A good way to live. I agree. If you dwell on the mistakes of your past, you will never be prepared for what the future holds. |
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My new philosophy =) |
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A good way to live. I agree. If you dwell on the mistakes of your past, you will never be prepared for what the future holds. |
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Sometimes it's not mistakes you made in the past, but traumas. One childhood trauma for me being barely have any friends in school and living a transparent life where you are insignificant. So every time I meet people from that school now, I'll start shunning from them. |
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It can be tried, but as long as one cares about the truth, negative reactions to remembering events are inevitable. If something you value is hurt, you're going to be upset. Forcing optimism at this point, when it doesn't come naturally, I consider to be some form of lying to oneself. The exception is if you have a real reason to be optimistic despite whatever happened, look into your own psychology, discover there's nothing to really be upset about, that's fine. But that "Must be happy all the time, no sad thoughts, I'm so happy now" mindset is counterproductive. |
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And what about when the present sucks? |
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I like to imagine it more like a hole. Actually like a grave. My grave. |
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I subscribe to the Bill and Ted philosophy |
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Happiness and sadness are in the mind though. With regards to the Western world, most of what makes us sad stems from how we perceive it. Suffering often stems from our endless habit of comparing our lives to those of others, when really what we have is more than enough. |
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GOALS - GLORY FOR TEAM INSTINCT
DILD [ ] /// Chain a Lucid Dream [ ] /// Stabilise [ ] /// Ask someone what the time is [ ]
Turn on a computer and jump into it [ ] /// Fly out the Earth's atmosphere [ ] /// Telekinesis [ ] /// Jump through door [ ]
Listen to my favourite record [ ] /// Jump down two flights of steps without breaking the old kneecaps [ ] /// Smoke a fatty [ ]
Well acknowledging it is a positive step! It means you can then take action to better yourself. If something comes up in life that makes you upset, truly ask yourself why it is that it makes you feel that way, because, 9 times out of 10, you'll probably realise it's not as bad as you first perceive it to be. |
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GOALS - GLORY FOR TEAM INSTINCT
DILD [ ] /// Chain a Lucid Dream [ ] /// Stabilise [ ] /// Ask someone what the time is [ ]
Turn on a computer and jump into it [ ] /// Fly out the Earth's atmosphere [ ] /// Telekinesis [ ] /// Jump through door [ ]
Listen to my favourite record [ ] /// Jump down two flights of steps without breaking the old kneecaps [ ] /// Smoke a fatty [ ]
I disagree with that part. Everything you say makes sense if that first sentence is true but it's not. |
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