OH YEAH? WELL, why don't you just go ahead and answer the "silly common sense kind of questions", then, without littering this flourishing sub-forum of grandiose explication and exuberant exposition with your sub-par sob stories?
Oh, okay. I sort of see where you're coming from, now... although... yeah, no... NOT REALLY!! You do realise you're in the Philosophy sub-forum of DreamViews, right? If you still attribute validity to the idea of "over-thinking"--if you've yet to cast such a hilariously useless and abhorrent word out from the precious confines of your mind which house that dear vocabulary of yours, I worry not only about your understanding of the word "pride", but also about your familial ties and upbringing...
oh god i'm blushing