormones. I included the word ethos for a reason. Our conditioning is not purely born of our genetic legacy, but also through our observations of reality, especially of our role-models, which breeds in us a burning desire for what we believe will not just give our bodies satisfaction, but our minds contentment. |
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Everything works out in the end, sometimes even badly.
Naa, of course not, but we need to be careful about how much we ascribe to these forces, whether nature or nurture, for it diminishes the concept of free will. |
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Who looks outside, dreams;
who looks inside, awakes.
- Carl Jung
Well, you can't exactly stand free will up on its own circular logic, either. |
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Everything works out in the end, sometimes even badly.
Interesting... I just wrote a paper on freewill. The concept of freewill is basically a big ambiguous maze of an endevor with seemily no possible solution, especially in defining a self that has freewill and why it's free. I attempted to ascribe these forces of desire and will as agents in themselves that can be relatively free amongst each other. What are we as agents that make choices apart from our evolutionary machinery and experienced based reasoning that form aspirations? |
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I wrote out several thoughts and counterpoints to your suppositions but then I decided that I will be happiest if I choose not to debate you. |
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Who are you referring to? I'd prefer to engage people in discussion on this thread rather than resort to a condescending attitude. I don't believe you've made a point on this thread so far other than "having kids is awesome" so I fail to see how you are in any position to roll your eyes. |
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Everything works out in the end, sometimes even badly.
I was referring to you. |
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Ive been struggling to make concrete the very topic of this discussion, so Im looking at every post with a very thoughtful approach. I have come to the conclusion that one of my biggest fears in life is going down the "wrong" path and not doing what makes me happy. Maybe even fearing I will not get to feel that utter and complete happiness that people speak of. One reason might be because I think too much. I hardly ever just accept my emotions, i always take them with a grain of salt and think about them. Is it even possible to feel fully happy in that way? I feel its rather compulsive, and a defense mechanism to keep me from getting really sad or angry. |
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A warrior does not give up what he loves, he finds the love in what he does
Only those who attempt the absurd can achieve the impossible.
My point is I'm curious what you find wrong with the logic and I'm simply explaining that I would prefer to see what you have to say rather than see you merely belittle this concept like it's not worth your time or whatever the implication was. |
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Everything works out in the end, sometimes even badly.
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