Originally posted by Mystical_Journey
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There is a poem i read a few years back i think you might enjoy:-
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If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you
But make allowance for their doubting too,
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise:
If you can dream--and not make dreams your master,
If you can think--and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools:
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it all on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breath a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: \"Hold on!\"
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with kings--nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;
If all men count with you, but none too much,
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And--which is more--you'll be a Man, my son!
--Rudyard Kipling
I'm not sure if it has any connection, but reading what you said reminded me of this poem.
I read this a long time ago...i'm not sure how old i was, but i remember thinking of the imperfection of the human state, and how in many ways, that was a very tall order...because we all get hurt, lied to, cheated on, suffer pain, grief, loss.
And sometimes, it's really hard to keep that smiling face on. Sometimes, you have to give in, and accept how something makes you feel...
To me, it almost sounds like this poem is saying that in order to be a man, or perfect, you have to be a martyr to other's faults and failings...
Who wants the earth, if, by supressing themselves, they don't have the means of expressing the joy that owns it???
I'll be content with all my emotions, good or bad.
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