Originally Posted by Seismosaur
Because you cannot disprove my analogy (Orpoint out how it doesn't make sense(I feel I should also point out that TLOA mainly plays off of people's misconception of "thought" and "mind". Nothing mystical or supernatural aobut it. But the play is the fact that people think thoughts can somehow "change the universe" or some other bullshit packaged with TLOA) I shall retain it.
Now, I will explain this once, so pay attention.
Are you paying attention?
There is a *monumental* difference between saying:
"If you think about, and really would like a bike-- The universe will give you a bike"
and saying
"If you set a goal such as attaining a bicycle, and push yourself toward that goal, given favorable circumnstance coupled with a good attitude-- You will be able to recieve the bicycle".
The first being the wishful-thought style presented in TLOA, the latter being simple goal setting and Karma (See Newton's... Third law? Yes, third law. Not anything "mystical" or out there, just energy and actions.).
So therefore TLOA fails.
Oh and I would LOVE to hear (Or see and/or hear) about these people's lives being changed through What is set down by TLOA verbatum.
the problem is you are coming with this idea, that the universe magically sends you a bike in the first scenario. that one day you wake up, and POOF, theres a bike outside your bedroom.
the problem with the second scenario is, we are not always in a favorable circumstance to attain what we want. it doesn't matter how hard you try to achieve something, life can get in the way of hard work.
the law of attraction is not about magical things happening. its about attracting a reality towards yourself. now, heres the thing. reality isn't going to do anything magically for you either, not if you don't accept it.
imagine that in the first scenario the kid uses the law of attraction to get a bike. except he doesn't have money or parents to buy him a bike.
then one day, after using the law of attraction, some random guy offers the kid a job. a small job. the job gives him just enough money for a bike.
and what does the kid do? he says "no thanks"
so no bike.
he continues to do the law of attraction to attract a bike. and cycle repeats. new opportunities appear every week that lead towards - bike. each time, he denies each opportunity. until eventually, YEARS later, someone dies and he inherits a bike.
the law of attraction is complicated. it is very similar to your goal setting. the big difference is, the FAVORABLE CIRCUMSTANCE.
if your circumstance is unfavorable for attaining something you want, the LOA works around it. it negates it. it creates it.
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I used the LOA to help me get a particular job, a career job. The thing about this career job is, you gotta first start at the bottom, then work your way up. But you can only work your way up, if there is an opportunity to. And lately, those opportunities were slim.
After about a week, people I barely knew working in the field, had lunch with a manger from a different company. And they spoke on my behalf. Not only was the manager willing to hire me, but guaranteed that I will be allowed to work my way up. Everything was set. All I had to do, was fill out the paper work. And in a couple of months, my income would have more than tripled.
Sad thing was, the very same day I decided I didn't want to go into this career anymore. And told my acquaintances, "thanks! but no thanks.." they were really confused. I felt kinda bad too, that they took the time out to do this for me
the time it took the LOA to nearly land me a job with me doing virtually nothing *a career paying job* - two weeks. The time it took me without the LOA to land a job while struggling, sending applications, going from interview and interview, even breaking down and crying in tears at how miserable and poor I was with no job - eight months. for a job that drove me up the wall.
the day I said thanks but no thanks, I walked away from two jobs. my current crappier job, and the career paying job. instead, I felt it was time to focus on my artwork. so my thoughts were only on my artwork, and being an artist. so later on the day, I go to my art store, which I shop at every month. and the boss was like "whats up!" and I was like "just left my old job but im excited!"
so the boss hands me an application and hes like "well if you want a job just bring it back. 40% off all art supplies for employees!!"
I didn't come to him asking him for a job, he gave me a choice of whether or not I wanted to work for him. ps. they were already fully staffed, he did not need another employee.
that day I recognized I had all my thoughts on being an artist. and what do I get? a job where I get art supplies for dirt cheap. I didn't ask for this job. I accepted the job because I felt, this is one of those unpredictable conditions that the LOA brings to you. Go with it, see where it takes you.
I used the LOA to get me a car. I wanted that car so badly. I said it was mine. I imagined it and envisioned it as mine. The next day it was. My family was in shock that I bought a new car, or rather that I qualified. The dealers told me with my income level it was 'not likely' that I would get the car. My sister didn't understand how I got the new car, when she was making double the income and couldn't afford even half the car that I have today.
But thats only the tip of the ice-burg. That hardly explains the ten year struggle my family has had with cars. My struggle..well..what struggle. After a single day of saying "me want car" I got car.
I took the LOA to the next step. I started to envision a desirable future, as happening right now. And that was moving out and living with my friends in an awesome house. My friends live in another city however, several hours away. And were we to combine our incomes, we can't even afford an apartment. Thats why I thought it was a 'future'.
Within the week me and my friends were playing WoW and out of the blue while battling some monster she was like "btw my parents talked to me last night and they want to buy me a house. would you like to move in?"
..what?? what you'd say? @_@. and I realized, I wasn't ready to move to another city. it was supposed to be my future, not...now.
My friend was shocked as well. She said her parents popped the question so randomnly. They have never spoken to her about buying her a house before.
My thoughts IMMEDIATELY changed, and I no longer desired to move to another city right this second. And, well, her parents haven't seemed to bring up this house business again. But the point was, I had a very REAL opportunity, to live in a house, in another city with my friends. An opportunity, that is impossible were I to try to do it myself. the LOA doesn't need that desirable condition, it makes it happen one way or the other.
A little word of advice for all LOA newbs, use it for what you are ready to accept in your life. I backed off the LOA a bit until I understood fully why moving out right now was so shocking. And it helped me realize, I don't feel I should move out and leave my family when they are not the best of situations right now.
the LOA has another nice affect. it helps expose things in your psyche that are getting in the way of your desires. And keeps you focused, very focused on what is most important to you.
the "magic" is HOW it happens, not that it does happen. You don't have to wait for the desirable condition to make those goals come true. It's not about hard work. Its about accepting something into your life.
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